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Moving Across the Country: House Hunting

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Last week I blogged about my family's emotional response to moving, now I feel the need to dish about house hunting. Aye yi yi. House hunting is worse than car shopping or swim suit shopping, a lot worse.

Let me bring you up to speed, just in case you don't know my life story....

Two adults, three kids between the age of nine and 14 and possibly an 18 year old moving from Florida to the Chicago area. Did I mention the bird, the cocker spaniel and the cat? They are all moving, too. Did I also mention I'm frugal thrifty cheap? I bet you're beginning to see why house hunting was such a problem, aren't you?

Moving from an area with a relatively low cost of living to one with an extremely high cost of living is a problem. Not wanting to buy a house and not having a down payment TO buy a house is also a problem. And then there's the need for a pet friendly house plus a house big enough to accommodate all (or most) of the people in my family.

I'd rather shop for swim suits for all of us than house hunt under these conditions ever again.

Our first stop, in November, when we were still telling ourselves the move was "just a possibility" was our trusty friend Craigslist. Go ahead and click that link - take a look at the cost of houses in the area. Compare those prices with the prices of houses in the area we currently live in. Besides the cost of rentals, did you notice that there are very few four bedrooms with finished basements and almost no five bedroom houses lurking there?

You see the problem, right?

We spent a few months watching the Craigslist fly by, marking a few that looked interesting and getting our "bearings" on which communities would be worth watching more closely. When the move became official, we got down to business and watched closely for any listings that were 20 minutes from Evanston, IL. We started searching property management listings and real estate listings for rentals. We found a house we really liked and contacted the real estate agent. She set up a page for us and dropped a few more listings in it for us to consider - most of those were $2K and even $3K over our established price limit!

We made flight and hotel reservations and were headed to Evanston at the end of April to find a place to live - OR ELSE! But, a week before the trip, there were still only two possible houses on the page created by the real estate agent... I was not happy so I got busy and found 12 more that suited our needs.

The day we arrived in Chicago, we went on a drive by parade of homes. This means we picked up a rental car at Midway and drove by a house in Lincolnwood. From there we drove past two houses in Glenview. Then we moved onto three houses in Wilmette. We tried to drive by four houses in Evanston but we couldn't find two of them and were so happy to finally see a McDonald's after driving around for two hours that we never went back to try to find the two we missed. We swung past three more houses in Skokie and then we landed in our hotel and talked over what we'd seen in our drive by parade of homes.

By the time we met our real estate agent to look at all of those houses "for real", we had an idea of which houses were actual possibilities and which just would not do (Lincolnwood was too far away and one in Wilmette didn't look so hot, one in Skokie had a band of feral beasts roaming the streets glaring at passing cars... stuff like that.) Little did we know from quick glances from the car as we passed...

We saw some great houses the next day. We saw some really horrible houses, too. We saw houses that would have been perfect if they'd had just one more bathroom, one more bedroom, or were just a little less money. We saw a house with a secret room, hidden behind a bookshelf (which is a blog post all its own and you should ask TW to blog that, since

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Denise 11 pts moderator

the harder it is. ;-)

Thanks Shannon.

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Denise 11 pts moderator

I'm disappointed too. An hour away is considerably cheaper but we couldn't handle an hour commute to pick up kids from school, take them to activities, etc...

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Deaf Mom 5 pts

Aw, too bad you didn't consider my town! I've got a five-bedroom house with a basement out in Bolingbrook.  And like you, I'm ahem, frugal.  

Welcome to Chicago!

Karen "Life is too short to pout all the time.

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rocksinmydryer 5 pts

I feel for you.  We are bursting at the seams in our current house, but the biggest thing holding me back is my inability to imagine the house-hunting/moving process with four children. 

But you're going to love Chicago.  What a great place. 

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mdargen 5 pts

Oh my gosh! I feel your pain. We (hubbie, 3 year old daughter, 2 dogs, a cat, and I) moved to Portland, OR in December and we just moved again to Vancouver, WA a couple weeks ago!

Looking for a house in a different state is something I hope neither of us ever have to do again.

Good luck in your new home!!

~Michelle

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Denise 11 pts moderator

you'll move to Chicago? lol.

It's much easier to move across the country or to another country when you do it in the US Military. Now that I've made a few moves without aid of the government, I appreciate them a heck of a lot more than when I was using their "services". It's a pain. Total pain.

