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April is National Youth Sports Safety Month, according to the National Youth Sports Safety Foundation (NYSSF). I've been thinking a lot about youth sports injuries. Last week I presented some preliminary findings from my research on youth sports injuries and the relative-age effect (which is done jointly with Rebecca Casciano and Children's Hospital Boston). One of the NYSSF's "Tips for Athletes" is especially relevant:

Some children grow faster than others and some have better coordination earlier than others. Everyone catches up eventually. Be patient.

I've mentioned my interest in age cut-offs here before, but today I want to highlight a different set of findings about how parents deal with youth sports injuries, which are especially timely. Last week Gatorade released a study of "Sports Moms," a group they estimate is about 13 million strong. Based on a poll of 900 mothers of middle- and high-school age athletes, Gatorade reports that these sports moms spend more money on, and time with, their kids than parents whose children don't play sports. To do so they sacrifice their own personal time like sleep, exercise, and leisure.

It's not at all surprising that Gatorade chose to focus on sports moms, as they tend to be more involved in children's after school lives. Dads are getting more involved, especially with girls and sports and coaching, but for the most part, moms are still the ones who do the "dirty" work of washing uniforms and schlepping to and from practices. I've always thought that the title of this book, by an Australian academic, pretty much sums it up: Mom's Taxi: Sport and Women's Labor.

So it didn't surprise us that moms were much more likely to be with kids when they visited the doctor for a youth sports injuries. What did surprise us is how many dads were present as well. Out of 989 office visits, dads were at the appointment 44.7% of the time.

However, dads are significantly more likely to be at an appointment if it is their son who is injured, irrespective even of a child's age.

(Note that there are more injured girls in our sample -- 54.3% of 2291 -- which is higher than expected based on the sex ratio for girls this age born in the state of Massachusetts).


We have several possible explanations for this, but I'm interested to hear your thoughts! Is it that dads are simply more invested in their sons' athletic careers, or that boys play sports that are more likely to interest men (unlike, for the most part, the girls who dance, do gymnastics, or figure skate)? Other thoughts?

Hilary Levey Friedman is a Harvard sociologist who studies childhood and competition. She blogs on these topics, and more, at Playing to Win!

Editor's note: This post first appeared on the blog Playing to Win; while it post mentions a BlogHer sponsor, neither this nor any post in BlogHer Sports was commissioned by any sponsor.

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HLeveyFriedman 5 pts

What's worth noting as well that a mom was at the office visit for the sports injury (regardless of sex) about 85% of the time-- versus 45% of the time for dads. So dads decide to go for boys only part of the time. I'll check out if this differs by particular sports.

Hilary Levey Friedman ( http://www.hilaryleveyfriedman.com ) is a Harvard sociologist who studies childhood and competition. She blogs on these topics, and more, at Playing to Win ( http://www.hilaryleveyfriedman.blogspot.com )!

Meg Handy 5 pts

I think you are right, the dads tend to be at the boys's sports more often so when the injury happens, off they go. But this was office visits, so not ER? Interesting. They might feel uncomfortable going to a girl's doctor visit, even if it's for a sprained ankle- just that female/doctor mystique freaking them out.

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HLeveyFriedman 5 pts

I think it is true that moms-daughters and fathers-sons tend to team up. And we do have more girls in the sample (which is interesting in and of itself!). I am going to check to see if this pattern changes over the time period (from 2000-2009). Maybe there is more cross-sex parenting now?

Hilary Levey Friedman ( http://www.hilaryleveyfriedman.com ) is a Harvard sociologist who studies childhood and competition. She blogs on these topics, and more, at Playing to Win ( http://www.hilaryleveyfriedman.blogspot.com )!

LucindaA 5 pts

to send my husband with my son to the doctor than my daughter. I know that if my son has a choice, he will often prefer his dad to be there and my daughter prefers me. So I wouldn't be surprised if that is a factor.

momalom 5 pts

While I don't have daughters--but have three sons--my gut reaction is that while children instinctively seek comfort and guidance from both parents, there is a certain kind of gender identity that comes with injury, struggle and hardship. By that I mean that we tend to feel reassurance with our same sex. Daughters with mothers, in times of need. Sons with fathers, in times of need. This is not to say, of course, that a mom cannot adequately provide comfort for her son when he's broken an arm. I was the one in the ER with all three boys when my middle child broke him arm in two...my husband off working and out of cell phone range. But I do believe that children look for examples of how to handle the hard stuff. And from my experience I can tell you that my sons are happy to receive hugs and love and lessons from me, but they naturally seek it from their father, waiting patiently for the example that he sets for them.

I'm not sure any of that came out the way I wanted to but I'm sure there's a nugget of something in there. :)

momalom 5 pts

While I don't have daughters--but have three sons--my gut reaction is that while children instinctively seek comfort and guidance from both parents, there is a certain kind of gender identity that comes with injury, struggle and hardship. By that I mean that we tend to feel reassurance with our same sex. Daughters with mothers, in times of need. Sons with fathers, in times of need. This is not to say, of course, that a mom cannot adequately provide comfort for her son when he's broken an arm. I was the one in the ER with all three boys when my middle child broke him arm in two...my husband off working and out of cell phone range. But I do believe that children look for examples of how to handle the hard stuff. And from my experience I can tell you that my sons are happy to receive hugs and love and lessons from me, but they naturally seek it from their father, waiting patiently for the example that he sets for them.

I'm not sure any of that came out the way I wanted to but I'm sure there's a nugget of something in there. :)