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Leaving Behind the Disposables (Cloth Diapering the Easy Way)

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When I was a kid, all my friends had Cabbage Patch dolls with cute disposable diapers.  My doll was a knock-off, purchased with guilded intentions by my father with money given him by my grandma.  Never send a middle-aged man to do a consumer-capitalist-child's job, I guess, but at any rate, my doll had a cloth diaper.  Her head also fell off frequently and after a report that some counterfit dolls were stuffed with kerosene-soaked rags, I was forbidden from sleeping with her.  No, not traumatic or anything.  Ha ha ha.  And not to mention that I think the guilt (both of getting me a faulty doll and of doing something illegal -- even if by mistake) stayed with him till his dying day.  Anyway, this is a tangent.  Back to the point of my entry.

My mother refused to get disposable diapers for my dolls, and instead showed me how to fold cloth diapers.  I was an outcast even before I grew up.  

Years later, I remember ranting to my mom about how unfair it was that the paper-product industry had women over a barrel because we had to buy pads or tampons for our periods.  

A few years after that, my mom and I were in Olympia, WA checking out a college when we stumbled on Glad Rags, washable menstrual pads.  Amazed, and slightly grossed out (recalling Mom's stories of how her friend had to use rags while staying with Italian nuns in a remote area of Sudan (or Kenya, can't recall which)), we decided to buy the Glad Rag and see how it worked.  I have to say that I had mixed results, but I bled through disposable pads anyway, so it didn't really make much of a difference at first.  I suspect using cloth may have helped to lighten my flow, but I am not sure.  And, breastfeeding for nearly three years now, I've only had two or three periods in the past four years now anyway.

So, point being, that I found out pretty easily that not only were there many, many cloth diaper users around "these days," but also that cloth had evoloved into many, many, many varations to make it "easier" to diaper with cloth.  Better for baby, better for momma earth, sounds good.  So, while pregnant, I ebay'd a collection of various diapers.  Many were "just like disposable" types (either All-In-Ones or Pocket Diapers), made for ease of use.  These run about $15-25 a piece.  When a typical stash of diapers is about 24-36, that is a lot of moolah.  

With our third anniversary of cloth diapering quickly approaching (January!), I have found myself LMAO the past couple of weeks after a friend suggested I take flats (flat fold, read: a piece of cloth surged or hemmed) and PUL diaper covers on our upcoming trip, to save $$ on dryer usage.  So, she and I whipped up a bunch of new covers and quickly discovered that receiving blankets make excellent flats.  My diapered baby will be six months next week and she will be sporting whole new stash which probably is worth a grand total of ... $150 and that is being a bit generous.  Granted, if I did not have a sewing genius with a snap press for a friend, I would not be so lucky with the covers, but even so, I could have gone to the local diaper swap and picked some up last weekend on the cheap.

Now, I knew about prefolds and snappi's with Gerber vinyl pants as a cheap option, but they can make a baby awefully clamy and it is kind of gross because the whole diaper gets soaked.  Having said that, the blanket-diaper system we've developed in our home-based R&D "lab" is not all that different, but, by virtue of the snaps, if there is a messy poop, it won't get all over legs on the way down and it is possible to remove a diaper touching only the PUL (oh, sorry, that's a laminated plastic bonded to either broad cloth or polyester).  I just think it is so funny, because most families end up with more blankies then they know what to do with -- especially if you have a spring or summer baby like we did this time 'round.  Oh, and I just gave a bunch I borrowed (because we homebirthed and needed a bunch on hand for the birth) back.  I had gotten some from Freecycle too.

SO, my tip of the day for expecting parents

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UnderCoverMother 5 pts

can be difficult!  Let me see if I can help...

First off, $30 on Luvs a month might be cheaper if your baby's almost out of diapers anyway, but an investment in a few covers and a couple dozen prefolds (or blankets in this case) when baby is still only a few months old can certainly be cheaper.  There are more articles on this stuff now than days in the year at this point, and there is a plethora of types of diapers, and a plethora of manufactuers.  

IF one is looking to "convert" from disposables for environmental/health reasons, than the easiest thing is to use an "AIO" or All In One, such as Bumkins or a "Pocket" like FuzziBunz or BumGenius.  I mention these types because they're pretty widely sold and most people have only good things to say.  I'm not a huge BG fan because they didn't hold up for two children and cost as much as FBs.  I'm not a huge FB fan b/c they gapped on my skinny baby's legs, but that is the biggest problem with cloth and why there are so many types -- no body is the same shape as any other.  Disposables get around this with two layers of gussets (the ruffly part) and stretch tabs that can go like a half a mile or stay very short.

Fitted diapers require a waterproof cover, like prefolds or flats (blankets).  Waterproof covers can be PUL (basically a plastic laminated to either woven cloth or polyester) or lanolin-treated wool, and come with snaps or velcro.  Velcro is great for fit, or if you have carpal tunnel or somesuch, snaps are popular because they don't get stuck on other clothing while putting them on, or on other diapers (in the wash).  As far as fitteds go, I LOVE Motherease, they're terrycloth and they make a regular fitted which is lovely, and a one-size which works quite well from about 10lbs to 30+/- lbs.

So, the reason why there are a million types and why no one can tell you what will definately work for you is that no one else has your baby!  Sorry.  I know that part is frustrating -- and you don't even have a diaper yet!  It is a bit like asking friends for advice on bras, it may be enough to get you to a store and try some on, but their perfect bra may not work for your shape or lifestyle.

Having said all of that, if you want functional and cheap (and, generally the fit is a non-issue this way as well), invest in a couple of covers at about $15-20 each and then a dozen prefolds (at around $3 each) or diapers (I'd have to check amazon to see what they're selling for)... I will check back at some point and put the math in and get a total here, but I do think I 've seen folks get a "stash" together for about $300 or so (10 months of Luvs).

I have more to say, but baby is calling me... Good luck and I'll get back to you!!

TheFeministBreeder 5 pts

For the life of me, I cannot figure out cloth diapering.  I've been trying for nearly a year. I can't sew, so making them is a joke.  And every site I read that tries to explain how "easy" it is just ends up making my head pound.  Why does it take 4000 words to explain what a pre-fold is, then end the last paragraph by saying "well, just get some different ones and try them out.. then you'll see."  That's USELESS INFORMATION!!!!

It also seems like this is terribly expensive compared to the $30 per MONTH I spend on Luvs.  So how women figure out cloth diapering has become somewhat of an obsession of mine - which I blogged about today (which is how I found you.)

Why is it so hard?  And why can't ANYONE just tell me what we need to make it work?  Perhaps people continue to use disposables because there's no great riddle involved; show up at Target, throw a box in the cart.  Pretty simple. 

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