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Legislation Would Eliminate Funding for Abstinence-Only Programs

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Good news for those of us who want to equip students with knowledge that prepares them for life: According to Ms Magazine, legislation introduced by Senator Frank Lautenberg (D-NJ) and Congresswoman Barbara Lee (D-CA) will eliminate federal funding for abstinence-only programs if enacted.

As Lee explained, "The issues of unplanned pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections among our young people have reached a critical level. The best and most responsible way to protect them is through comprehensive sex education." The bill provides $50 million annually for “comprehensive, evidence-based programs that include information not only on abstinence, but also on contraceptives and sexually transmitted infections.” I even love the program’s acronym, PREP (for Personal Responsibility Education Program), because that’s what good sex ed does -- it preps people for life.

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I can understand the view of abstinence-only advocates that teens are not really ready -- emotionally and/or physically -- to have sex. I don’t necessarily agree with it, although whenever I want to amuse myself, I think back to my early to mid-teen years. I was a rabid “wait-until-marriage” type of girl. (Then I decided that I didn’t want to get married and I had to reevaluate my stance on the issue, as I was pretty sure I didn’t want to be celibate forever, but that’s another story.) I knew that I wasn’t ready and that it would be a disaster for me to have sex with someone who later broke up with me. (Not that marriages don’t end, but that’s also another story.)

However, at some point in life, the vast majority of people become sexually active. Abstinence-only sex education does not prepare people for the long term by telling them not to have sex until they are married and everything will be just fine. What? It’s like teaching kids geometry, but withholding the Pythagorean theorem because they don’t need to know it until later, so why bother at all. It is foolish, counterproductive, and a huge waste of money.

On top of that, we know that abstinence-only education is a grand scale failure when it comes to dissuading teens from having sex. As Catherine Morgan reported in December 2007, teen pregnancy was on the rise that year despite the increased federal funding for abstinence-only education. On the flip side, California reduced it’s teen pregnancy rate dramatically, and a June 2010 report by the Guttmacher Foundation reminds readers that it was the only state to never accept federal money for abstinence-only programming. Hmmm...

Now that we are flipping back to the “knowledge is power” side of the education coin, many people are excited. At Smile Politely, a group of teens wrote:

Congress should create policy that addresses real-life situations, not politics. And that's what PREP does. PREP is based on what teens really need, which is education and information. If teens don't have information, then they can't protect themselves. That's just common sense, and that's why the PREP program and effective sex education is critical to the future of this country.

Many teens are already taking action when it comes to protecting themselves. According to the New York Times teens are reporting that they use condoms more often than adults. (Of course, if 80% of young men report using a condom the last time he had sex but only 69% of young women do, there’s something fishy.) Hopefully, the new comprehensive sex education funding will change this for the better, helping sexually active teens make the choice to use condoms 100% of the time and helping those who choose to wait until later in life to have to make safe, healthy decisions when they become sexually active.

Suzanne also blogs at Campaign for Unshaved Snatch (CUSS) & Other Rants and is the author of Off the Beaten (Subway) Track.

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hayley.j 5 pts

oh, i really hope this passes. i understand how conservative parents could be outraged, but i hope that they can get passed that and realize that teens will have sex, so let's help them be safe! i am so glad that i went to a school that did NOT teach abstinence only. i was lucky enough to have open friends and even parents, but some kids are not, and unfortunately they become the young moms, or contract STD's :(

ModaMama 5 pts

I don't believe that educating teens about sex is more likely to push them to have sex, and so I really appreciate the educator who commented that teens do choose for themselves with the information they've been handed.

Scary but despite emotional immaturity and a host of life altering consequences, kids have sex. What a disservice to them to not have given them enough information to protect themselves and their futures. Really, your giving your teens a loaded gun with no instruction and sending them out into the world of other loaded guns saying "Don't shoot it." Not odds I would want to take.

Education needs to be an extension of a conversation that starts at home.

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theresa46 5 pts

Until we, us , the whole world protect the weakest link in the chain of life, which is our unborn, we are heading to anniliation as a human race!!!!!!
The fruit of abortion is nuclear war,,,,Mother Theresa.

