
Hi everybody,
I’m excited to be posting on BlogHer. Not only because blogging is something I’ve actually been able to beat my daughters to; but because it gives me the opportunity to tell you a little bit about them, my husband, myself, and our experiences traveling all over this great country.
Over the course of this campaign, I’ve been hosting roundtable discussions with working women all across America. I’m there to talk about my husband, of course – but more importantly, I’m there to listen. We talk about what it’s like to play multiple roles at once and what it’s like to feel stretched thin between the demands of a career and family.
And of course, we talk about our children. How they’re the first thing we think about when we wake up in the morning, and the last thing we think about when we go to bed at night. I know that no matter where I am – work, the campaign trail, wherever – my girls are always on my mind.
What I find is that our stories are similar. But what I also hear at each roundtable is that women are struggling. They are working hard and playing by the rules, doing the most important job of raising the next generation, but somehow can never get ahead. They’re desperate for change.
I’ve heard from mothers struggling to make ends meet because their salaries aren’t keeping up with the cost of groceries. But if they take a second job, they can’t afford the additional cost of childcare. Or the moms who are nervous about taking time from their jobs to care for a sick child. Or the moms-to-be who are scared of getting fired if the boss finds out they’re pregnant.
Then there are women who work hard every day doing the same jobs as men, but earning less. And the military families, who struggle to make ends meet with one paycheck where there used to be two. They welcome their loved ones home with full hearts but little support from their government for their service.
I hear similar stories everywhere I go. These struggles – the struggles of working women and families across America – aren’t new to me or to any of us. And they’re certainly not new to Barack.
He was raised by two strong, working women – his mother and his grandmother. Growing up, he saw his single mother put herself through school while raising him and his sister alone. She was determined to show them that in America, there are no barriers to success if you’re willing to work for it. But he also saw her struggle to make ends meet, at times worrying about how she would pay the bills.
He saw his grandmother, the primary breadwinner for his family, work her way up at a bank. But he also saw how, once she got to a certain level, she hit a glass ceiling despite her hard work and abilities. He saw that she was passed over and underpaid, a problem that persists today for too many women.
And he sees me, his wife, trying to juggle jobs and raise kids; often feeling like when I’m with the kids, I’m shortchanging work, and when I’m at work or campaigning, I’m shortchanging the kids. I know you understand these struggles. Barack understands them too.
That’s why he’s worked to give families the tools they need to make a better life for their kids for over twenty years – from his years in Chicago working with a group of churches to help families devastated when local steel plants shut down; to the Illinois State Senate, where he worked to move families from welfare to work and expand early childhood education and child health care; to his fights in the U.S. Senate for equal pay and a fair economy.
As President, he’ll continue these fights. And he’ll build an economy that rewards work over wealth, ensures a world-class education, and creates quality, affordable health care for everyone who wants it.
He’ll do all this because he’s determined to change Washington so that instead of just talking about family values, we actually have policies that value families. Policies that actually make it easier for women to support, care for, and raise their families without having to choose between their kids and their careers.
I’ll be honest – when Barack first told me he was thinking about running for President, I had mixed feelings. I worried about my girls and what a campaign might do to their lives. I wanted the best life possible for them, and a presidential campaign wasn’t part of that equation.
But then I thought about it. And the world I want for them is a world where they’re paid fairly and equally for their work; where they don’t have to choose between kids and careers; where they can dream without limits without a glass ceiling standing in their way. And I realized that if that’s the world I want for them, then I had to do my part to elect someone like my husband.
We all need to do our part to keep women’s issues at the forefront of the national debate. That’s why communities like BlogHer are so important. It’s not just a forum or sounding board; it’s an energetic space that lets women know they’re not alone. It’s our own national virtual roundtable. But we need to take these online conversations offline as well. I’ll do my part, and so will Barack. But we need you all too.
Thanks for allowing me to post here. I plan to continue blogging – and listening.
Comments
Welcome, Michelle!
Thank you for adding your voice and perspective to this inspiring community of women. I look forward to your posts. Thanks for also being such a strong, positive role model (just the way you are) for myself, my daughters, all women.
Yes we can! Obama '08!
Stefania Pomponi Butler
I blog:
CityMama
Kimchi Mamas
MOMocrats
Welcome
So glad to have you join the BlogHer community, Michelle! I hope you will use this blog as a platform for personal expression, not just underlining the feminine aspects of the campaign. Many of us are very interested in your unique experience and hearing about it helps us learn to trust you and your husband as people.
May I suggest you look to Elizabeth Edwards a model for achieving the delicate balance between openness and privacy. I don't agree with her on everything, but have been impressed with how well she "gets" the Internet.
