MOST OF LIFE IS NOT LIVED AT THE TOP OF THE MOUNTAIN.......LET YOURSELF HAVE FUN....Broken.....I AM NOT PERFECT...
By Dianna-Brianne on May 03, 2014
LET YOURSELF HAVE FUN……
I simply think most relationship problems of all kinds come from people not having enough fun…..People simply become unhappy when too many restrictions are placed into their lives and fun has all but disappeared….Adults are simply like children in many ways….just grown up children….Adults still want to have fun…..
People do not go into relationships to become misearble….at least not on the surface……but often relationships become miserable when too much pressure is placed in the relationship and fun has all but disappeared….
Relationships often require us to let go of our perfectionistic expectations and begin to loosen up in some areas in order to bring back all that was wonderful in the relationships in the first place…..Regardless of the relationships…when fun disappears so does the relationship much of the time….
Perfection can be good in areas that are needed such as being a brain surgeon….but most areas of life are actually sabotaged from them expecting to be perfect. People are not perfect so why should relationships….Actually an imperfect relationship can often be enjoyed far more than a perfect one…..whether it is a spouse, a child, a parent, a relationship, friend, or acquaintance….Simply put….less over the top expectations the better……Less demands of perfection....
Learn to have fun in your own life and in your relationships…..You are likely going to be a lot happier by bringing back fun….
MOST OF LIFE IS NOT AT THE TOP OF THE MOUNTAIN…THE MOUNTAINTOP….
Most of life is not lived at the top of the mountain like some would think. Most of life is lived while climbing the mountain…..Our times at the top of the mountain are usually short lived anyhow….Sort of like the cherry on the ice-cream sundae…..
Most of life is lived in our day to day habits and rituals…..Most of life is lived building towards our tomorrows or embracing our past moments while enjoying the climb up the mountain of life….Sometimes life gives us that time at the top of the mountain and when there we should be enjoying every single second of it….because most of the time that time at the top doesn’t last forever before we have to start the next climb up the next mountain in life….
Life is most often about starting at the bottom and working towards the top…… It is in the climb that most of our happiness is embraced……Enjoy all aspects of your journey in life….from the bottom of the mountain, to the climb….to the top…….
And by all means when you are at the top of the Mountain ENJOY IT…..
BROKEN….OFTEN FOR GOD TO DO HIS WORK HE HAS TO ALLOW US TO BE BROKEN FIRST….
I believe that God sometimes does his best work in us when he has had to allow what we built fall apart….I am not saying we should automatically just let our great things in life fall apart thinking something better will come….That is not what I am saying. What I am saying is that sometimes when we are holding things together that perhaps is not best for our lives sometimes those things do seem to crumble. Especially when we built them on unsolid foundation….
In life sometimes the best laid plans seem to fall apart….but often these best laid plans had a crack somewhere in that foundation….and when too much pressure was applied to the foundation the “house” crumbled…..Our foundation has to be solid to hold up our house of life……When it is not things sometimes fall apart…..
It is in the falling apart that afterwards we pick up the pieces of what is left and decide going forward if what is left should even be in our lives….Often it is in the starting over we see all that was wrong before and why things fell apart……It is then we can rebuild a new foundations and a great life for ourselves filled with all that is wonderful…
There are times people get so overwhelmed in their lives they are not paying attention to the details that can often cause everything to fall apart. Sometimes one “small” detail left unattended can ruin everything…….Sometimes people of great success see their empire crumble simply because they were too busy to pay attention to detail and it was one of the details that created everything to fall apart….