Kendra Holliday

Kendra Holliday is a 38 year old bisexual atheist mother located in St. Louis, MO and the Editor of The Beautiful Kind. She is a passionate sexplorer when it comes to kinks, fetishes, BDSM, swinging, and polyamory. She writes for SexIs magazine, does video reviews for EdenFantasys, and is the author of The Book of Goddess: Elevating Your Desirability to Mythic Proportions.

She is co-founder of Sex Positive St. Louis and an Alternative Lifestyle Advisor and Gynecological Teaching Associate for Washington University School of Medicine. Featured countless times in the local alternative weekly The Riverfront Times and winner of 2011 Web Award for Best Sex Blog, she also has a monthly advice column in The St. Louis Sinner.

Her life experiences include monogamous marriage, divorce, sex work, parenthood, as well as being fired and sued for her sexuality. She is currently in a polyamorous BDSM relationship with her long-term partner, Matthew. More about Kendra can be found on her consulting website.

Her First Bad Touch: When Children Get Violated

One day, when my 10-year-old daughter got home from camp, she turned to me and said, "Today, in the pool? A man came up and grabbed my butt." Inside, I froze, but on the outside, I remained casual. "Oh, really? Tell me more." "I was standing in the shallow end, and this man walked up behind me, and squeezed my butt." "What did you do?" I asked, continuing to remain calm. "I was so surprised. I didn't know what to do. I didn't say anything, I just walked away from him." She squirmed with embarrassment. "Did you tell anyone at camp?" "No, you were the first person I felt like I could trust."...more
@Emily@SAHM.i.AM My thoughts exactly.more

Love Like an Ocean: Diving Deep into Polyamory

Before she knew what polyamory was, she thought she was defective and unfit to be in a relationship. After years of disappointing her partners, she resigned herself to remaining single. And then she discovered that love could take many more forms than monogamy. This is her story. ...more
Do you ever find yourself feeling jealous knowing that your partner is with another ...more