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Some of out most cherished memories are tied to music. That song playing in the background when you had your first kiss, the one you slow danced to at that freshman mixer, or that sad song that helped you get through the rough times and made you realize you weren't alone. That's why I was happy to see this writing prompt courtesy of Sweetney and Her Bad Mother:

Pick whatever band, performing artist, one-hit wonder - even just a single song, if you want - and write a post about how it moved / rocked / utterly transformed your adolescent / teenage / young-adult self.

Whoorl even provided YouTube links to the songs that

Have Made Deep Imprints On My Tiny Brain.

(This list included everyone from Boz Skaggs to the Pixies.)

Dana from Mamalouges writes how a Jerry Reed song stumbled up in an episode of Scooby Doo helped her get through a tough time in her childhood. (She also managed to find a clip of a catroon Jerry Reed performing that song, "Pretty Mary Sunlight.")

Oh, the Joys recounts a young group canoe trip straight out of her childhood journal where the music she and her friends listened to became sort of a soundtrack narrating the events of the day:

Reading about that trip these many years later I can see my young self. I was a girl with one foot planted, deep as bedrock, in childhood while the other foot desperately searched for a toe hold on the mystifying path to adulthood.

One of my favorite musical memories came courtesy of Chick from Out Of The Coup

All I can say is that my life is pretty plain
I saw the Challenger tragedy on TV when I was in the 6th grade. I remember getting AIDS education in the 7th

And I don't understand why I sleep all day... And I start to complain that there's no rain
X'ers were known for their apathy, attraction to grunge/indie rock and general slack toward their educations, jobs, relationships and life in general.

Red Pen Mama, another X'er also remembers the music of the early nineties:

Hearing Pearl Jam and Nirvana for the first time in the early 1990s elicited a response similar to what had happened that day Beth touched that radio dial. I had been waiting for the next new music to stir me, move me. I mean, I liked a lot of music, but I wasn’t excited about any of it. The sound coming out of the Pacific Northwest changed that for me. I never did get to see Nirvana, but I met several members of Pearl Jam as a college journalist. I have the signed cut-off jean shorts to prove it.

As this meme makes the rounds, I'm curious to see what other bloggers come up with. Hearing stories about how music has the power to change and inspire is one of the most gratifying reasons to seek out those artists. Do you have a particular song or band that transformed your life forever?

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kperfetto 5 pts

Thanks for your stories. I agree with Denise, it's hard to find a place to start when it comes to talking about the music that meant the most to you growing up. I did two posts on my own blog:

Here ( http://kathy-p.blogspot.com/2008/03/not-yer-steppi... ) and here ( http://kathy-p.blogspot.com/2008/03/music-that-mad... )

There are many others...

Available Light ( http://kathy-p.blogspot.com ) & Five Dollar Radio ( http://fivedollarradio.blogspot.com/ )

Kim Pearson 5 pts

Girrrl,

I'm a little older than you, alright? I was in college when Gratitude came out. You remember the first track, Africano -- it starts out smokin' and just gets faster? There was a dance called the Grambling stomp that had 64 beats, and honey we would wear ourselves OUT dancing to that song, you hear me? On top of that, our friend Vicki could sing the live version of "Reasons" right along with Phillip Bailey and that sax player and go above and below his falsetto. "It's all about love, ooh babay..."

And one last thing about Heatwave -- naw, I had better stop there. Tell you if I see you in person at a BlogHer meetup down the road -- LOL!

Thanks for the post, kperfetto!

Kim
BlogHer Contributing Editor ( http://blogher.org/blog/kim-pearson )|Professor Kim ( http://professorkim.blogspot.com )|

Lovebabz 5 pts

I learned to slow dance off Heatwave "Always And Forever" that corny song still makes me smile! I had to be about 15/16 years old...Oh baby.

My first album I bought with my hard earned money (I used to iron clothes for people in the neigborhood, I would charge $5 a basket) was Earth, Wind & Fire "Gratitude" OMG, and I do believe it was the first CD I bought when CDs came on the scene!

Music is the sound track of our lives!

Love,
Babz
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A Life in Transition

Kim Pearson 5 pts

A 16-year-old girl Philadelphia girl is at her first college party, at the radio station at MIT. She's on her first college visit, with five other girls from her high school and a couple hundred other teenagers from around the country. Across the crowded room, in the blue half-light, one beautiful boy moves catlike through the crowd. He is taller than the others. his Afro is Huey Newton-perfect, and a light goatee is visible on his caramel skin. And he is coming toward...me...and all of my girls sigh as his hand reaches out and he says, softly,

"Wanna dance?"

The song was Bobby Womack's "That's the Way I Feel About 'Cha..." and it rang through my head when the song was over and we walked back to my dorm, along the Charles River, in the moonlight, where he kissed me gently and bade me good night.

After that trip, I never saw him again. But the memory still makes me smile.

Kim
BlogHer Contributing Editor|Professor Kim|

Denise 9 pts moderator

How do you even know where to begin to write about the music that made you? It's impossible!

I love reading all of those posts but just can't figure out where to start with my own. Maybe when we're cleaning out the garage and go through all of the vinyl, maybe then I can do it.

~Denise
BlogHer Community Manager

Flamingo House Happenings ( http://www.flamingohouse.net )