By the way, I just recently learned that you and Barack were involved in founding Public Allies Chicago. I was in the founding class of Public Allies North Carolina ('95)!
Welcome Michelle!
We're thrilled to have you blogging here at BlogHer.
You really hit home for me when you wrote, "We talk about what it’s like to play multiple roles at once and what it’s like to feel stretched thin between the demands of a career and family."
Covering your husband's campaign and Senator McCain's has offered me amazing opportunities, but also tugs at me when I leave my 3-year old and 5-year old at home.
Welcome Michelle, I'm glad to have yet another voice here at BlogHer that I can identify with.
Politics & News Contributing Editor
Queen of Spain
Welcome and I sure hear you
I'm so glad you're blogging, and that you're posting here!
I agree with you about keeping women's issues in the mix. And also, making sure women's voices are heard loud and clear in politics, on all issues.
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Liz Henry
lizzard@bookmaniac.net
Contributing Editor, World and Latin America
Now am really upset I couldn't make it to the
conference
Hi Ms. Obama.
First, I think you're going to like this :
The presumptive First Lady Of the United States (get used to it)
http://www.culturekitchen.com/liza/image/the_presumptive_first_lady_of_t...
So many people have told me they love that image it's ridiculous.
Second, thanks for being here. It was tough trying to wrangle any of the primary candidates or spouses last year. Am glad your here today.
Third, I hope your communications director is open to you having a either a conference call or chat with the top Latina political bloggers in the country. None of us, unfortunately, couldn't make it to BlogHer this year. We are also part of The Sanctuary group [ http://thesanctuary.soapblox.com ] that released a questionnaire to all the presidential candidate, including Senator Obama, and which has gone unanswered for well over a month by both front-runners.
We are :
Vivir Latino (Maegan Ortiz)
Latina Lista (Marisa Treviño)
Progressive Christians (Kety Esquivel)
The Sanctuary (Dreamer and Sylvia)
culturekitchen (Liza Sabater)
We would love to be able to talk to you (and eventually your husband) by the time of the convention (Meagan and I will be there) or before the elections. And we are more than happy to include other of our political blogging sisters from other parts of the blogosphere.
Enjoy yourself if you're hanging out at BlogHer. Make sure you meet Shireen Mi of Digital Sistas and Maria Niles of ConsumerPop.
Whatever you do, watch out for that Erin Kotecki-Vest. She's a handful :)
Cheers and bienvenida,
Liza Sabater, Publisher
http://culturekitchen.com
http://dailygotham.com
Ha! Liza!
I am NOT a handful! Ok...maybe I am.
But in all seriousness, isn't it nice to have so many strong and opinionated women around?
Politics & News Contributing Editor
Queen of Spain
Yes you are a handful Erin, but Liza may be
the original
Great to have you back here Liza, after all your terrific support as an advisor to BlogHer Conference '05 and '06.
Lisa Stone
BlogHer Co-founder
Surfette
i never really left
life got in the way. i've been trying to make time to blog about it and cross-post it. many mammas here would totally understand.
but today is about Ms. Obama being at Blogher.
has Ms. McCain dropped by as well?
That's why you're The Queen!
and yes, there's no community of women like this one. what the triumvirate have built here is awesome :)
Another Reason to Vote for Obama
Thank you for taking the time to blog, Michelle. I look forward to more of your insights!
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Great addition - don't be a stranger ;)
Hi Michelle,
Welcome to a great site - I hope you are able to check in during the Summer and Fall campaign.
While I'm male and unemployed (looking for a fun gig that pays me too much), I'm glad you mention reaching out to working women across America and thinking about the juggling act we all need to play in our lives. From reading a few articles (I actually liked the New Yorker profile) and braodcast interviews, I find it incredibly reassuring that you are in a great position to be our next First Lady. I have no other description to share other than "You get it."
By the way, I heard about your addition to this site from @QueenofSpain (above in comments) on Twitter. I'm wondering if you might try that micro-blogging platform or do some of your own posts at www.utterz.com or even TalkShoe or BlogTalkRadio?
Warm wishes, I vote, Adam
http://www.utterz.com/AdamZand/r-1
http://twitter.com/NoOneYouKnow
Hellow and wow from a Canuck!
Awesome to see you here.
And a great post......keep em coming.....let's make big changes in the world!!!
Look for me at http://crunchycarpets.com or check out the ladies at www.wetcoastwomen.com
Welcome Michelle Obama
Welcome Michelle. Hold your head up high in this campaign! Looking forward to your blog here at Blogher We have a blog for Baby Boomers.
http://www.Vaboomer.com
Nancy Mehegan
Virginia Cornue
VABOOMER
Welcome!
