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If she's crazy, will I be, too?

In my years of dating since I got divorced, most of the men I've met have described their former girlfriends/wives as being psychos, lunatics, nuts, crazies, wackos, weirdos, kooks and screwballs. This always worries me, especially since I'm quite a few men's former lover and girlfriend and one man's former wife. Were they now all saying the same thing about me to some babe who's thinking she's somehow saner than I am? I know I have a few personality quirks, but I've always thought they could be considered rather endearing.  Read more >

I'm divorced, deal

When I got divorced a few years ago, I thought long and hard about what was ahead — financially, romantically, etc. One thing I just didn't realize is how people would judge me and my kid, even if they weren't aware that they were doing it.  Read more >

Don't worry, be happy, be gay

It's been a rocky road for married couples lately, what with the Eliot Spitzer hooker revelations, the confessions by his replacement, David Paterson, of his extramarital affairs, the 20-something dalliances of Michigan Sen. Debbie Stabenow's hubby and the rumors that long-married 55-year-old Russia President Vladimir Putin has been hanging with gymnast babe Alina Kabaeva, 24. You have to wonder, just what the heck is going on?  Read more >

McCain's "inappropriate" relationship

I've watched with interest the swirl of controversy surrounding the revelations that Republican presidential candidate John McCain had an "inappropriate relationship" with a female lobbyist — one who has been described in the media as "fetching" and who is 30 years his junior. Putting aside how Vicki Iseman's position may or may not have influenced McCain politically, the question of what is considered "inappropriate" is one that intrigues me.  Read more >

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Full Name
Kat Wilder
Member Since
January 2007
About Me: 

Kat Wilder is the nom de plume of a divorced mom who blogs about balancing kids, work, friendships, dating, exes, perimenopause and middle-aged sex at http://katwilder.com.

Location: 
Marin County
 

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