My Attitude: Recovery from a Skiing Accident That Left Me a Paraplegic
By leahstone17 on January 26, 2012
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I am so happy to share this amazing story with you. It is a story about choosing your attitude even when life throws you a curve ball. My friend recently celebrated his 12 year anniversary since his accident and while some might find that to be a somber day, he and his family celebrate this day and recognize his fantastic accomplishments. I think that is brilliant. Enjoy Grant Carter's story of recovery, adventure, and a positive attitude.
My life took a twist at age 46 after a ski accident left me a paraplegic. Now I’m 58 and still learning what joy each day can bring. You see it is all about attitude. If I had chosen a bad attitude, and those around me had allowed me to do that, things just wouldn’t be the way they are.
I discovered that even though I couldn’t walk, I could still enjoy the world around me. With the help of my family, and friends I returned to work after six months. I continued that work until I was able to retire. Working gave me the confidence that I could do many other things as well. Special programs allowed me to try skiing again. I have been kayaking; I have purchased an off road four wheeler and ridden in the back country. I even traveled to Hawaii and went snorkeling. Now these things I have mentioned take a considerable amount of effort and assistance from others around me but they are still a lot of fun.
So a friend asked if I would share about what it is like to be in a wheelchair. I have found that some people are uncomfortable talking with me, even sometimes looking at me. As a result I often look away from them to help relieve their pain. Some people however are very comfortable talking with me, often I find out these people have a family member or friend who is also in a wheelchair and so they do not find talking with me uncomfortable. Sometimes they even kneel on the ground and get down to my level; this is nice since looking up for a long conversation can make my neck really sore. So don’t feel sorry for me or others in a wheelchair, just talk to us like anyone else, get down on our level and look us in the eye it will be a nice gesture.
Now some people are worried about saying the wrong thing or asking to personal of a question. Don’t worry about that too much, it’s not such a big deal with me after all I have been through, what is important is that people respect me as a person, don’t run away from having contact with me. I’m pretty open about things so if you want to ask a question just ask, I imagine most people with disabilities are pretty much the same. I do think however some people may be touchy about barriers that prevent them from being able to do things. Can you blame them? When it gets harder to do almost everything in your life, it can get pretty frustrating and send you over the edge sometimes. So when those around us try and help remove those barriers it is greatly appreciated, believe me.
A Couple of Things to consider:
If you see someone in a wheelchair waiting outside in a line and it’s cold, invite them inside because their circulation isn’t very good and once they get cold it takes forever to warm up.
All people with disabilities are not the same; if you have questions ask them.
Before you help someone you should ask if they want your help.
If you are talking to a person in a wheelchair for a long time, sit or kneel down so that you are at eye level with them so they don’t have to strain to look up at you.
Think of a person in a wheelchair as a person first, with feelings just like anyone else.
Who in your life has recovered from a tragic situation and you would like to highlight them?
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