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Living on the Road Together

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With Valentine's Day around the corner, my inbox is a swamp of cliched press releases, each one of them attempting to sell me the idea of romantic travel -- a trip to Paris, perhaps, or exotic chocolates from far away places, or little extras that you can pack to transform the sturdy beige interior of your hotel room into a rose colored tent in the desert. Yeah, okay, maybe.

There is, I think, nothing more romantic than falling in love when you are traveling, even if it is with someone you are already in love with. I met my husband while traveling -- he stood the other side of the campfire circle and blam, that was it. It was sunset, we were at the Ayers Rock National Park, it was scripted by MGM and staffed with healthy, good looking extras. Now we thrive on travel, we are at our best on the road, though there is something terribly romantic about the fact that he makes my complicated steel cut oats every morning while I sit at my desk writing. Romance, it's so subjective.

One of my favorite blogs, Uncornered Market, is by a traveling duo, Dan and Audrey. I'm also crazy for Forks and Jets, not just because they have the cutest typeface ever. The folks at Married with Luggage aren't traveling yet, but they're planning, planning, planning, and that's romantic to me. The women at What Boundaries? are having amazing adventures and writing, writing, writing their stories. The pair behind Black People Do That have videos of them doing all kinds of crazy stuff -- paint ball and whitewater rafting and just getting out from behind absurd stereotypes. And the guys at Hedonia are living large in San Francisco. This isn't really a travelblog, it's more local insight, but it's great stuff FOR travelers and they're blogging their local adventures together.

Sometimes, I wish my guy was a bit more susceptible to marketing. Yeah, I'd like flowers and chocolate. But nothing quite makes me swoon like waking up in a tightly pitched tent alone. I unzip the fly, and there he is, handing me a cup of coffee in a travelers mug. I love it when he says "I'll be right back" and it's because he's gone to put the luggage in the car while I finish uploading photos. I love it when we're in a place we don't know and he takes my hand and says "Let's go for coffee."

Yes, yes, yes, I'm a HUGE proponent of solo travel. It. Is. Awesome. But indulge me for this brief moment while I cave to Valentine's Day pressure and nod to those traveling duets. There is, I think, nothing more romantic that a travel companion who fits. It doesn't matter where you are, it's who you're with. It's a little hokey, but I'm going to go with it. The joy of travel shared, that's the perfect Valentine. 

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JennaHatfield 10 pts

Do you have friends? Even friends without kids? Trade off a weekend. They watch your kids from Friday to Sunday afternoon and then you'll either do the same (if they have kids) or help them paint, reside their house or some other thing that they need done that requires the help of warm bodies. Couples with children will love the idea that they also get a "free" weekend out of it and couples without children will love that you can be their slave for a weekend.

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Pam 5 pts

And there are LOADS of excellent blogs on family travel, I've highlighted traveling families many a time in the past. They're awesome, they're super heroes.

And this post isn't about them.

Take a poke around, though, you'll find loads of good stuff on traveling families, some of it here, and lots of it on the web.

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bonggamom 5 pts

I completely agree.   There is nothing like exploring a new city together or venturing out into the unknown with someone you love and trust.  I've seen far too little of this world and I'm lucky to have a husband who wants to travel around the world as much as I do.

Unfortunately,  there are several reasons why traveling as a couple is not in the cards for us at the moment, and all three reasons eat their weight in Cocoa Krispies every morning.  Because we have 3 kids our travel destinations always  have some kind of "kid friendly" component to it -- a visit to grandmother's house, easy hiking trails, etc..  I don't think they're old enough to enjoy wandering around museums for hours, and if we lingered longer than 10 minutes at a Paris cafe, one of them would inevitably start whining.  We've traveled to Reno and Vegas, but spent more time watching the free acts at Circus Circus than partying at the Palms.  At night, one of us ends up huddled in the bathroom while the kids go to sleep in the bedroom, while the other spouse walks around the shops or the poker room for a while before admitting it isn't all that much fun when you're alone, and going back to the hotel room. 

Leaving the kids with family for a weekend is not an option because family is so very far away, and we can't afford to get babysitters for a weekend.    Don't get me wrong, we've had some wonderful family vacations, but think we're going to have to shelve the idea of traveling as a couple until our kids are a bit older!   I love the idea of dreaming and planning a vacation together like the couple on Married with Luggage ( http://www.marriedwithluggage.com ) is doing, so maybe I should release my inner vagabond with a fantasy travel blog post or two :)