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Moving Across the Country: The U-Haul Way

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If there's one thing I should have remembered about moving it's that nothing goes according to schedule. I somehow forgot that little tidbit of information when I was planning how many "Moving Across the Country" blog posts I would have made by now. I'm behind on blogging and I'm behind on everything else. Moving is a huge time suck.

Anyway, back when we were talking about the really serious issues related to moving, I we I decided that there was no way we could afford to pay someone to move us. It's a lot of work to move yourself, I know that, but I didn't feel too badly about telling TW that she would be driving the 26' truck from Florida to Illinois. After all, she's been bragging about driving a big moving van from Maryland to Florida for years now. She likes driving those big trucks, she's said so a million times.

We rented a U-Haul and we rented some guys on both ends to help us load/unload the truck. We spent months giving away or selling most of our belongings and by the time we reached the day of the big pack out, I was no longer worried that we'd get everything on the truck. Either we would or we wouldn't, worrying wasn't going to solve that. TW decided to take that moment to begin worrying. Nice how that worked. I worried for three months while she swore it would all fit. I stopped worrying and she picked up the slack. She also made some tough decisions that morning and gave away stuff she'd been holding onto.

Before I talk about the actual pack up, I'm going to give y'all a chance to make some lesbian U-Haul jokes. It's ok, I'll even help you out a bit. When we picked up the truck, a lesbian was working at U-Haul and she was very interested in having TW call her... anytime... just to chat! Of course she was, any lesbian knows that two lesbians and U-Haul means the relationship is on its way to over... might as well try and hook up your next date. Hah. Whatever.

TW drove the truck home and we packed that "grandma's attic" part of the truck with all of TW's china and stemware. The 21 year old was there to help. (Did I forget to mention that TW dropped the bed on my toe that morning and I was wandering around with a broken toe? Oops. My bad. She did and I was.) We finished loading that part and were quite proud of our work and then we waited for our rental loaders to arrive. When they were a little "late", I called them.

Oops. TW had given them our home number and I, trying to save some money, had disconnected it. So, they weren't sure they were still supposed to come. I gave them directions from Jacksonville to our home and they said they'd be there in an hour. After a good bit of nagging, TW convinced us that we could move the heavy, heavy furniture into the truck ourselves. Chris and I were skeptical but willing to give it a try and we did manage to do it ourselves. Color me SHOCKED and TW smug.

90 minutes had passed, the loaders still had not arrived so I called them back - they're lost. It's really easy to get to our house from Jax. I gave good directions. I gave them more directions and we kept on loading. Chris had to go to work but the 24 year old who lived with us for years arrived and he picked up where Chris left off.

An hour later, the loaders arrived and when they see that we've loaded more than half of the truck without them - they were ANGRY. We called them all the way out here to pack THIS? How dare we waste their time. I wasn't amused by this attitude. They did get to work, and while we weren't impressed with them they did get the rest of the truck loaded while TW and I sat and rested and were happy because yes, it was all going to fit on the truck... even my grafted gardenia in the really huge pot.

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Denise 9 pts moderator

Oops?

So I should feel especially proud of TW for having backed it up without hitting anything on multiple occasions, once in a very very small parking lot of a gas station full of high priced luxury cars.

Our really big UHaul did come in automatic, so that was good.

~Denise
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DCSweetie 5 pts

DCSweetie (http://dcsweetie.blogspot.com/)

My husband and I had a couple of cocktails the night we were picking out the UHaul we wanted to rent online. The size difference between "big" and "huge" looked minimal, so we of course chose "huge". What we didn't know was:

1) a man with no teeth and a major southern accent would have to show my husband how to drive stick in the parking lot of the Uhaul place (because "huge" didn't come in automatic)

and

2) backing up "huge" (even with a helper - ahem - me)  = crushed tail light and damage to the other car. Luckily my husband ignored me when I told him the $25 insurance was a waste of money :)

Denise 9 pts moderator

No. Sorry. If I lived in either Northern or Southern California the answer would be of course. But since I don't, and I really do not want to travel again anywhere longer than an hour away between now and October... I just can't do it.

The move will be fine. Think positively!

~Denise
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Denise 9 pts moderator

TW had an angel bank, from the 70s or something, some funky plastic thing that was full of pennies. It broke, no idea how or why - it's like it dissolved more than broke. Weird.

I was disappointed more didn't break. I packed really BADLY in hopes of reducing the very large amount of stuff we brought with us.

There's a lesson in that.

~Denise
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beyondelsewhere 5 pts

I was just pointing out that awesome people come together when their awesomness is needed! *grin* And that it is nice to have those people around when you need them!

My MonkeyMonkeyMonkey is an exceptionally awesome people.

Cat

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... and the occasional random post here.

sassymonkey 6 pts

Is that when she told me about the possibility of her moving I told her that I'd come help her PACK. And y'all know how much I loathe packing. AND I've helped her move and helped her UNPACK in the past. *ahem*

Implying that I'm a slacker. Sheesh. Just for that when I'm in town she's totally treating me to steamies.