But, we'll be seeing you and BP at Melissa and Ani and Uh Huh Her... so that's cool.

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Denise 11 pts moderator

So most of that stuff, I've got - no problem at all.

Until a couple of months ago, I did not know you could hire people to load/unload your truck right through u-Haul. I mentioned it to my dad last week on the phone and he didn't know either. Heh.

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Denise 11 pts moderator

I cheap wad in me is unhappy. Very unhappy.

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Denise 11 pts moderator

TW and I look at a house differently and interact with agents and owners differently, so that's kind of helpful in the house hunt process.

Forty houses. That is my nightmare.

~Denise
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Denise 11 pts moderator

It's probably 500 square foot smaller than the house we live in now. Yes, there are a ton of rooms but they are small rooms and not the most functional rooms.

I was pleasantly surprised when we met the agent. I liked her. It's rare for me to like a real estate agent. Heh.

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no_I_am_zoe 5 pts

Housing costs in Chicago are the reason we still live in Indiana.  I can't imagine house hunting across the country, how stressful. We had enough trouble with realestate agents as it was and we only moved a few blocks from where we were living when bought our house, not 3,000 miles.  

Looks like a nice big place in a nice neighborhood. Happy packing.  

Mata H 5 pts

After having looked for a year for the right house to buy, my heart goes out to you re moving. It sucks. To be more genteel, "it sucketh".

My best advice:

1. be ruthless when you pack. Give away a ton of stuff that you do not need to a charity. Get receipts for tax write-off.

2, find out if this move can qualify for tax write off. If so, log everything.

3. mark boxes for the room in which the contents belong. This sounds obvious, but in the heat of packing it can be neglected.

4. start a masterlist now of the "mechanicals of a move" - things like "cancel cable" "start new cable service" "do mail referral" "set up forwarding message for phone", etc. When you set up new phone and cable, ask for special deals. They will want new business and may have some deals they are not telling you right away.

5. Get you realtor to tel you things like -- when is the trash picked up? do they do bulk pickup? will they take your moving debris? do you have to divide recyclables?

6. Notify your credit cards/banks/creditors of address changes soon. It gets screwy if you depend on the post office to forward your bills. They can sometimes take their sweet time.

7. Don't pack the toolkit in some bx somewhere -- leave it out so you can find/use it easily.

8. If there is a way to paint walls that need painting BEFORE you arrive with stuff fr the rooms, do it -- much easier and faster that way.

9. Did you know that you can hire UHaul to load and unload your truck if you rent from them? You drive it, but they do the grunt work. I packed myself and hired movers, but I almost did the UHaul option.It seemed to be a good medium-solution between total self-move and total mover-move.

Have fun!

--Mata the mover

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Laracolvin 5 pts

I've found in our recent move to Chicago that the big city is by far MUCH more expensive than we ever imagined. Prepare yourself for the gas prices...I saw $4.35 a gallon for unleaded today!  And the groceries...oy vey!

BUT - it really is a super duper cool place to live. Your kids will have so much to do during the summer, and there is public transportation everywhere. I live in the city (close to Evanston), and I'm always amazed at how much is going on all the time.

I hope you and the fam are very happy in your house. You are renting, right? We rent, too. Home ownership is highly overrated, I think!  And good call on the fireplace! :)

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Megan Smith 5 pts

Hi Denise,

The house looks very nice. I agree with Vered that often real estate agents are useless.

When I was looking for my house I took two friends with me and took notes on every house I saw. My friends kept the agent and the homeowners busy while I was able to get a good sense of if a house was right for me without distraction.

After two months and nearly forty houses, I finally walked into the one I'm sitting in right now, and the rest is history.

I hope you and your family will be very happy in your new home.

Megan
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Vered 5 pts

A week before the trip, there were still only two possible houses on the page created by the real estate agent... I was not happy so I got busy and found 12 more that suited our needs.

This does not surprise me. I often find that agents – travel agents, real estate agents etc. – are completely useless. Not all of them of course, but it seems to be a trend - do as little as possible for the highest commission possible.

I love the house. I like the floors, and the French doors to the patio, and the fireplace. Are you sure it’s tiny? There seem to be quite a few bedrooms there, which is great. Oh, and that laundry room is HUGE – totally makes sense to use it for more than laundry stuff.

Vered DeLeeuw
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