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Is MTV Making Teen Pregnancy Worse With "Teen Mom?"

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In case you haven't been following the news surrounding MTV's popular show "Teen Mom 2," the premiere of which was last night and which is a spinoff of their popular show "16 and Pregnant" and a sequel of the even more popular show "Teen Mom," let me give you some highlights:

  • Teenage girls are now getting pregnant on purpose so they can audition for these shows. Does this disturb you?
  • And why not? There is now a "Teen Mom" cast member segment in gossip magazines each week, and Teen Moms are followed by paparazzi. They're newsworthy! They sell magazines! Statistics be damned — become a teen mom — it’s the new way to become reality-tv famous!
  • Speaking of news, Teen Mom Amber Portwood was recently indicted for domestic abuse for a beating she gave her former fiancé ON THE SHOW while their baby was in the next room.

Where do I even start with this? What are MTV executives thinking? Where is the line when it comes to reality TV? Why was the MTV camera crew not named as accessories to the felony domestic abuse they witnessed and did nothing to stop? Where does MTV's responsibility begin when it comes to the lives of these children? And by children, I don't mean the babies. I mean the teen moms themselves, who are being blatantly exploited by MTV. There, I said it.

Here's the thing: it's one thing to take camera crews in to document something that's happening anyway that maybe we just didn't know about (Hoarders, anyone? Psychic Kids?), but it is quite another to cultivate and even encourage this behavior for the sake of a hit show.

The line is blurry from the beginning -- the intention is obviously there to show the realities of teen pregnancy (the inevitable relationship instability, financial instability, and inability to finish their educational goals). Every single one of them says something to the effect of "I wish I had waited," or "It's much harder than I thought," or "I've had to grow up overnight," and MTV does have the requisite public service website to teach kids about preventing teen pregnancy and domestic abuse.

And yet ... there is a certain prurient interest in these shows that goes beyond simply rooting for the girls to make it. For better or worse, MTV has created a culture of celebrity with these teenagers, evidenced most clearly in the After Shows (hosted by Dr. Drew Pinsky of Loveline and Celebrity Rehab fame), where the audience consists of other teenage girls who are now romanticizing the teen pregnancies, oohing and aahing over the babies, and crying over the proposals.

Side note: proposals? Why is it better to be 16 and pregnant AND MARRIED? To my mind, this just adds another grown-up expectation to a child with a problem, which is essentially what MTV is doing by glorifying these girls -- adding camera crews and the entertainment industry to their lives during a time when they are barely struggling to get by, then not stepping in when they get into dangerous and/ or violent situations like domestic abuse or child neglect. Why is this okay? How does being married make these situations better?

Never one to miss out on the exploitation bandwagon, US Weekly has recently profiled the Teen Mom 2 cast: Leah, who got pregnant with twins after dating a guy for a month and is now married and on the cover of US Weekly. The overall message: this kind of thing is okay! Have unprotected sex and drop out of school, because there is a place for you on MTV, despite overwhelming statistical evidence to the contrary.

Next up: Jenelle, the spoiled, entitled brat with a pushy mom, who is already losing her temper and shoving her mom around in episode one. This is going in the direction of last season's Farrah, where legal and custody issues will be the disturbing backdrop of the show. Again, MTV-- really? Adding camera crews to this situation is just going to make them more performative (a la Cops), so once again, you are encouraging and exacerbating the problem.

Also in the cast: Kailyn, who has basically had to raise herself because of a complete

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krystalley 5 pts

I loved reading this article. Every thing you wrote was exactly how I felt about the show. Even though I watch it (sadly entertaining) I fuss at the television for the whole hour it's on. I get so sick of them being glorified and paid to make complete fools of themselves. smh. I was a teen mother and I would have run for cover if they attempted to put me on this show to be humiliated. Fame is not worth that much.

unbrokenworld 5 pts

I'm going to agree here-- I hadn't heard anything about girls getting pregnant to get on the show. They profile about 10 girls for "16 and Pregnant" if I remember correctly, and then 4 of those end up on "Teen Mom," and both have only had two seasons. I think you're better off singing badly to get on the American Idol "outtakes" auditions.

The experience of watching the show, for me, is a lot of "Oh! Don't do that! NO!!" and for my husband, it reaffirms for him that if those guys can be call "involved fathers," he probably won't do all that bad of a job himself. So yeah, I guess when you're in your late 20s and want to have kids, it doesn't turn you off. But I wanted a baby when I was, like, 14, and a show like this would have made me hide until a chair and swear off ever having kids.

Julie Anita @ The Unbroken World ( http://unbrokenworld.blogspot.com )

Ultrasound Mommy 5 pts

You make some very valid arguments against these shows which obviously exploit and appear to glamorize teen pregnancy. However, having watched several episodes of these shows myself (admittedly for the freak factor), I have rarely seen one that would make any teenager with a half a brain want to become a teen mom after watching it. The shows are full of financial hardship, relationship struggles, and more tears than any teenager ever desires to cry. The typical show is that of a teen mom whose boyfriend is out partying and is non-existent as a parent, she has dropped out of school and her dreams of college or a good career seem squashed, she is frantically trying to figure out how to support her baby financially, and she desperately tries to mother her baby the best a teen mom can while her friends are enjoying the prom or other fun teenage milestones. If after watching one of these shows a teenager suddenly wants to have a baby I'd be pretty surprised.

frankilee79 5 pts

Write On,,, when there seems to be no use in it, when u think what good it;ll do,,,,,, just WRITE ON!

