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   On a Bad Day  When I look in the mirrorI seeugly I see hair that should not be so greythat easily adds ten yearsto my age I see a face that revealsyears of endurance and paindark circles from insomniaand being up with childrennight after night after night I see a bodythat by any Western standard  Read more >

This past week, I was in court for a custody hearing. I gave my testimony, and was cross-examined. My witness testified and was cross-examined. What followed was four straight hours of listening to my ex and the witnesses he called to the stand go over every bad day, every poor decision, every instance they could think of where I did not bring my A-game as a mom. I was forced to listen over and over how I have failed and how my ex has succeeded. It was very easily the hardest day of my life.  Read more >