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MY LAST PERIOD – OR LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN (in a good way)!

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I believe that last period stories, or almost last period stories, have got to be as interesting as first period stories.  Mine is far better and I have to believe that others have some doozies too.  I can say with certainty that the last period story is a lot more recent than the first period story.  At the very least, I  (and many others) will remember the emotion and embarrassment more vividly.  

The reason I bring up last period stories is that earlier this month I posted a blog about first tampon experiences and asked women to share their first tampon story. Also, I came across another posting asking women to share their first period stories, which many did.  Those can be funny, poignant, embarrassing or courageous.  I say courageous because I just watched one of Rachel Kauder Nalebuff’s videos about first period stories, which are posted on beinggirl.com. (http://www.beinggirl.com/article/rachel-chat-videos/?utm_source=blogher&...)  
It seems that Rachel's grandmother got her first period during WWII shortly before she was going to be subjected to a strip search.  HORRID.  Fortunately, she made it through the war to tell the story.  In the series of videos, Rachel shares first-period stories she has been collecting since she was 13.   

After watching the videos, it struck me that my last period story was embarrassing and a bit crazy and had some factors in common with first period stores.  This is a very abbreviated version of my story:  While going through menopause and having irregular periods that were far and few between, I got a period about 5 months after my previous period.  At the time, I thought I was menopausal.  As an aside, menopause is officially 1 year after the last period.   In any case, I was sitting on a train in Italy with my daughter and got my period unexpectedly.   We were in a first class compartment that was full with 4 others, all strangers.  I leaked through my khaki pants and was mortified.  The Tampax Queen (as my family affectionately referred to me) got an unprotected period.  As it turns out, it was my last.  Actually, that experience made me have absolutely NO REGRETS regarding the end of my menstrual cycle.   

What about other women?  Any good last period stories to share??  After all, growing older and menopause is inevitable.  For some the transition is more difficult than for others.  However, no matter how challenging, I like to think that we can find humor that will help us laugh our way to the next phase of life.  To that end, please share. 

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cdrdash 197 pts

Still having my periods but I'm just starting to have some hot flashes at 51 so my last period is starting to come within sight perhaps!  I'm looking forward to the bloody thing ending!

elaineR.N. 1543 pts

 cdrdash Not a bad thing at all to finally stop.  However, some of the symptoms leading into it are annoying for some and worse for others.  Glad to  know that you are looking forward, as that helps when moving forward. 

KarenLynnn 2140 pts

 cdrdash i like your play on words there Cathy.  ;)  haha!

SunbonnetSmart.com 2592 pts

Wow! KarenLynn! Here's another blast from the past I wish I had read....I guess I am just going to have to go through your POST section on your profile Elaine. Not joining BlogHer until November, I can see I have missed out on lots. Much Love to you both...Fondly, Robin Oh! AND OF COURSE, to you as well, Virginia!

elaineR.N. 1543 pts

 SunbonnetSmart.com Just saw this and sorry I missed your comment 4 months ago.  Glad you stopped by!

KarenLynnn 2140 pts

my last period was august 2007, right before i was diagnosed with breast cancer. the oncologist was unsure if i was in true menopause or chemo induced menopause so i took tamoxifen for 2 years. he started me on femara when he was sure i was on the other side of menopause. not a good memory, but but memorable none the less.

elaineR.N. 1543 pts

 KarenLynnn Not a good memory, but hopefully now all of that is fading away never to be revisited.  Wish I had seen your post KarenLynnn, but glad to read your comment now.  Thanks for sharing.

KarenLynnn 2140 pts

 elaineR.N. oh it's ok, don't worry about not seeing this for a while, i was cruising all over your blogs that day :)  

elaineR.N. 1543 pts

Virginia: Glad you had an uneventful last period, as it seems like you are making up for it with your menopause experience. I am looking forward to reading your blogs that will take me on your menopause trip with you!

HomeRearedChef 4440 pts

I feel terrible to not be able to contribute an embarrassing last moment, due to my last period. My change went very smoothly, all things considered.

During my last year of seeing periods, I missed a couple, and then had some heavy and some light months too. My very last period was seen at the end of December of 2009. And I couldn't be more glad that they are over!

Menopause, on the other hand, is another story.

~Virginia