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Michelle Duggar makes me Smile, NO Laugh!

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Lightening rods! Yep. Talking Lightening rods today.  Not politics but faith, well kind of. Faith shared through Reality television.  The Duggars (do you live under a rock, don’t worry my husband does too) a family on TLC  has chosen to live their life on television proclaiming they live according to the word of God.  I do find it funny they chose to participate in REALITY TELEVISION it seems like such a contradiction but that is another debate.

Anyway, this family has 19 kids and the parents Michelle and Jim-Bob, ( that would tick them off, me placing Michelle’s name first) have made it clear that they will continue having kids until Michelle really and truly can’t, you know menopause.  Michelle has home schooled all the kids and now with their fame it seems Michelle is preaching the lifestyle.

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It is the preaching that has led to some controversy.

Please note, I am a firm believer in freedom of speech.  I find it hilarious how others are calling the Duggars a cult.  They call them ‘harmful’ to society and some want  them censored.  Some, even fight to have them removed from television.  This makes me sad.  Years ago feminist would have been upset if they were censored or not allowed to spread their words and ideas.

If we claim we are a society that promotes critical thinking and sharing of ideas then we must stop being so scared of those exact beliefs but it does seem  when FAITH or RELIGION enters into it we freak!

We lose all composure to think,debate and reason when religion enters the arena.

Anyway, I find it all fascinating!

I love watching people flip out!!

So, what do I do?  Well, I have some fun with my husband, of course!

I  called my husband and informed him that I was doing my best to secure his manhood.

My husband was taken a little off guard, “Um, Lucy, what are you talking about?”

I said, “Honey, I just wanted you to know that I am doing my best to make sure your manhood is protected.”

He replied, “Um, ok, and how are YOU, doing that exactly?” (sarcasm and trepidation was the tone)

I quickly explained, “Well, sweetie, I am letting you make the money and therefore your manhood is secured.”

My husband answered, “Lou, anytime you want to make more money than me, knock yourself out and I assure you my manhood will be JUST FINE.”

I went on to explain the entire Duggar thingy and Michelle Duggar’s speech “Tips for a Happy Marriage”, which I read about on Faith Goes Pop, and the belief in submission and all that jazz.

My husband’s response, “Are you serious, where do these guys find these women? Submission? Oh, Lou, I couldn’t imagine you and submission?”  And he laughed.

We talked a little bit more about  our daughter and our hope that she learned from us the importance of education and the fact that I did always work and could and would support myself if need be.  There are so many reasons a woman needs to be able to take care of herself.  I can’t tell you how much I disagree with Michelle Duggar BUT I do believe she has the right to her belief and even more she has the right to defend it and here is what pisses off a lot of people, I BELIEVE MICHELLE DUGGAR HAS THE RIGHT TO SHARE IT.

As a society we say we believe in learning and  critical thinking. In order to that we need to allow for the sharing of ideas and opposing schools of thoughts.   Well, we say we do, so we need to practice what we preach, don’t you think? Most of all we need to promote FREEDOM.  If a person chooses to live their life by how they interpret their faith and it works for them then so be it.

Anyway, if you want more information click on the name Duggars!

Have you ever watched The Duggars?  Have you read anything about the Duggars?  What do you think about such families?

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Lucy's Reality 9 pts

Oh, my goodness, this post really did strike a nerve! I missed it being syndicated and an old blogger friend that I met from the original NaBloPoMo congratulated me through email. I typically check everyday but I got a little busy.

Goodness, it is funny how the righteous ones missed the fact that I stated they were entitled to choose their life and entitled to even preach it but I am just as entitled to disagree. I am enjoying all sides of the debate. I love the interesting take on education and the debate on reality television showcasing children, all interesting topics too!

Have a wonderful day!!

wnjmr 5 pts

To Polish Mama on the Prairie

I assume that being in submission to your husband could open you to abuse...as much as I believe that being a shrew, nag, or any other thing could also open you to abuse... and Probably being one of the latter would probably be a more likely reason for it happening....

The sad thing is that those that are always harping on the "Submission" ALWAYS leave out the rest of the statement...

Colossians 3:24 and 25 Now as the Church submits to Christ, so wives are to submit to their husbands in everything. HUSBAND LOVE YOUR WIVES, JUST AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH AND GAVE HIS LIFE FOR HER.

Somehow that last part is always left out.... Now if the Husband loves his wife as Christ loves the church... there will be NO ABUSE.

