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My American “Gringo” Father

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He descended the plane with searching eyes, spotted us, and quickly found his way to his awaiting party: my mother, my brother, and me. That was the day my brother and I met our future American “Gringo” father, a very tall and skinny man, a gangly pale-face wonder, skin the color of pure milk. And we were immediately in awe and in wonder of him, my brother and me. Like planets drawn to the sun. And though at first he had eyes only for our mother, he withdrew from her to meet us. From behind small round spectacles, soft, doe brown eyes boldly looked into ours, as he extended a friendly handshake, gave us a boyish smile, and said ¡Hola!

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He would have followed her to the ends of the Earth; and he did. He followed our mother to the tiny country of El Salvador, all things foreign to him.

He didn’t speak the language; he knew absolutely nothing about the people or their culture. But for love of the woman that had captured his lonely heart, he packed a few measly belongings, left behind his job, family, friends, everything familiar he’d ever known, and with his heart leading the way he got on a plane to join her. Just what was waiting for him at the other side? He didn’t care; she was there. He only saw her face, and knew that his life would forever belong at her side.

My American “Gringo” father was a man of great integrity, a man that kept his promises, no matter what. Before he ever met us he promised our mother to always love and care for us. And to that end he kept his word.

My father was a man that loved God, and trusted his life to Him unreservedly. And if my father taught us anything at all, he taught us to be faithful to our commitments. After all, he led the way for his family!

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Laine Griffin 364 pts

As a person with a father who made the choice to be my father, I find this particularly moving. Thank you for sharing this piece of yourself with us!

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

Laine Griffin Thank you, Laine, for sharing a piece of your life too. I think we were fortunate and blessed to have had that special man, a Father, come into our lives and freely choose to love and care for us. I know his being in my life made contributed to my being the person that I am today. :)

Laine Griffin 364 pts

HomeRearedChef I am sure. And a wonderful person you are!

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

Laine Griffin Thank you, mi Amiga, but I feel the same way about you. You really do get to know a person by what they write. And your writing is very honest. So very cool! :)

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

LucindaA Thank you for saying so, and thank you very much for taking the time to read my blog. I appreciate it! :)

~Virginia

SunbonnetSmart.com 610 pts

Hello there, Virginia! What a powerful story, but not surprising. It would take someone equal to your Mother to capture her heart. I can't help but wonder how old you were when you met him. I bet you were the CUTEST little girl....so sweet. February! The month for LOVE...the more love stories, the better...Much Love to you, Fondly, Robin

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

SunbonnetSmart.com Hello my lovely friend! When I first met my "American" Dad I was a mere six years old. And I fell in-love with my Daddy. He was such a sweet and loving man.

By the way, my Mom reminds me that I used to wet the bed every night, before he came along. And from the first night he came into my life, I stopped. I was cured! My Daddy made all the difference in my life. :)

Much love and BIG hugs, Amiga!

~Virginia

elaineR.N. 514 pts

What a beautiful story. Everyone should be loved like that!! From what you say about your husband, sounds like you also have a love story. Thanks so much for sharing

isthisthemiddle 1031 pts

elaineR.N. That's what I was just thinking. Two women who found love that some others only dream of.

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

When I met Bob I was at a very low point in my life. Though I had plenty of dates to choose from, I was very lonely and very empty. Since our 1st date we have been inseparable, parting only when he had to fly away on company business. I hated those days, though glad he had a job! :) isthisthemiddle

SunbonnetSmart.com 610 pts

HomeRearedChefisthisthemiddle :) Yes...job is good...

elaineR.N. 514 pts

HomeRearedChef isthisthemiddle Thought so!

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

Yes, Elaine, I, too, have a real love story, don't I! Bob and I got married exactly 3 months from our first date. In three days we celebrate 30 years! I think have plenty to smile about. :) elaineR.N.

SabrinaBlogs 26 pts

Your father was amazing. People that love like that are often breathtaking in everything they do. Great job capturing his spirit, Virginia!

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

Thank you, Sabrina! SabrinaBlogs My father really was a very gentle man.

Hugs friend!

SunbonnetSmart.com 610 pts

HomeRearedChefSabrinaBlogs He must have been so HAPPY to bring all of you back with him. I bet he was miserable when your Momma went home.

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

SunbonnetSmart.com He told us he was very much afraid he'd never see her again. So he didn't even think twice in following her. And with his father's financial help he brought us all to America! :)

neekswrite 86 pts

What a wonderful tribute to this man that you obviously loved dearly. Five years can seem like little more than a day, but with family such as yourselves, he had to know that he was well loved. Much love my friend,

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

neekswrite My father LOVED his family gatherings, and that is why Easter, Thanksgiving and Christmas are still so hard to celebrate without him. Sigh!

Thank you for coming to visit, Monique, and here are virtual hugs back at you!

isthisthemiddle 1031 pts

What a wonderful love story. You are putting yourself in his shoes a little bit. Isn't that a hard thing for us to do as children, to imagine the inner lives of our parents? How very much he must have loved your mother! He loved you children, too. What a gentleman, in the best sense of the word

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

isthisthemiddle They knew each other only 2 weeks when he proposed marriage to her, and, of course, she accepted. A few short months later she was called back home to El Salvador. My bother and I were most anxious to see our Mama. When she left the United States, however, she was now carrying my father's 1st child! So he ran-around to get his passport and visa ready, and made all the necessary arrangements for his departure.

My mother's and father's story is truly a Love Story. They didn't even speak each others language. :)

souschef 108 pts

Great post!

When you find love you have to grab it and hold on.

It that means getting on a plane to follow it then that is what you do.

You were lucky to have him in your life.

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

souschef I was lucky...I was BLESSED! He's been gone from our lives now (he is resting with the Lord) 5 years. And we still miss him something terrible.

victorias_view 2017 pts moderator

A beautiful tribute to your father! He sounds like a man of such strong integrity and his relationship with your Mother sounds like what love stories are made of :)

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

victorias_view Thank you! My American father was the best thing that could have happened for us. He led the way and helped us to carve our future. I am a better person today because of my Dad. :)

SunbonnetSmart.com 610 pts

HomeRearedChefvictorias_view REALLY beautiful, Virginia!

HomeRearedChef 1536 pts

SunbonnetSmart.com Thank you, Robin! :)