Blog
Paramomal
Bio
26 year old mother of one, possibly insane, seeks an audience of one or more (preferrably the latter) to read the brilliant things she writes. Read m...
 
 
 
 

Most Popular

Let him cry

  • Share This Post
  • Pin It
  • 1
  • Sparkle (
    )
     

I really, REALLY, hate it when my husband is right. This is probably mostly due to the fact that I don't like to admit when I'm wrong. Me, wrong? Psh. Sadly, it turns out that I can't be right all of the time and, though I often like to boast of my mad intuition and superspectacular parenting skills to those who feel the need to offer me free advice, even I can fall prey to the beguiling of my precious.

Yesterday that demon-baby whined and whined and then he whined some more. First I thought that surely something must be wrong. He is the child who is happy. EVERYONE talks about it.

"He is the happiest baby I've ever seen!"

"Oh look at him; he's SO happy!"

Smiles and coos and adoration from all who cross his path. So if he is taking the whole day to whine, there must be something amiss. I started to get the picture when the whining would cease if I held him or spent 30 minutes rocking him to sleep so that he could nap for 20 minutes. I guess I just wasn't ready to admit it. He woke me up about a bajillion times last night and this morning my head is pounding and I'm quite sleep deprived. When my husband got home he said he could tell that I was really worn out "from the way you were sleeping." So, he left me alone for awhile and watched the little guy for me. But eventually his whining broke through my sleep and I got up.

"You're spoiling him. He's whining so much because you jump up and get him every time."

"Whatever Daniel."

So, Daniel goes to bed and I decide that Walker is tired because his eyes are red and he's rubbing them and he's whiney as can be.

"Time for bed, Little Guy." And I haul him to his room.

Let the SCREAMINGCRYING commence. I decide that I will give Daniel's way a try. I let him cry. It seemed like HOURS. It was actually only about 15 minutes. And suddenly, his screaming crying was giving way to rest.

Oh MY GOD HE'S SLEEPING. As I type these very words, he is sleeping. There is peace in my house.

I hate my husband.

  • 1
  • Sparkle (
    )
     

Comments

Post comment as twitter logo facebook logo
Sort: Newest | Oldest
fitzgeraldpowers 5 pts

I'm with ya!  We let our son cry it out after eight months of waking up between 2-5 times a night.  He always went down fine, but woke wake up to hang out with Mom.  AYEE!  

Mommy doesn't play peek a boo at 3am.  It's tough, but I blogged about it http://letthewildrumpusstart.typepad.com/let-the-w... ( http://letthewildrumpusstart.typepad.com/let-the-w... ) .  

It's no fun, but good for you for getting through it!