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The Vassar 76: On Rejection and Other Life Lessons

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That kind of switch and bait probably didn’t occur to most of the 76 students who were recently accepted and then summarily rejected by Vassar College. A computer glitch, just the kind my own son worried about, sent 122 early decision candidates letters of acceptance. For 46 of them, the news was accurate; they had been accepted. For the remaining students, the computer system, in fact the entire system, had failed.  Read more >

Our Mothers, Ourselves: Did Your Mother Prepare You for Motherhood?

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Eighteen years ago this month, my first child arrived six weeks ahead of schedule. While he was hooked up to tubes and toasting away in the ICU’s isolette, I spent those first days as a mother praying for him and reading Annie Lamott’s memoir, Operating Instructions. Between the laughter and the tears, I was hoping to find that elusive “how-to” manual for mothering.  Read more >

Is College for All? Does a Proposed Two-Tier System Work?

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Sometime in the next few months, my son will receive an acceptance letter to college. And with it, a bill. A big bill. A bill so big it will shape his future, defining what he does in the classroom and after graduation because the schools to which he is applying will cost him (and us, his parents) upwards of half a million dollars.Which begs the question, is it worth it?  Read more >

Many College Applications Due Tomorrow: Has the Process Been Frustrating for You and Yours?

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I hate the college application process. It reminds me of that old song by Alanis Morrissette, “It’s like meeting the man of my dreams and then meeting his beautiful wife.”Isn’t it ironic? You hear about a school. If you’re lucky and can afford it, you visit the school. It seduces you with its ivy covered campus, shinny happy students, and doting professors. Sure it’ll costs somewhere upwards of a quarter of a million dollars to send him, but you’ll figure it out. It would be the perfect place to send your beloved, and of course brilliant, child. No doubt the school would be lucky to have him. Sadly, 40,000 (or 50,000 or even 75,000) other parents couldn’t agree more.  Read more >

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Full Name
Lisen Stromberg
Member Since
June 2009
About Me: 

"I was a late bloomer. But anyone who blooms at all, ever, is very lucky." - Sharon Olds

I, too, am a late bloomer. Late to writing, late to blogging, and usually late to lunch, but grateful to be here. I began writing a little over a decade ago on a plane to Boston. Frustrated by the lack of understanding, compassion, and support I experienced as the mother of a janegirl, I scribbled my thoughts on the back of a United luncheon napkin. Once home, I refined my ideas and sent the article to a number of publications. It hit a nerve. The essay, My Son, the Cross Dresser, won a number of awards and launched my writing career. I have since been published in a variety of magazines (both on-line and off), completed my MFA in Prose at Mills College, and am now working on my first novel about a woman who wonders how she can be a mother, a wife and still a feminist. 

You can visit www.prismwork.com to read more...

 

Profession: 
Writer, mother, wife, daughter, friend, human
Location: 
Northern California
Location Tags: 

Northern California, Annisquam

School Tags: 

Dartmouth College,Mills College

About Me Tags: 

Writing,Marriage,Parenting,Teens,Gender Identity,Class,Summer,Friendship,Women,Reunions,Life in the Forty Lane,

Causes Tags: 

Literacy,Reproductive Freedom,The Next Wave of Feminism (that means making real change for men and boys so that our daughters and sisters can have truly evolved partners,employees,employers,friends and so on)

 

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