Welcome to a great group of writers and people. We couldn't be more thrilled to have you sitting by our fire.
Jen http://droolstreet.blogspot.com one plus two
Welcome!
Mrs. Obama, I cannot tell you how stoked I am to see you here. This is the perfect place to share your thoughts with a community of informed women. I'm delighted to say you're one of us :)
I'm sorry you couldn't make it to our conference this week, but hey -- maybe you'll feel like coming next year (you may want a break from all that White House stuff).
Donna Schwartz Mills
http://www.SocalMom.com
http://www.MOMocrats.com
http://www.LAMomsblog.com
http://svmomblog.typepad.com/50somethingmoms
http://www.careerkids.typepad.com
Yes we can
It's wonderful to see you blogging here, Michelle. Looking forward to reading more from you (and perhaps your daughters too??) and working for change together. :)
Amy
Crunchy Domestic Goddess
BlogHers Act contributing editor
You're Always Welcome Here
Michelle, welcome to our community. You will find it is different than many political blogs in that we generally have a reasoned, cordial dialogue here and we help pull each other up when things get tough.
We all appreciate your willingness to take even more time out of your busy schedule to be here, and we look forward to hearing more about what you think needs to be done about important issues for women and families, like the environment and education.
Thank you for adding your unique voice to BlogHer.
Sarah Granger, at FutureCampaigns, The Huffington Post "Off the Bus", MOMocrats, BlogHer & the Silicon Valley Moms Blog
Thank you for taking time
Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule time to blog, and to visit BlogHer. I look forward to hearing more from you as a woman, a parent, a potential first lady and now a blogger.
Sincerely,
Michelle
Adding my voice to the chorus
Welcome to BlogHer, Michelle! I think you'll find that this is an amazing, respectful and challenging community with whom to have conversations.
I hear much of my life story in both the stories of your growing up and Barack's. Thank you for sharing those stories of tests and strength. As a black woman I know it is incredibly powerful for us and the children to hear. Thank you.
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Yay!
When I first saw your post, I thought, "Michelle Obama? Really?" And I was absolutely delighted to find out that yes, really, it's you posting here at BlogHer. Thank you for your great post; I look forward to more of them.
The Blog: Red Nose The Book: Girl Clown
Welcome! Happy to see you here
Hi Michelle,
I'm a strong supporter of your husband and am busy getting everyone in my family and community to vote for him this November. As great as it'll be to say the words "President Obama" in January 2009, it's icing on the cake to think about you and your daughters as First Lady and First Kids in the White House!
Thanks to you and your family for taking the leap into public life as a side effect of Barack's public service. As you say, time away from our kids is hard, but worth it if it makes the world they'll inherit a better place.
Keep rocking your fantastic self--you've got a lot of fans out there.
Warmly,
Cynematic
P i l l o w b o o k
MOMocrats
Thanks on Many Levels
Michelle -
Thank you from me, and my daughter. I'm stealing a chance to tell you something that my daughter said. She is almost 10, and this is the first presidential election she has followed - obviously. She was an Obama supporter long before I was, while I was still on the fence. But we had great talks she and I about everyone running and what they were saying and the world we wanted to live in. It was historic, really, but very personal, to realize that my daughter's first election was, to her, between a black man and a woman. I've been in awe of that. When I told her how important that was to me, she just laughed and said, "Jeesh mom, they're just people!"
I cried. "MOM!" I'm sorry, it's a big deal. But when I asked her why she was such a strong Obama supporter, she said it was because he made her feel good. In discussion, it turned out that she meant that when she hears him speak, she feels hopeful, like she wants to do better, she feels inspired. I told her that I wasn't sure that was enough of a reason to vote for someone. She reminded me that I always tell her that if you BELIEVE you can do something, than you can, and that when you make people feel good, they are more willing to help you. She informed that that's what he does. Her contention was that inspiring us all to believe we can make a better world, and making us ALL part of the process was, in fact, good enough.
I love it when my baby girl makes things that simple, and that right.
But what really won her over, apparently, were you and your daughters. "They look like they could be our friends, ya know?" Um hm. I do know.
Welcome in to our lives Michelle. Thank you for just being one of us. Amazing it took a 10 year old to make it clear how much that means, but it does.....
Thank you.
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Alyssa Royse
Just Cause It: A Web Site To Save The World
Start Her Up: A Blog for Women Entrepreneurs
Welcome & Thanks
Michelle,
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts with us. I really appreciate the sacrifices that your family is making for our country. I hope you find blogging and connecting with women in this forum and through this medium rewarding.
