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Online Nice Guy Justin Long and the Internet Writer's Oath

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We live in a world of deadlines, and the online world has only increased the number of those self-imposed and work-dictated deadlines. If you're not racing to be the first person to break the news, you're racing to be the first person to write the best commentary on it. We don't thoughtfully examine a controversial tweet and pause for a few hours to consider our response. We jump on it -- shooting from the hip (and sometimes taking casualties when words are spewed without thinking things through to their ends). If something is hot, you post it immediately rather than letting it sit in your draft folder over night. And sometimes, our desire to be first, to be clever, to be the most read leads to flame wars.

Actor Justin Long attends the premiere of the motion picture biographical thriller Conviction , at the Academy of Motion Picture Arts & Sciences in Beverly Hills, California on October 5, 2010.  UPI/Jim Ruymen Photo via Newscom

A case in point is the review of Justin Long and Drew Barrymore's new movie, Going the Distance, written by Michelle Orange in an 18-hour period between seeing the film and filing the review for Movieline. She didn't like the film, and she ended up bashing the people who were in it, writing scathingly of Barrymore's eye make-up and Long's features.

And Long spoke about it on Jimmy Fallon's show, quoting what she wrote about his face word for word. And as she heard her words spoken back to her -- by the man she wrote them about, whom she hadn't considered might read the review -- she felt like sinking into the floor.

Orange explains how she rethought her actions after she found out about Long's comments:

I am acutely aware that, as recovering internet mean person Emily Gould recently put it, “it often feels as though whatever writing spotlight still exists belongs to whoever can be the most abrasive or pandering.” For working critics, it can seem like the ebbing tide has lowered all boats; there’s an option available now that wasn’t there before, and no one’s going to stop you from using it -- if anything it’s encouraged; in some fields it’s the competitive option, a way to attract attention and keep the vicious commentariat appeased -- or sliding inexorably toward it. That’s on you, and vigilance is required if you want to maintain a sense of identity and purpose uninfected by the internet’s constitutional grammar of incivility.

The problem is that being a critic is no longer a job that requires training and daily consideration about how the subject will receive the words. Anyone can be a critic -- and many of us are critics in the very public, very searchable forums of the Internet. Justin Long doesn't just have to endure what Variety and the New York Times and Premiere magazine thinks. He now also can read what Amy in Chicago and Moviegrrl in Seattle think about his film. And beyond that, what they think about his film, his voice, and his ass. Because while the New York Times has a series of standards for their reviews, personal blogs do not.

Though maybe they should.

Perhaps it's time yet again to think about setting some etiquette rules for the Internet -- ones that can be used by any publication since it certainly isn't personal bloggers who are responsible for all the thoughtless comments strewed across the Internet (a case in point, Orange was writing for Movieline).

You can add your own amendments (like a founding foremother in the same way those dudes argued out the Constitution) in the comment section, but I think we need to start with this statement I drafted:

The Internet Writer's Oath

As writers, we need to take a long look at the concept of nonmaleficence, that maxim doctors utter (primum non nocere) and apply it to our use of words: first, do no harm. Which does not mean that a surgeon can't cut the skin, obviously bringing the person's life into danger, but instead, having writers thinking like doctors means that we take into consideration that we are all humans, we are all emotional beings, and for the love, words hurt.

So in that regard, we promise that whenever we hit publish, we will

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Candelaria Silva 5 pts

Don't know so much about the oath but I do think this post is important. It is difficult as a writer and blogger not to try to top oneself by being clever. If you're vying for hits, print space, and notoriety, it always seems the more clever/snarky/sound-bitey you are, the more hits you'll get.

A friend of mine stopped being a music critic and will only review things now because of some of the harm he did in print while a wee young man with bold opinions and little knowledge.

I do think one can criticize without cutting. I do think that if one watches a lot of films, it becomes hard to imagine what a more average movie-goer would enjoy. A critic must need to be more dazzled than those of us who are not critics.

I think that individually, we have to develop our own sense of integrity being fully aware that a lot of other writers don't have it and may get a lot more "play" because they don't.

Both Justin Long and Michelle Orange are to be congratulated for revisiting their opinions, being willing to share their thinking and ideas (yes, ideas!), and letting us see dialogue and resolution. for that reason, I'm glad she wrote the post she did and that he responded in such public fashion.
Still learning and growing in this internet world.

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Good and plenty!

Lisa Stone 6 pts

Kudos to Justin Long for taking the conversation to higher ground, and to Michelle Orange for talking about this stuff.
- She wrote something awful about another human being's DNA and she's owning it.
- He has rare writing chops--tone! nuance! --and the online know-how to wield them to his advantage.

Takeaways:
- Ms. Orange proved that not only male reviewers assume they can and should judge beauty for the rest of us.
- Mr. Long's face could fall off tomorrow and an entire legion of fans would still call him handsome (see the comments). Aside: My sons, ages 14 and 10, enduring the bullying season of 'tween and teendom, worship the guy for his roles in Galaxy Quest, Die Hard III, etc. I can't wait to share this exchange with them so they can see how he handled cruelty with class and confidence. Now that's hot.

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

Definitely -- though I would say that ethical situations fall into a different category entirely. And that it's very different to write about a company and the way they conduct business than it is to write about an individual and make it personal.

I don't think Orange's review would have been taken this way if she had stuck to critiquing performances or the writing of the film. But she strayed into describing Long's features -- and that's when it crossed the line.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

JennaHatfield 9 pts

I would agree with this in almost any situation involving an individual -- famous or not. However, I won't attempt to contact the unethical agency through which I placed before I blog about their unethical practices. Not going to happen. They let me know, long ago, that they weren't interested in what I had to say or in playing fair or in being polite. So I will continue whistle-blowing that company.

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.