Up until the end of April this year, if you had run into former South African footballer Eudy Simelane, chances are that you would have met a happy woman. At 31, Simelane was still involved with the sport she loved as a coach and referee. She was a lesbian in a country in which homosexuality was not only legal, it is enshrined in the Constitution.
Not only that, her close-knit family accepted her sexuality, as well as her partner of two years, Sibongile Pearl Vilakazi. On top of all of that good fortune, she was about to start a promising new job with a pharmaceutical company.
Then, on April 28, she was beaten, repeatedly stabbed and reportedly gang-raped and left to die in a shallow river near her home in the Tornado section of KwaThema township. According to news reports, five young men between the ages of 18 and 24 are in custody; reportedly one was a neighbor who knew Simelane. As of May 27, the case has been put off until June 3 while legal representation is being arranged for the defendants. This issue has already delayed the case before.
More than 2,000 mourners showed up at Simelane's funeral, including a member of the South African parliament who encouraged human rights activists to continue the fight against violence. Indeed Simelane's murder has further galvanized activists trying to call attention to homophobic violence in South Africa and across the continent. In KwaThema, protestors gathered by the hundreds outside the courtroom where the initial hearings for Simelane's alleged killers were held. (Behind the Mask has a photo gallery of the demonstration.) Meanwhile, in the US, the FC Indiana women's soccer team will wear black armbands to honor Simelane's memory. Veronica Phewa, a member of the FC Indiana club, was a close friend and former teammate of Simelane.
Sokari Ekine at BlackLooks has been following the Simelane case, and she says it's part of a tragic pattern, On May 3, she wrote:
Once again another lesbian has been raped, tortured and murdered in South Africa on Monday 28th April. Sizakele Sisgasa and Salome Masooa were tortured and murdered
just 10 months ago. Since then lesbians, gays and transsexuals across
the continent - Nigeria, Uganda, Senegal and Cameroon, have been
attacked and beaten and arrested for simply living their sexuality.
After Masooa and Sisgasa were murdered last July 7 in Soweto, activists launched the 07-07-07 anti-violence campaign. Last August, Ekine commented on the connection between homophobic violence and patriarchy:
The submission of women is an essential aspect of patriarchy. Sex is
one of the tools used by men to subjugate women. Any signs of a woman
becoming financially or sexually independent becomes a threat to male
power. Whether this is an unmarried woman who is financially
independent or a lesbian who is sexually independent.
According to this article from South Africa's Mail and Guardian, violence against lesbians is growing in South Africa. One expert cited in the story said that a lesbian is murdered in the townships every three months.
The violence is part of what has made made Sky, who blogs at Lesbian, Black and African, ashamed of her country:
My heart bleeds to all my brothers and sisters and especially because
as a lesbian woman, I can relate to the discrimination they’re facing.
Discrimination in all its forms is rife in Africa. It’s time our people
realised that Human Rights are universal and indivisible and all human
kind is entitled to them regardless.
The International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission called for action on the part of the South African government, but highlighted the global dimensions of the problem:
From Joburg to Brooklyn, from Khayalestha to Kampala, Black lesbians
are unsafe in their own homes and in their own communities. This has
got to stop. We challenge the South African government to get real
about the principles of equality and non-discrimination enshrined in
the Constittion, guaranteed in the International Covenenant on Civil
and Political Rights, and clarified in the Yogyakarta Principles. We
ask the leaders of South Africa to challenge these unbridled attacks
publicly and righteously. Here and now.
I cannot help but note that Simelane's murder occured nearly five years after the stabbing death of 15-year-old Sakia Gunn, an aspiring professional athlete who died fighting off a 29-year-old attacker who had tried to drag one of her teenaged friends into his car. On June 10, filmmaker Charles Bennett Brack will screen Dreams Deferred: The Sakia Gunn Film Project as part of Newfest 2008, the New York LGBT film festival. According to a statement on the website for the film's production company, part of the reason for making the film is because, "we want our youth to have a different future."
A different future, indeed.
Media credits:
7-7-7 campaign image from BlackLooks.org
Eudy Simelane photo from SABCnews.com
Comments
Thank you
As I write, my head is shaking from side to side.
Senseless. Senseless and tragic and everything that takes me to sad. And it in turn takes me to a different level, detached, resigned. Oh, perhaps tomorrow my emotions will have reshaped into defiance, but that is for another time.
I see the stories. North America. Europe. Africa. My ancestor fell to the ignorance of a witch hunt, and one played out this month.
Ministers in this nation preach to hatred, their formidable ally ignorance.
All I can say is something that continues in my detached place. Education, teaching, learning, are not sometime things. We can't educate every other. We can't skip a generation, or a town. We can't forget that we are only going to get as far - as a world - as we take everyone along to a more understanding and learning is precious place.
Good night.
nelle
thanks
Thanks for sharing this story with us. A reminder that even when we have rights, hate is still a threat.
You're welcome
We have to continue to strive against the culture that normalizes this kind of violence. Yes, laws are not enough. Education is not enough.
I am a Christian. I know that many of my co-religionists preach that homosexuality is an abomination. I have relatives who insist that gay, lesbian bisexual and transgendered people are possessed by a demonic spirit. For many of them, there is no point in sharing the work of liberation theologians who have concluded that the traditional understanding of the Christian scriptures on these matters is incorrect.
But I don't think you have to embrace homosexuality or gender variance to believe that it is wrong to rape and murder someone because he or she is different.
Kim
BlogHer Contributing Editor|Professor Kim|
The right to be different
We need to come to a place where we see diversity as a strength, not as something to smother.
I consciously hid and pretended to be someone else for 42 years because of fear of this nonsense. There is a story out there today about parents complaining there are same sex couple photos in a high school yearbook, in a couples section. Nice photos. Lots of outrage.
I'm not asking people to run out and partner up with someone of the same gender. I'm asking them to leave me alone, and go live their own lives.
They can tend to theirs, I'll tend to mine.
IMO, when people start passing judgement on others, they've already tossed their faith a good throw away.
I've zero doubt that the Jesus I learned of as a child, where he here today... would stand with the gay community and remind people to treat others as you wish to be treated.
nelle
Sickening
A lesbian friend told me a few months ago, when I said that gays have made significant progress here in the U.S., that the only real progress is that she doesn't fear for her life anymore.
It is sickening to think that lesbians are tortured and murdered for being lesbians. Nelle is right: it is a witch-hunt in which, to use Ekine's words, patriarchy punishes strong, independent women who threaten male power.
Vered DeLeeuw
www.momgrind.com
Open your heart....
In this time and age how can people justify the killing of someone just because of their sexual orientation? Acceptance is the key to life and judging someone just because of who they are is no reason to rape, murder or torture anyone. I agree with Vered and Ekine's words, patriarchy punishes strong, independent women who threaten male power. In my experience when Men fear what they cannot control they take it out on what they fear. My heart goes out to her family and I can only hope the violence will stop.
Mara http://24stepstogo.blogspot.com/
Peace after hate
This story absolutely breaks my heart. I have many friends and memories in South Africa and am so sad when I hear about continued hate crimes there. As a nation which has brought up generations amidst hate and discrimination, seeing it continue in this horrifying way is beyond tragic. I know there has been a lot of recent tension there but that in no way excuses this death or the hateful, angry, violent intentions which led to it. And our country is certainly not beyond crimes such as these either. Maybe this will act as some sort of wake up call for that community. I hope her soul and her family finds peace. Thank you for sharing this story.
Caroline
http://morningsidemom.wordpress.com/