Kristy Dolha 5 pts

I have had the good fortune of teaching sex ed to teenagers, and from my experience I've seen a lot of young people choosing abstinence...and a lot of young people not. Either way, it is clear to me that they all want the information, but most do not know how to go about accessing accurate information on their own. By giving them the tools, we are giving them the ability to make responsible choices.

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MsAdventuress 5 pts

Most teens are not ready for, and do not know (cannot know...they are not emotionally developed enough) if they want all the components which come along with, sex. Kids are also most often confused with mixed messages, media, and they look to the adults to tell them what's possible. But they do know their body feels good if it's touched a certain way and that they want to feel some kind of acceptance and love. (Drugs, alcohol, etc. feel really good, too.)

Most teens do not have the skills to carry out a committed, loving relationship. They simply have not yet had the time to develop their brains or mature their interactive skills...no matter how mature they may seem, for their age.

There is a difference between exposure to life/sex and maturity about life/sex.

Many adults (teaching sex ed and parenting teens) also too often say abstinence is not possible with, "Well, kids are going to do what kids are going to do, so we might as well load them up with condoms." Hence, the children believe, yet again, that this is their accepted reality.

Another downside to this is that most adults (medical professionals, sex ed instructors and parents alike) are completely unaware of the medical data that explains how Herpes is spreadable, whether or not condoms are used...and via oral sex. They are also too often unaware that Herpes 1 located on the mouth can transfer down to and cause the same genital symptoms as Herpes 2. Most adults are also unaware that 90% of those infected with Herpes are unaware they are infected, due to being asymptomatic, and thus they pass it along as they go...while believing they're safe sex partners. Then their partners contract it and either do or do not have lifetime symptoms, which either do or do not activate right away. It's a crapshoot for everyone. And this is just one STD we're talking about. The list goes on...

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lauracarroll 5 pts

Ending federal funding for abstinence-only programs and redistributing $50 million annually for comprehensive programs is great news for teens. Studies sure show that when you give teens information they use it to make responsible decisions. Not only is contraceptive and STI education invaluable, but so is teaching kids self-responsibility and self-reliance, which these kind of program encourage.

Laura
Families of Two
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Suzanne 5 pts

Of course it is possible to abstain from having sex if a person doesn't feel ready or want to do it. No reliable sex ed program anywhere teaches that abstinence is not a possible, viable, and good option, whether you already had sex or not. Most even talk about how it is often the best option for young people. However, it also says that if you make a different choice for whatever reason, here's what you need to know. That's what comprehensive sex ed is about - helping kids make informed decisions and teaching them to become adults who also make informed decisions.

I would argue, however, that most people are not going to practice abstinence for their whole lives. If that's all a sex ed program teaches people, then they are not prepared for life, just a stage of life. That seems foolish.

Suzanne also blogs at Campaign for Unshaved Snatch (CUSS) & Other Rants ( http://cussandotherrants.com ) and is the author of Off the Beaten (Subway) Track ( http://offthebeatensubwaytrack.com ).

MsAdventuress 5 pts

Abstinence from sex, while still a child, was a healthy concept for me to grasp and follow. If the adults said it was possible, I believed and followed. It helped tremendously that they showed graphic photos of STDs, pregnancies gone wrong and the emotional toll all of this and breakups wreak. Thank goodness it wasn't until later that I began hearing adults tell kids abstinence is not possible...or I would have believed that as a child instead. Gah. I know this isn't easy, but teaching kids to believe in protecting themselves is so important. This phrase helped kids I know...and it was never too late to say it...especially to the kids wandering around having sex left and right...in fact, they appreciated hearing that they didn't have to keep having sex, as they were told it was the normal way to grow up...

"Adult behaviors are meant to be saved for adulthood. It's what makes adulthood so special. And once an adult, the following detailed safety precautions are necessary...(insert sex ed)..."

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KMayer 5 pts

As the condom mom who keeps a Costco size supply in the closet for all teenagers who come calling, I've found consistently that those most apt to take them, are the Card-carrying-virginity-promise-ring wearing-not-unti- I'm-married-types. I'm so proud of them for following their brains with science when their conscience and hormones won't say no.

Kathy (p/t copywriter, f/t mom)

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