Can I send you one of our "Powerful Blogger Lady" t-shirts or hats, compliments of MOMocrats? I can change it to "Powerful Blogger FIRST Lady" for you :)
Cheers,
Glennia
Co-Founder & Managing Editor, MOMocrats.com
Awkward, but Promising
I'll be honest. It was an awkward post. I'm sure that future posts will improve. Readers, men and women both, don't really want to be taken advantage of for the sake of pushing a political agenda, in my opinion. I know that that separation can be difficult so I'm sure most people, myself included, will be graceful about the post.
I think it's great that BlogHer has access to you, Michelle. I'm confident that the access will be rewarded immensely, not only in November, but beyond. Well done in engaging this community and I'll be reading.
WOW- Perhaps you think a bit too much of
yourself?
This phenomenal woman has been gracious enought to accept an invitiation from a prominent WOMEN'S forum and you feel "qualified" to critique?
Enlighten me! Michelle's post was so wonderfully unique because Michelle, like Senator Obama posseses that rare quality of "honesty", that comes from the heart. Her point of reference is always from astrong sense of integrity.
Do you REALIZE what we have in Michelle? Michelle was INVITED to post here. Not only is she a BRILLIANT ATTORNEY, having graduated from two of the MOST PRESTIGIOUS IVY LEAGUES, in this nation--she CARES about us as women and loves this nation ENOUGH to GIVE OF HER TIME and her wisdom to encourage us as we discuss important issues.
My suggestion to you, (and please take it in the spirit that it is offered), is that you bundle up that enormous ego of yours and stick it--in your pocket.
When can you EVER REMEMBER, having the opportunity tobe part of a forum where you can have a dialogue with the potential FIRST LADY OF THE UNITED STATES?
I don't know about you, but I am HONORED! I understand that blogher invited Cindy McCain to post here as well. Although I am absolutely 100% a supporter of Senator Obama, I would be HONORED if Cindy posted here as well.
That bucket of guilt
Hi Michelle,
It's such a pleasure to welcome you to BlogHer.com! I think you nailed something important here, when you say you're
No kidding. My mother warned me, when my son was born, that each child would come with a bucket of guilt. "But remember," she told me, "how proud he is going to be of you someday for continuing to do what you do and being all that you are."
Amen. The comments here thus far are an important indicator of what your work in this election means to many, many women. And while your daughters are younger, I can confirm Mom's prediction came true when my son turned 12: He's actually proud of me, for what that's worth. :)
This is why I love blogging. In the case of moms who blog, you're talking about a constituency for whom the Internet and our blogs are a lifeline -- we expected to have to silence our own voices in order to give our children theirs. But this technology has set us free in the few minutes we have each day. And that may go double for the millions women who blog who are NOT moms!
Look forward to continuing the conversation.
Lisa Stone
BlogHer Co-founder
Surfette
P.S. Note to the community: As you know, BlogHer is a non-partisan organization. We have extended the same invitation to Cindy McCain, wife of presumptive GOP presidential nominee Sen. John McCain (R-Az.)
A wonderful idea...
I think that it's a fabulous idea to have both Mrs. Obama and Mrs. McCain join the community. As women, I am sure that we all share many of the same issues and concerns, even if we do not share the same politcs.
Giving the candidates' wives a voice to the wider community is a step forward in bringing humanity back to politics, focusing on common cause rather than demonizing and misunderstanding each other.
I think we may find that Cindy McCain and Michelle Obama are more alike, and more like each of us, than we had imagined.
Welcome to BlogHer
It's wonderful that you are willing to reach out to women via BlogHer. In this day and age, anything that provides open access is valuable.
I'm interested in health care issues. That's access to health care, not necessarily access to health insurance. I'm a committed Democrat, there's nothing undecided about my vote. However I do look closely at health care programs and hope for a good long-term solution.
Virginia DeBolt
BlogHer Technology Contributing Editor
Web Teacher
First 50 Words
Virginia Can You help us?
As Technology Contributing editor, can you helps us by getting someone to monitor this site for abuse of "agreement" terms.
I am so thrilled and elated to have Mrs. Michelle Obama's blog to read and have the opportunity to share my thoughts with her.I think it is childish and tasteless for anyone to DARE to disrespect this wonderful woman.
I find it COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE for anyone to try to post come to this site and try to throw cheap shots at our potential FIRST LADY.
Can you please see what you can do to insist that the site administrator find these intruders and block them?
Thank-you
We're here
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