Sassymonkey ( http://sassymonkey.ca/ ) and Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.wordpress.com/ ).

Denise 9 pts moderator

I was pretty ruthless with myself and I was really ruthless with TW and very frustrated when she wouldn't leave some things behind. It was hard but we all survived it. Mostly.

~Denise
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Denise 9 pts moderator

we didn't have much choice in the U-Haul vs moving company thing. Moving companies tend to expect you to pay them with real money when they deliver the goods. Unfortunately.

The only really good thing about our move from Florida to Illinois is that we did not move with any children in our possession. The dog and the bird were more than enough - the kids would have shot the whole thing to... yea.

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Denise 9 pts moderator

I'm sure the monkey will remember how much help she had and return the favor.

~Denise
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ByJane 5 pts

come help me move.  End of August.  Northern CA to Southern CA.   

I'm doing this ON MY OWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By Jane

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Debra Roby 5 pts

Since our last move was a corporate sponsor, we had packers and movers (though I chose to unpack myself). Loved having someone else pack my entire house in day.

Really loved having someone else pack the moving van. It was February in Cleveland, Ohio. Though a beautiful winter day if I were staying home, having all the doors open when 35 degrees meant the house was COLD. The chill drove me to fall asleep on one of the chairs as they moved. The movers whispered and moved so quietly so as not to disturb my nap. Then brought me hot coffee to warm me up.

Worth it at any price.

Debra
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Vered 5 pts

That's remarkable. It never happened to me before. SOMETHING always breaks. 

Having said that, I never broke a toe while moving. :)

Vered DeLeeuw

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beyondelsewhere 5 pts

That sassymonkey also had some awesome people to drive her to the airport as her belongings were trucking over to Toronto. Just saying. You totally have to have an assortment of awesome people around when you move far (or close, really). And said awesome people might just remember how they were awesome to the movee when it's their turn to move far away.

And this post made me laugh and cringe. ;)

Cat

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... and the occasional random post here.

Mata H 5 pts

I moved just after a blizzard in December to my house. I packed up almost everything, and then caved in and let the movers pack the last 20% and do the loading, driving and unloading. Next time they can pack the whole damned thing and I do not care if I have to sell blood (my own or someone else's) to finance it. I plan to stay put here a very very long time, so hopefully that "next time" won't be soon. It is, however, one way to get ruthless about what you need and do not need...

~~ Contributing Editor, Mata H. also blogs right along at Time's Fool ( http://timesfool.blogspot.com )

windysblog 5 pts

I was curious how the U-haul worked out for you. My niece and I will be moving in a few weeks. She'll pack up a U-haul in Massachusetts and drive it to Long Island, where we'll pack up my stuff. Together, we'll be moving in to a home in North Carolina. This will be the biggest move I've done. Lucky for us, we have relatives at all three locations who I'll be recruiting for loading/unloading!

You've inspired me that it can be done! Thanks for putting my mind at more ease today. I needed it!

TW 6 pts

The big truck from MD to FL was a different story entirely.

First, I had driven those roads before, so knew what to expect.

Second I was going from the known to the known. I was driving home. I wasn't driving from home to a new place...the new not yet home. 

Third The truck was very different. The U-Haul was unleaded gas. It was a truck built for non-truck drivers. The yellow truck had a hydraulic suspension, was higher, handled better and the ride was not as bumpy or skittish. It also is a common enough truck for real truck drivers to drive that other trucks and cars didn't treat you like a newbie.

Fourth At the time I drove the big truck last time, I still did a lot of driving. It hadn't been so long since I routinely did long haul driving from FL to SC on a regular basis.  

~TW ( http://ramblewoman.blogspot.com )
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whymomdrinksrum 5 pts

We did the U-Haul route before we had kids...and once after. That once after was enough for me to declare "Never, ever, again!". I've stuck to it. That's the one thing I won't give in to hubby on (lie...there are a great many things...but that is the one thing in regards to moving I won't give in on. That and my packing system. And him not packing anything).

My friend from junior high stopped in this weekend on her 7 day drive across the country on her big move. Military move as well (lucky girl!) - still, 7 days of solid driving with three kids under the age of 7 in a minivan. *shudder*.

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 Conventional motherhood? You bet it includes rum!

Denise 9 pts moderator

If you were coming from Jax, there was no exit - which was your problem. Someone native to the area should know "301" to Waldo Rd. Right on NW 8th Ave. Right on NW 51st Ter. lol

Hah, had we moved to Illinois during a potential snowstorm period, we'd have had to sell a child and pay a moving company. :-)

~Denise
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sassymonkey 6 pts

When I moved from Montreal to Toronto. But there was no way in hell I was driving a U-Haul that far on the highway in February. A very good decision as the day I moved there was a snowstorm. I ended up finding a good moving company that I've used for every move since then. Love em!

Your old house was hard to find. We never did find one of the exit we were supposed to take. The new place is easier to find I hope.

Sassymonkey ( http://sassymonkey.ca/ ) and Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.wordpress.com/ ).