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Legally, MySpace Mom Not Guilty of Much in Megan Meier Case

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Lori DrewThe verdict is in on Lori Drew, 49, the Missouri "MySpace Mom" accused of setting up a fake account to taunt 13-year-old Megan Meier, reports CNN. More than 2000 news stories have hit the web since the verdict came down in this case that some litigation and civil liberties experts believed could establish legal precedents on "cyberbullying."

A lead on one of The Los Angeles Times stories about the case in its technology section reads as follows:

A federal jury delivered a mixed verdict today convicting a Missouri mother of misdemeanor charges in a nationally watched cyber-bullying case in which the woman was accused of using a fake MySpace account to torment a teenage girl who later committed suicide.

The jurors, however, rejected more serious felony charges against Lori Drew, 49, who was involved in a hoax on 13-year-old Megan Meier. The panel deadlocked on a conspiracy count. (LAT)

The story quotes Drew's attorney, H. Dean Steward, to say that it was a "compromise verdict" and that he believes "the U.S. attorney's office never should have brought this case," calling the verdict also a "message from the jury."

In the end, while she faces penalties, Drew was convicted of what--playing around on MySpace? She was not indicted for premeditated murder nor negligent homicide and faces, per The LA Times story, "anywhere from probation to three years in prison."

The Meier story at Wired calls the ruling a "slap-on-the-wrist verdict" and its blogger Kim Zettner suspects Drew will serve little if any time. She writes, "jurors found Drew guilty only of three counts of gaining unauthorized access to MySpace for the purpose of obtaining information on Megan Meier ... ." More from Wired:

After just over a day of deliberation, the six-man, six-woman jury acquitted Drew of three felony charges of violating the federal Computer Fraud and Abuse Act ... The jury unanimously rejected the three felony computer hacking charges that alleged the unauthorized access was part of a scheme to intentionally inflict emotional distress on Megan. ...

The novel use of the statute was criticized by numerous legal experts who said the case set a "scary" precedent and potentially made a felon out of anyone who violates the terms-of-service of any website.

But testimony in the case offered by prosecution witness Ashley Grills under a grant of immunity showed that nobody involved in the hoax actually read the terms of service. Grills also said that the hoax was her idea, not Drew's, and that it was Grills who created the Josh Evans profile, and later sent the cruel message that tipped the emotionally vulnerable 13-year-old girl into her final, tragic act.(Wired)

megan meierOn November 18, 2007, I wrote a post for BlogHer.com about 13-year-old Megan Taylor Meier's suicide, how bloggers outed Lori Drew after mainstream media opted not to reveal her name in order to protect her daughter, Sarah Drew, a friend of Megan's who became a frienemy. Back then news sources said witnesses alleged that Lori Drew, also a neighbor and friend of the Meier family, had, with the assistance of her own daughter and another teen (Ashley Grills) had established a fake MySpace.com account for a fictitious dream boy, "Josh Evans," and convinced Megan that the new boy in town liked her.

Then it was alleged that Drew sat back as the hoax turned into an ugly game of teasing Megan. Finally its players delivered a fatal kick to the girl's fragile ego, having "Josh" reject her.

Sources report that the hoax morphed:

Complications arose when another neighborhood girl obtained the password for the "Josh Evans" account and sent messages to Megan saying Josh no longer wanted to be friends with her. A dispute erupted and on Oct. 16, 2006, Grills typed a message telling Megan "that the world would be a better place without (her) in it." (CNN)

Twenty minutes later, say sources, Megan Meier hung herself in her bedroom closet. She died in the hospital the next day.

Here is video of one of the early television stories on her death and its circumstances:



In my first post, I asked "When should cyberbullying be considered a crime?" I also explored online shaming, the type faced

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Candelaria Silva 5 pts

Well-written and thoughtful post, Nordette.

This case reminds me of the Texas cheerleader homicide and it gets me to thinking about entitlement and helicoptor parenting and lots of other things.

The computer is an instrument for good, mundane and evil and parents have to be vigilant especially with teenagers in terms of its use.  Teens and tweens need to understand what true friendships are and helped to develop skills not to get attached to someone who may not be really-real.  Until you mean someone in real space and time, in some ways they don't really exist. 

Back in the old day sof reading dating books, I came across some stat that said that most people could keep up a positive facade or ruse for only about nine months.  After that span of time, they tended to reveal their true selves.

Information about attraction, love, relationships, handling rejection, etc., have to be taught to our children.  Unfortunatley, there are some flawed parents who want to fight their children's battles and who don't want their children to face any disappointment at all.

This is a tragedy and I think the punishment was inadequate.

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Good and plenty!

airrikajswan 5 pts

I didnt read your whole post but I wish they would have made an example out of this woman. It's so sad. I'm crying right now. ugh. people disgust me!

Nordette Adams 6 pts

Thank you for commenting, Shelley. 

Nordette ( http://blogher.org/blog/nordette ) is a Contributing Editor with BlogHer.com whose personal blog is WSATA ( http://bigsole.blogspot.com ).

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shelleyp 5 pts

I've been busy commenting at other sites on this issue, particularly at St. Louis Today. I also live in St. Louis, Missouri, so we've heard much on this story.

There's also been some very effective writing on this issue among various legal blogs. 

This incident and the resulting trial have not led to the best of online discussions, which is unfortunate, because we do need to have rational, unemotional talks about what this means to all of us who spend time online. It's difficult to have any form of intelligent discussion because of the emotional reactions of the participants. And the rumors, including the Megan Had it Coming site, have obscured most of the facts associated with the event and case.

In addition, this issue isn't about one simple topic. For instance, one could break the discussion into several questions:

How safe is it for kids, and the vulnerable, at social networking sites?

Should we consider stronger legislation to protect younger people, and if we do, what can we potentially lose?

Was it appropriate to stretch what is a hacker law to cover cyberbullying?

What about the parents, and their responsibility?

What are the legal ramifications to allowing companies to create "law", by including failure to follow site ToS under the computer fraud act? What are the legal ramifications of the misdemeanor ruling?

Finally, what is the back story to this case? We want our villians to be pure evil, and our good guys to be saints, but neither is true in this case--which hasn't stopped a lot of webloggers from assuming the worst, at all times.

Then there's the issue of death threats and the like against Lori Drew, all in the name of fighting back against cyber bullying. Yeah, the hypocrisy of this one doesn't escape most people.

The case is not over. The defense will wait until after the judge, who acted erratically in this case, to do sentencing, on December 29th. Then, chances are, the defense team will appeal the three misdemeanor convictions, because as this conviction now implies, if you violate a TOS, you could be criminally liable. 

I'm writing an in-depth summary of the events, the trial, and the issues, as I perceive them, in my space. Eventually. I don't want to rush, and I want to think about what I want to say. When I do, I'm turning off comments for the writing.