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Retail Therapy: Confessions of a Former Shop Girl

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I've paid my dues for working the retail job.

Working retail -- specifically fashion retail -- definitely helped make me a better customer. I always hang up my clothes after trying them on, right side out, buttoned up if needed, because I've been the one who has to hang stuff back up. I was already doing it anyway, but having the experience of working fashion retail solidified it. I don't want to be That Customer, because I've dealt with That Customer, and I don't want to do that to someone else.

Both of my first non-babysitting jobs were retail. I started out as back of house for a kitchen goods store. I still can't giftwrap to save my life, but at one point, I was a Professional Giftwrapper. My second non-babysitting job was working for a small boutique in my hometown; the entire set-up was a little ... shall we say, sketchy ... but needless to say there were days where I was there from open to close, twelve hours a day, with no supervision. Just 18-year-old freshly-graduated me and the store. And all its stock.

And I will confess -- sometimes I would invite my friends over to come hang out with me at the store while I was working. If it was a quiet day (which it tended to be), we'd try on hats and sunglasses, look at the jewelry, just hang out. It was summer, we'd just graduated, we were going to college in the fall. Obviously if a customer came in they were my priority, but it was fun to say, for the first time, "yes, come visit me at work!"

My favorite thing to show my friends and urge them to try on for the hell of it? The Heatherette dress that my predecessor had convinced my boss to order... and no one ever bought. It was a Carrie Bradshaw dress -- metallic pink, raw edges, flowers and glitter, strapless and miniskirt. Thing is, in the midst of One-Dot-Oh, there weren't many Carrie Bradshaws running around Silicon Valley. That dress was permanently in the "on sale!" selection. In fact, it might still be there.

And so I have a sympathetic bent for those still working in retail: The employees who have to be the face of Awful Corporate Policy, who have to do things like shred the "damaged clothes" at H&M, or tell an autistic girl she can't have help in the dressing room. The ones who get nailed by mobs of customers on Limited Edition launch days. The ones who have to follow corporate dress codes to have the "right look" on the floor.

For more bonus reading:

Delusions of Grandeur writes about being the buyer at a resale shop, and the (swearing, shoplifting, tag-switching, haggling) customers she encounters.

Still interested in working a retail position? How about at LUSH Cosmetics? Gala Darling, former LUSH employee and current International Playgirl shares her tips on how to get a job at LUSH.

Or how about some Sephora Secrets, from Jezebel's Sephora Spy column?

Have you ever worked a fashion or beauty retail position? What kind of things did you have to deal with on a regular basis? Any horror stories? Any confessions? (Because believe me, I've got plenty of both...)

Jeanne also blogs at The Periodic Elements of Style.

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Mickie 5 pts

I have all the sympathy in the world for salespeople--I know what it's like!  We had customers whose children crawled inside our circular racks to relieve themselves (both types), the shoplifters (who, me?), the perverts who would find just the right spot outside the dressing room to peek in, the list goes on and on.  However, I'm with Elisa.  I am a very good customer--I always go up to a salesperson with a smile and a hello.  I know what nasty customers are like. But poor customer service due to laziness or disrespect I do not tolerate.  I've been there, and there is never any excuse for that behavior with a customer who treats you with respect.  I also am a firm believer in letting managers know about poor service, as well as great service.  I write thank you notes and make phone calls.  You have to let stores and companies know about both the bad AND the good!  I once had an order mistake made by a sandwich shop for a group at my office.  It happens.  No big deal--I called the shop and they actually brought the missing sandwich and a coupon for another one to my office.  I was impressed at the service, so I wrote the corporate office.  Several months later, I placed another order, went to pick it up, and was asked, "Are you THE Mickie?"  They were referring to the person who'd written the letter to the corp. office, and showed me where it was posted in the kitchen on the wall.  The corp. office figured that if someone had taken the time to write them, they'd better give kudos to the people that made it happen.  So I make it a point to complain and make sure people know when the service is good as well.

Elisa Camahort 5 pts

I enjoyed it pretty much. Sold shoes.

I find it hard to imagine now. Did I really used to stand on my feet for hours at a time without complaint?

It's funny though. On the one hand I try to be a good customer. But having been in retail and having been a good salesperson, I do get ticked off at really poor service. Especially if it's disrespectful (as opposed to just harried and over-worked.)  

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msjeanneb 5 pts

Yes, it's definitely good karma! I definitely try to keep my patience and be a good customer -- because I've been there.

The same goes for waiters -- both my parents and several of my friends waited tables, so we're pretty understanding when things go awry. (My mom hasn't waited tables in decades and she still has nightmares about getting slammed.)

-- Jeanne - The Periodic Elements of Style: http://periodicstyle.blogspot.com

msjeanneb 5 pts

The make-up is the worst! I've never seen an ink tag explode (or the aftermath of an ink explosion), but I bet it's not pretty either. No one wants to buy ruined merch.

One of my friends would often have people come up to her register with damaged clothes and say "Oh, this shirt has blue pen all over it, can I have it at a discount?" "...Ma'am, is that a blue pen in your pocket?" "...no?" (Seriously, if you marked it up with a pen yourself, WHY DO YOU STILL WANT IT. Even at a discount, IT HAS PEN ALL OVER IT.)

-- Jeanne - The Periodic Elements of Style: http://periodicstyle.blogspot.com

Beverly Flaxington 5 pts

I can still vividly remember getting a job in college at Herman's World of Sporting Goods. As a people-person I thought I would love the constant interaction. Wow -- what a rude awakening. Between the people who yelled at me for no apparent reason, the managers who were constantly under pressure to perform and the customers who tried to return unreturnable items (my favorite was the pair of sneakers that had NO soles left on them that the customer decided they "didn't like"), I walked out one day vowing never to work in a retail store again.

And, now, decades later -- I go out of my way to be patient and polite when I'm in a store. I figure they need all of the positive karma they can get on any given day.

Beverly Flaxington

Blog: Dealing with Difficult People ( http://dealingdifficultpeople.blogspot.com/ )

Book: Understanding Other People: The Five Secrets ( http://www.understandingotherpeople.com/ )

SCanon 5 pts

I worked at JCPenney's once and I've had many of THOSE customers.  Makeup smeared all over white shirts, shop lifting, ink tags exploding all over clothes, pushy bitchy people who treat you like you're a bum...oh yes.  So I try to be as nice and patient as I can.

The worst retail job I ever had was at a store that sold collectibles (Precious Moments, Boyd's Bears).  Those customers were the nastiest bunch of old ladies I have ever been near.  If the new Precious Moments figurine didn't arrive at our particular store at a certain time, the talked to us like we were conspirators trying to ruin their lives.  It was awful.

Somer blogs at Merry Wife of Canon ( http://www.merrywifeofcanon.com ) as well as Smell My Plate ( http://www.smellmyplate.com ).