Franki Lee

I don't think there is a line when it comes to reality tv,,, and the executives were thinking about were ratings, whats going to attract a lot of veiwers and therefore attract sponsors?
Lets face it, there is no interest in 'responsible' anything anymore. If chaos and pandimonium isn't errupting there is no use for it.
They certainly were not thinking about the yearning for fame that might make teens have a baby just for the shot that they might get on tv as a result.
I haven't seen the show nor will I contribute to reality craze, but I'll bet they have left out certian aspects of it, like feeding and diapers changes every two hours, colic, teething, when the baby gets sick in the middle of the night, has a 100degree fever, throwing up, diareah, (mispelled), upper respitory infections, single motherhood.
AND I'LL BET MY BOTTOM DOLLAR, THEY DON'T SHOW THE LABOR AND DELIVERY.
As for your comment about the cameramen not being charged with acessory to the beating, they're protected by the good sameritan law, basicaly doing nothing in the event of another person being harmed or in need of help does not come with any ramifications legally or financially. However doing something can actually result in the bystander being sued by the very people they were tying to help.
Quite awhile back, I read of this woman in New York who was being attacked and raped and two men stumbled onto it happening and did nothing to help her. She took them to court over it, claiming that they should have done something to help her.
The judge dismissed the case saying that they did nothing legally wrong.
Assbackwards I know but that is the law.

StaceySaidIt 5 pts

Before I read your article, I actually thought it taught a good lesson. I saw how it focused on the mother always getting "stuck with" the baby and the father getting to leave when it pleases him. It is so true, even with grown up, mature relationships. I also saw how it's the mother who makes all the sacrifices, how physically and emotionally and financially draining it is. I am hoping that this is what the teens see and learn and not that if you become pregnant you may be able to get on a show.

I was married for a few years and was over 30 years old before I had my first child. I was terrified and unsure of myself. I can't imagine was a less mature woman / girl feels.

p.s. for a satire on xmas / teen mom, see my blog post "16 and pregnant" at
Staceysaidit.blogspot.com

mammablestx6 7 pts

I am a mom of two teens now, a son and daughter. (and older kids too, plus a tween moving up the ranks WAY too soon).
MY son 13,has watched the show and his take is WAY different than my daughter 18. He thinks the whole thing is STUPID (his words) but when my older teen watches the show, I WATCH her watch the show...and I am hearing her state the negatives of teen pregnancy and parenthood, but at the same time, I can see the stars in her eyes...the ooohing and aaahing at the babies and the fact that these girls get a TON of attention. What I see from her point of view isn't even as much about the children but whether the "parents" are gonna make it as a couple or not. It seems that teens can justify the whole little picture perfect family (well to teens anyway) IF the parents can stay together and make a family. I wonder if this comes from the divorce rate in our country and so many kids wanting to MAKE the intact family they might not have had... Someone to love them back. Some "thing" to control.
I am pretty sickened by the payment these kids get. Certainly if that word got out, a young teen would (again) have stars in their eyes once again. At that age, how many can be realistic about any of this? This is not reality TV in my eyes...it is an opportunistic chance for some big ConGlom to make a ton of money and SAY it is for the good of the people. Reality? Staged? In my opinion, if it makes teens hungry for more, it is gonna' continue.

Cornbread and Molasses 5 pts

Great article. Thank you!
Sadly I saw this coming. Especially after it was revealed how much money they pay per episode.

Golden, Sweet, and Informative

http://www.cornbreadandmolasses.com

Natalie@mycrazybusylife 5 pts

I actually recently wrote about this very thing.
I was a teen mom & think it's horrible that they are glorifying this situation. I think their intentions are good, but it's not what is happening. These girls should not get 15 minutes of fame. If networks want to help, use their power to enable better sex ed programs or helping young moms continue their education. Another aspect would be raising the standards of the boys who are getting these girls pregnant. Often times, they simply scatter to the wind & don't help with their kids past the conception point.

Granted I've never watched this show, but I don't plan on it either.

SingleMama1717 5 pts

I am guilty of watching this awful trainwreck of a show, and the thing that gets to me the most is when Amber was in court they made her state her income. I don't remember the exact amount, but it was over $200,000 a year. Seriously? There is a level of MTV exploiting these girls, but they are being generously compensated...for being trash on TV. I have to wonder how much of the show is fake when they show them struggling to pay bills, because they are making good money due to the show.

I didn't believe until yesterday that teen girls were getting knocked up on purpose (when you think rationally, there are how many "stars" of the show, you're not going to be on just because you got pregnant), but then I watched the first episode online. And when you watch online there is a chatroom going on at the same time. An obsene amount of the girls in that chat room were discussing how to get pregnant, expressing how desperate they are to have babies, how they know it'll be a good thing. That freaked me out. I didn't join the chat because I think I would have ended up yelling at them, but believe me, I wanted to.

