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Motherhood as a Retreat from Equality

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Great article in the New York Times today about the choices that women have made in Germany, where only 14% of women choose to go back to work their careers full-time after having their first baby and only 6% return to work the office after having their second. This is a stark difference from the 60% of women in neighboring France who have young children and continue to work outside the home.

The article explores the question of whether this phenomenon is due to Germany's lack of infrastructure to support working mothers or whether it is based on traditional, societal beliefs that women themselves continue to perpetuate. What boggles my mind is that such a trend can be reversed by encouraging the business industry and public policy makers to think outside the box -

With 21st-century reach-everyone-anytime technology, might we not rethink child-unfriendly work hours?

According to The Shriver Report: A Woman's Nation Changes Everything, in the United States, women make up nearly half of our labor force - a threshold never before reached in the history of our nation. Mothers are now the primary breadwinners - making as much or more than their spouse - in nearly 4 of 10 million families. Check it out:

Women as Breadwinners

So how do we ensure that women are given the support they need to truly make a choice that is best for them? Some would say: flexible work schedules, comprehensive child care policies and equal pay. Yes, women definitely need equal pay, regardless of motherhood. I believe we need more than just those things. We need the support of our communities.

I encourage you to think about your own actions, reactions and judgement as woman or man, employer, subordinate, coworker, team member or simply a street conversationalist. Women should never have to retreat from equality because they feel limited by societal beliefs. And they should never be penalized for their choices. If we continue to limit a woman's options, we all end up paying for it, one way or another.

View the original post and more on my blog: B-School Babe.

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hlsblue 7 pts

If our mothers had not been able to keep my daughter there is no way we could have both kept our jobs. And even here, where you may be able to find affordable childcare, you cannot help but wonder about the quality. There are so many horror stories of children being left in hot vehicles and other such abuse that leaves one with a bad taste over childcare in general. Not to mention situations where employers don't understand the needs of mothers, as with hours or leave time. And then you have employers who fault the mother for having a child in the first place and penalize them based on that, creating at the best a hostile work environment, and at worst no employment at all. It seems that men don't understand that they wouldn't be here at all without women!

litlpeppa 5 pts

Great post. I am a working mother and very fortunate to work for a company that strong supports what we like to call a work/life blend. Quality childcare is so expensive and the traditional school day is not conducive to most work schedules. My mother worked when I was a child and to this day she constantly reminds me how much harder it is today vs. when she did it. Not sure the solution, but so happy that you started the discussion.

hlsblue 7 pts

If our mothers had not been able to keep my daughter there is no way we could have both kept our jobs. And even here, where you may be able to find affordable childcare, you cannot help but wonder about the quality. There are so many horror stories of children being left in hot vehicles and other such abuse that leaves one with a bad taste over childcare in general. Not to mention situations where employers don't understand the needs of mothers, as with hours or leave time. And then you have employers who fault the mother for having a child in the first place and penalize them based on that, creating at the best a hostile work environment, and at worst no employment at all. It seems that men don't understand that they wouldn't be here at all without women!

Rita Arens 17 pts

I completely agree, and first and foremost we need better access to quality and affordable childcare.

B-School Babe 5 pts

Rita Arens Yes, access to quality and affordable childcare is a key factor in a woman's consideration between working inside or outside of the home. You are absolutely right. Thanks for leaving a comment.