Shannon Carroll (Mr Lady)

Shannon Carroll is the Conference Programming Manager at BlogHer, and the blogger behind Whiskey In My Sippy Cup Shannonigans {dot} co, yo, a critically acclaimed blog about nothing in particular. According to the Internet, she is also occasionally Redneck Mommy, which means it must be true. 

Shannon started blogging in January of 2005, before the time of plugins and widgets, which is the equivalent of remembering what is was like to use a rotary phone for something other than winning a street fight. 

She is the mother of a teenaged son, a tween boy and an elementary-aged daughter, which means that everyone in her house absolutley *loves* K$sha, just for very different reasons. 

She is a liberal who believes in flat tax, an atheist with an impressive collection of crucifixes, and hates reggee but thinks that Redemption Song may be the finest piece of music ever penned by man. She is terrified of spiders, heights and balloons, dreams of one day being a gangsta rapper and is physically incapable of keeping a hamster alive, or baking cookies. 

 

 

My Blogs

Biente

My mother's birthday was Saturday. Wait - maybe it was Wednesday. If it was Wednesday, then my little brother whom I don't talk to anymore had a birthday on Saturday, but I kind of feel like his was Wednesday ....more

Distance Makes the Heart

My kids left yesterday to spend half of their spring break with their dad. There is nothing in the world more bittersweet than having the house stay exactly as spotless as the housekeeper left it 24 full hours ago.* There are traces of them everywhere: the humming of the Wii left running, the smell of teen spirit wafting from my oldest's bedroom, the T-Rex frozen in time on the Whiteboard of Glorious Correction and Societal Alignment for the Advancement of the Revolution, whom I've named Fupa.... *This is a teaser, because scrapers suck ....more

What Goes Around Comes Around

My oldest son's first word was bubble. He was three years old, and didn't do a damn thing until he could do it perfectly. He took his first step at 8 3/4 months, on Christmas Day, to a video camera ....more

Clichés, Like Fairy Tales, Can Come True

I've been mentally and physically beat up by enough adults to know that there is absolutely nothing more horrid you can say to a kid than, "This is going to hurt me more than it hurts you." The only people who say that are narcissistic sociopaths. If an adult says that to you, you're most likely going to carry whatever scar is left on you for the rest of your life. I've never said it to my kids, and then few times I've even thought it's been appropriate I've stepped back immediately to reassess.. ....more

If You're Going to Be the Worst Parent Ever, Make Sure You Have a the Best Co-parent Ever

The Tooth Fairy didn't make it to our house last night. This is a huge problem. In the decade that she and I have had to work together to manage the extraction of baby teeth from out of little faces and under little pillows, she's not been able to complete her end of the deal a only a handful of times ....more

#20CapitalistSelfie

Offered with very little comment, my daughter seems to have passed right over her fear of losing teeth, collected $5, advanced directly to 'rip them out of my face the moment they come loose.'...more

Resolution

There's so much I've managed to not say here over the past few weeks. I've started and stopped my Retrospectively Introspective New Year's post like seven times so far. The long and short of it was that everything I had dreaded on New Year's Eve 2012 hadn't even crossed my mind on New Year's Eve of 2013 until I went and read the former year's post, because (I think) I have finally chosen to walk towards something rather than run from something ....more

Announcing the BlogHer '14 Breakout Session Schedule!

Today, we're thrilled to share the breakout session agenda for BlogHer '14 with you! BlogHer is celebrating the 10th anniversary of our annual conference this July, and we are so excited to see you there! With only 2,500 tickets available for sale, Early Bird pricing ending on February 28th, and an amazing few days in store, we suggest you buy yours soon! ...more
LOOKING TO SELL A BLOG HER TICKET AT THE EARLY BIRD PRICE OF 258.22.more

What I Do

So I'm driving around in the car with my 13 year old and we're talking about all the random nonsense you talk about with your kids in the car; somehow we got on the subject of college, and he quite nonchalantly informs me that he isn't going to college, like ugh mom. I reach over to take his temperature, just to be sure he isn't delirious with The Fever, and then ask him oh, re-heally? This child looks at me and, with his mouth I spent nine months making for him, actually says, "Yeah, I'm just.. ....more

Behind the Wheel of a Large Automobile

32.9 miles exactly how far I will walk, and by walk I mean drive, just to be the mom to keep the magic of Christmas alive in this house....more