Bakers Want A Bun 5 pts

I think that it is indescribably horrifying. Maybe they are trying to boost our already overpopulated world with a "New Baby Boom" Generation. But instead of being because of war its because of Fame. If they are not in the "Light" of fame are they going to take care of the children they are bringing into this world? or are they creating another generation of uncared for children? I don't believe a child should be unwanted or wanted for all the wrong reasons like Money Maker, Fame, Status. As a Woman who wants children more than like itself. It hurts my heart to see teenagers having children to become famous.

♥  Infertile in Mesa

ladyestrogen 5 pts

I can't even stomach the commercials and I think that the entire premise behind that show is dispicable. It doesn't stop with that show either - other 'famous' teens that are becoming pregnant are also being rewarded with more fame and all these babies are being treated as fashion accessories, like the tiny dog trend of 10 years ago, now it's babies. It's disgusting.

I have seen this reflected in the "general population" that only see the glamour, and not the time, energy, dedication and MONEY that it takes to raise a baby...and it's disturbing. I also wrote a post about it a few months back.

http://adventuresinestrogen.blogspot.com/2010/09/p...

JennaHatfield 86 pts

Shannon,

Do a quick google search for forums and the like; they are. Or trying. For the previous post I wrote about this on BlogHer, I saw way too many scary posts from young teens who were interested in how they could get on either version of the show.

More over, as I posted below, my unethical non-agency was actively assisting with recruitment and casting for 16 & Pregnant. Disgusting.

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

JennaHatfield 86 pts

I wrote about the subject last summer. The unethical non-agency through which I placed my firstborn was actively helping in recruiting and casting of the show 16 & Pregnant. I wish I was joking, but I have screen shots ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com/2010/07/28/... ). I referred to it as a new low for the adoption industry, but MTV is equally to blame for accepting their help in such a manner.

Just another reason as to why ethical adoption reform is so, so, so, so necessary at this point.

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

Shannon LC Cate 14 pts

Hold on--where are you getting the idea that girls are getting pregnant on purpose to audition for the show?

I heard a report about it recently that suggested that this show (the mom one, not the pregnant one) is actually having the effect of turning kids off of teen pregnancy and motherhood, because they see the reality of how hard it really is. Not to mention, the kids in the show (the moms themselves) don't come off looking very nice or glamorous, but rather miserable and sometimes nasty (as you point out).

Perhaps there is a kid out there who thinks teen pregnancy is the way to stardom, but that kid is probably A) the tiny minority and B) delusion about the realities of life anyway--long before this show.

I give the vast majority of young people credit for knowing a bad idea when they see it on t.v. and having the good sense to think it through. The show also provides wonderful fodder for conversations about the realities of grownup life between parents and teens, teachers and teens, youth leaders and teens, etc. etc.

Let kids watch it and think the babies are cute and the marriage proposals are romantic. Then let them keep watching while dad channel surfs and ignores the crying baby that kept mom up all night and then see how romantic it is.

Seems like great teen pregnancy prevention to me.

"All that you have is your soul." Tracy Chapman

CroMom 5 pts

I watched, it drives my husband crazy that I do, but it is like driving by a car accident. I watch and feel sad for some of them, feel hate for others, and pity for others. Your thoughts can be said about many "reality" television programs...but your point is valid. In the age of youtube, facebook, and all the other online marketing tools - young people feel that fame is right around the corner and in turn, so is fortune.
all of the "safe sex" promotion at the end of the program won't help.
I think it was an interesting concept and I would have rather that MTV followed around the original cast to see how their lives turned out. In the original group of girls, one of them has been arrested and is facing serious charges of spousal abuse. The girl who is still with her boyfriend and has some direction in her life is the one who gave her child up for adoption - but they show her stuggling with that decision every day.

Rita Arens 63 pts

I hadn't realized it was such a big deal until I saw, as you pointed out, the covers in the checkout line at some point last year. And then I just got sad. I remembered when I was pregnant with my daughter and saw a group of teen girls in the waiting room at the OB-GYN. One had a baby, one was pregnant, and the other was clearly the only one old enough to drive. The one with the driver's license said, "I wish I had a baby," and then I wondered what the hell was wrong with America.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

theoutcast 7 pts

You pose excellent dilemmas raised by the show. I think the problem is that we do not focus, celebrate and embrace productive, responsible parenthood. Raising kids is an after-thought in America. They are commodities unto others only. Parenting the village holds no value.

Until parents -- not politics, money, business, religion gain influence over society we will continue to have the rest dictate what is normal, profitable and newsworthy.

It's human nature to watch and follow along -- anything. As you say, this could take on a much more positive angle. I think it shows how difficult mom life really is. That may actually prevent a few pregnancies. I trust that most girls know better than to copy what they see on t.v....but I realize there are others who will.

Heather blogs about Motherhood & Other Offensive Situations at http://www.ultimateoutcasts.com.