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Play with Fire

9/2/09 2:33pm by kellychicas
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Play with Fire It has been suggested that politicians, CEO's and other highly driven individuals are in a sense wired for marriage mischief through personalities built for risk-taking and dealing with uncertainty.   Whether your personality leads you in the wrong direction, your marriage is or will be under attack at some time. Is there anything you can do to prevent (or repel) such attacks?    Read more >

Degrees of Trust

5/14/09 2:55pm by kellychicas
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Let me ask you this - do you "trust" your partner to pick up something from the store that they said they would? Do you "trust" them to pick you up when promised? Do you "trust" them to not steal your money, and to not burn your house down? My point is this: trust is a matter of degree. How can you learn to trust again? The fact is, you already do.  Read more >

Trust - The Last Word

5/7/09 7:57am by kellychicas
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In this blog we have been examining the issue of trust in relationships for the last two months. How does someone prove themselves to their partner when they have broken the trust? You can't expect your relationship to recover from trust issues in one day. Even if you are lucky and your partner agrees to forgive you, it does not mean that you won't have to continue to prove yourself. This process could even take years, but it all starts with the little things.  Read more >

Betrayal and Mistrust

4/3/09 7:50am by kellychicas
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The roots of trust are built in our childhood, where we learn to receive consistent, predictable care from our parents. Trust is built on order and predictability, which makes it even more psychologically traumatizing when that trust is broken. Studies have shown that psychological traumas (like discovering an affair) can have an effect on brain functioning long after the event has happened. One of these common changes is the development of hyper-vigilance to prevent further assaults. Being hyper-vigilant is a survivor perspective, it protects us from harm.  Read more >

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kellychicas
Member Since
January 2009
About Me: 
I am a Board Certified, Licensed Mental Health Counselor and the Director of Albuquerque Family Counseling, an innovative and supportive service designed for the wellness of families and individuals in the Albuquerque metro area.

I have over ten years experience working with individuals, couples and families in various stages of their lives. My specialty is assisting the non-traditional individual, couple or family with improving their interpersonal relationships.

My past community work has involved presenting numerous workshops for community agencies and to general audiences on topics ranging from relationship issues, parenting and stress management.
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Albuquerque, New Mexico
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