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Making Ends Meet...How do you do it?

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That is the challenge when you are upside down and trying to meet your expenses in addition to paying off debt. My goal is to be debt free in 3 years and I am stumbling a little less each day. I had a shock recently, though. I learned that in order to get ahead I actually have to live below my means so that I can save money as well as pay off debt. I mean, heck, I was having enough trouble working with the concept of living within my means.

As I have said before, I began by really tracking my spending, but the real challenge has been developing a budget and sticking with it. Erin Hufstetler at Frugal Living at About.com offers the follow great advice:

  1. Be honest about your spending habits, and you’ll end up with a much more realistic budget.
  2. Don’t forget to budget for fun; budgeting isn’t about total deprivation.
  3. Don’t be afraid to change your budget; a good budget is always evolving.

Another thing I ran into, while trying to develop better habits was the slow leak expenditures such as:

  1. That daily stop at Starbucks or “The Bean” or wherever. At work, my peers and I go for coffee as a team-building exercise daily. I go along for the social moment, but the trick is to learn that I can have that without actually buying a coffee I don’t need, since I already enjoyed the 2 cups I brewed at home before the commute.
  2. Bottled Water. Ummm, I live in a country where the water is relatively clean. Travel brochures to the California area rarely tell you to avoid the water, though some reports indicate there can be bad stuff in there. I have compromised by installing a water filter on the tap and reusing water bottles. Arguably a greener solution than dozens of plastic bottles used every month.
  3. Paying cash! When I actually took a close look at the interest and finance fees I was paying for using someone else’s money via the credit card, I almost threw up. My new policy is: if I don’t have the money now, I don’t need that item.
  4. Eating out! I used to lunch with my coworkers daily. Even though we went to places that offered discounts and low costs, that money added up way too quickly. Now I pick a couple of meals to eat out each week (because social time is important), but I budget them in advance and stay within the lines.
  5. This is an oldie but a goodie: Don’t shop hungry or depressed. Make a grocery list and stick to it. Utilize discounts and coupons whenever possible and try to plan meals and supplies around them. If it means making a quick sandwich before you head out to the store: make the sandwich!

I keep running into little obstacles in the form of habits that cause me to spend more than I need, or waste money I don’t have for something I wont use. What kinds of things do you do to stay within a budget?

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tjsmith 5 pts

I love how you have learned to make the most of your life. You inspire me. You and your husband must be great friends.

TJ Smith

www.downturnliving.com ( http://www.working-with-women.com/ )

mnmrabbit 5 pts

I always pack a lunch for work. Mostly becuz 1/2 hour doesn't give me much time to get somewhere to order then eat it and get back.  Sandwiches or leftovers do well.

We rarely eat out but for Subway a couple times a week cuz it's good food and not expensive.  Some people think that's crazy but I guess we'd make good advertising for them cuz we frequent them alot due to their wide selection of veggies and meats and freshly made bread.

It's hard to manage money in this hard economy right now. Since I had to get another car, our payment is $90 more than my other car payment and insurance $20 more. Ouch in paycheck status. But money in envelopes work as I collect $60 total from paychecks to help out on week I make my car payments.   Money in envelopes $20 a paycheck for later use, when $ gets tight, use for out of town trips.  It helps.  We've not used credit cards lately.  Got a new card with lower interest rate and no yearly fee.  One credit card will get paid off by new card and closed. 13.99% vs 9.99% a good deal!

We live how we are comfortable, less entertainment than most. Wait til movie you want to see comes out on a dvd. Make really good food at home. I love my Everyday with Rachael Ray magazine. My husband loves the really good dinners I've been making. After 32 years of cooking, I've learned how to make better sauces becuz of Rach. I know some people don't like her but she's an inspiration to me!!!  I make enough in my meals that there are leftovers for lunches and a dinner for my husband who works a late shift.    We got cable tv this year becuz we have a digital tv and don't have many choices of channels where we live without it.  So my husband can find alot to watch. He loves the Myth Busters and we like Stargate and StarTrek (old), some things on Animal Planet. So we can find good older movies on there sometimes as well. 

We live within our means and don't worry about what other people think. It's our pocketbook, not theirs. That's my story and I'm sticking to it!  :0)

Becky Lowmaster http://grandmabeckyl.blogspot.com

tjsmith 5 pts

In truth, this was one of the worst things. Like your friend, I did this each each work day and before I began paying attention, I spent 60+ dollars a month. Now, for 3 months, I have lowered it to about 45 dollars (hey, I did say I slip up sometimes)

As for the grocery list, I have found it helps if I make the list based on a meal plan for the week and coupons that go with the plan and things I am out of. Where I go wrong, is I seem to be a bit of a hoarder when it comes to supplies. I tend to buy more than I need.

TJ Smith

www.downturnliving.com ( http://www.working-with-women.com/ )

sassymonkey 6 pts moderator

I don't know of many people who know what it's really like to live within their means. (Myself included.) For some reason it's really hard to be realistic about what we spend money on and how much we spend on it.

One of my former roommates used to buy a coffee and a bagel for breakfast every morning even though she was on a really tight budget. She used to justify by saying, "It only costs a few dollars." I made her add that up over the course of a week. Then a month. Then a year. She started making her coffee and bagel at home after she realized she was spending about $70 a month on her coffee and bagel, or more than $500 over the course of a full academic year.

If you ever figure out a way to make a grocery list and stick to it you must let me know. I've never managed to do it.

Sassymonkey ( http://sassymonkey.ca/ ) and Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.ca/ ).