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"My Dad Was the Pilot of the Space Shuttle Challenger"

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Twenty five years ago today, I was a gangly 14 year old 8th grader at Kleb Middle School in Spring, Texas. At 11:39 a.m., I was standing in the lunchroom with my friends eating greasy french fries, rectangular pizza, and drinking Mr. Pibb. My best friend's birthday had been the day before and we were busy planning a weekend celebration.

A girlfriend walked up to me from another group of kids gathering around one another and told me the Space Shuttle Challenger had exploded just after launch. And that was all we knew. I remember, in my awkwardness, not knowing exactly how to react. We definitely talked a lot about other launches but this one had been even more highly publicized because it carried a civilian. She was a young, beautiful teacher from Concord, New Hampshire who was taking the field trip of a life time.

I can still remember the smell of the cafeteria. The following hours and weeks filling with details including the especially cold weather that morning, the mechanics of the explosion, and the men and women America lost that day.

A year and a half ago, gathered around a kitchen island, our kids counting their loot from trick-or-treating, I remember the smell of taco soup as I got to know a new friend. We started talking about our families and how I'd lost my mom the year Tee was born. She'd lost her dad, too, but much younger than me. When I asked her how, she hesitated for just a second.

"My dad was the pilot of the Space Shuttle Challenger."

Challenger Crew
Crew of the Space Shuttle Challenger: January 28, 1986. Image via Wikimedia Commons.

She went on to tell about that day back in 1986 when she stood in the cold on bleachers in Cape Canaveral, Florida reserved for the immediate families of the astronauts.

She, her brother, and sister saw the explosion but didn't immediately know what had happened or that their father was gone.

How genuinely pained President Reagan was as they sat next to him at the memorial service.

And weeks later, when search teams found the crew cabin, she was told by a family friend and veteran astronaut who had tirelessly searched for the missing astronauts and was present at the recovery, that he held her daddy, how much he loved and admired him, and what a great, great man he was.

I sat mesmerized as my friend told me how loved her family felt by an entire country who had lost 8 shining stars. Letters came in sackfulls from around the world with words of prayer, admiration for her dad, and encouragement.

There are very few events that have occurred in my life where I actually remember so clearly the details of where I was. 9-11 was one, and the loss of the Challenger was another. Twenty five years is a long time but this date is important to remember for all of us.

My friend's daddy would be so proud of her and I'm thankful to know her. She's an amazing woman, wife, and mother. She's incredibly humble, and gracious, and loves the Lord. She has seen His grace and mercy in her life as she has leaned into the One who promises to be the Father to the fatherless.

"We will never forget them, or the last time we saw them, this morning, as they prepared for their journey and waved goodby and 'slipped the surly bonds of Earth' to 'touch the face of God'."

-President Ronald Reagan at the memorial service for the Challenger Crew
January 31, 1986

Melissa Hill
www.alongwayfromthethetahouse.com

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theoutcast 5 pts

I remember very clearly a teacher coming into our classroom to tell us the news.

Recently, I had seen the footage of teacher's parents as the shuttle exploded. It made me wonder about the families and the shock of that moment.

I appreciate that you letting us know about her. Their family's loss was so palatable for us who had so much excitement about that mission.

Heather blogs about Motherhood & Other Offensive Situations at http://www.ultimateoutcasts.com.

TelecommutingMom 5 pts

Very touching article. I lived in Orlando at the time and we always went outside during school to watch the launches. I remember this day very, very well and can only imagine the way family must have felt.

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swedishamericanmamma 5 pts

Can't say that I remember where I was since I lived in a different country, but it is crazy how we remember special moments like that. Even smells.

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Al_Pal 5 pts

Totally made me cry. ;p
Great post.

urban resources 5 pts

How sad that your friend lost her father that day. I can't even imagine what she would feel now about her dad. I mean he died that day, but died as a hero while doing what he loved.

What a crazy poetic way to go.

My heart goes to your friend. She and her dad will be remembered by me too thanks to your article.

Thanks for sharing this,

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Nordette Adams 6 pts

A very compelling piece of writing. Thank you.
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livingwithumami 5 pts

I often think about those families & their children. I was too young to understand the tragedy at the time. I remember in clear detail seeing the teachers in tears at the back of the library.

It still makes me cry to think about it.

Thank you for sharing.

xo, Shannon
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JennaHatfield 10 pts

Thank you for taking the time to share this story with us. I am deeply moved.

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and photographer.

Melissa Ford 5 pts

I got chills reading this. I remember exactly where I was. They had set up televisions in the pod and we were coming back from one of our specials -- a few minutes late. We were all talking and my teacher was leaning against the cart that held the television to hold herself up and she kept saying that they were all gone.

I remember going home and watching the news as if the story was going to change.

My heart is with your friend and her family on this anniversary.

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I Thought I Knew Mama 5 pts

I, too, remember exactly where I was when the Challenger exploded. It was the first major tragedy of my life that I can remember. Thank you for offering such a unique perspective on that day.

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Morgan Shanahan 6 pts

Such a beautiful post. I'm so glad you shared this.

I also remember. Mrs. Schneider's 2nd grade class, watching the launch on TV.

muffintopmommy 5 pts

What a beautiful post...God bless your friend and her family. I too will never forget where I was, or the look on my teacher's face....7th grade Bio class. So awful.