Mike

wnjmr 5 pts

I have no Problem with their lifestyle or being on a reality show (a much better reality show that ANY other I have seen) and I appreciate the fact that they are financially sound enough to support the children and themselves without Government handouts ..... to Anneisanne... I have 7 grandchildren being home schooled by "Non Credentialed" mothers and I would challenge you or any other person's 4yr old to read as good as my youngest daughters does... I would challenge you or any other person to find any school who exposes their students to as much "LIVING" history and CIVICS (do you know what Civics is) as my Daughters and the "Home School Organization" that they belong to do...My youngest daughters 3 older children 9/11/13yrs all play the Piano amazingly well. and I would challenge you or anyone to find a group of 27children from the age of 4 to the age of 18 to be together at some kind of "Field Trip" and to not run/fight/scream or interupt either their fellow students or adults during the Presentations. And those are My personal Opinions.

Mike

anneisanne 24 pts

I don't have a problem with the FACT that they're on the air. They seem decent and well-meaning. But their choosing to be on the air, that, I don't see why anyone would choose this for their children, and question most families who do choose to do this on principle. I don't think their insular world is especially healthy, but that's none of my business. I don't think non-credentialed people should be homeschooling their children, but that's my very biased opinion, not theirs. I do think it's vital that each woman should have the education to take care of themselves, even if she wants to stay home with her kids, because, as happened to my grandfather's mother, husbands can die. But that's where I'm coming from. I also think that forcing the entire female population of that family to have those horrible bangs borders on child abuse. But that's just me, too.

isthisthemiddle 1129 pts

No, don't watch their show, but I have read about them. As another commenter said below, I find their choices sad. I do support freedom of speech, so yes, they have the right to broadcast their ideas. I wonder if the majority of people who watch them do so to be horrified or to feel that they are superior to the Duggars.

leahmsilverman 8 pts

Amen. I don't make the same choices they make (oh my heavens, no) but one thing you can say for the Duggars - they really seem happy. Half of their kids are teenagers or older and there is not a messed up one in the bunch. They are healthy and happy, not to mention happy with their lifestyle and family. Its not for me, but its clearly working for them. And, of course, she totally has the right to share about it.

bstrangely 6 pts

i think they have every right to do what they like and if they can make a buck off it, more power to them. but god, they depress the hell out of me. i've seen maybe an ep and a half, so maybe i just need to see more, but i kind of feel like they're sacrificing their kids to a lifestyle. the ep i saw was about one of their children having a birthday. his gift was spending a day with mom, since the kids never got one on one time with the parents. this meant he spent his birthday in the hospital with mom and josie. they had lunch in the cafeteria and she bought him a toy out of the gift shop. maybe some people find that touching, but i was just sad about what the reality of their choices is for their kids. it's not something i want for mine.

KylieO 6 pts

So well said. I agree she has the right to share her beliefs. If people don't like it they can switch the TV or not go to one of the things she is preaching at. We have the choice to do that, just as she has the choice to share.

She is just sharing what works for them and honestly I know of women who do some aspects of her beliefs and it really helped their marriage.

The Learning Mama 8 pts

I agree. I don't always agree with what they say but they obviously love each other and want to live life their way, which is fine. And Michelle never says you HAVE to do what she does, they are tips. People need to chill.

Polish Mama on the Prairie 33 pts

Love your post and glad you don't believe the same thing as the Duggars. They are entitled to their opinion. And I am entitled to think they are crazy. Oh, that, and the fact that a woman being submissive like that opens the door to her being potentially abused in various ways. I'm not going to raise my daughters like them. And no, I don't watch the show. I don't "do celebrities".

stilettosnmud 12 pts

Love the blog post...and the conversation between you and your sweetie reminds me of my relationship lol! I agree....it is healthy to have ALL kinds of people in the world...the second we start saying "those people" can't have the freedom to live teh way they believe is the day I lose mine!

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Polish Mama on the Prairie
Polish Mama on the Prairie

Kimber, I agree, that is disturbing. I'll be sure to share with a friend of mine who goes to church at least 3 times a week and prays adamently and yet her husband continues to beat her, that she isn't godly enough essentially, according to Mrs. Duggar. Hey, everyone is entitled to their opinions.

Michelle Ng-Whitehead
Michelle Ng-Whitehead

Agree! We may not agree with their lifestyle but it's her right to share and express herself. If you don't like it, switch program. No one is forcing anyone to watch the show. When will people stop being so judgmental?

Kimber Coley-Beech
Kimber Coley-Beech

I agree that she should be able to share her beliefs...though I sure find some of them disturbing such as: 2. A wife's godliness is a powerful guard against her husband's abuse of her (I Peter 3:1).

Lori Corby-Brown
Lori Corby-Brown

I love that they are debt free and business owners and I agree she shoudl be able to share her way of life and all that is in her heart.