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My Mother the Cool Dresser; Accessorized to Kill

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It is a well known fact that my mother has always dressed and accessorized in style; more like dressed to kill the competition, no matter what her age. Even now, aged 77, her grandkids and great-grandkids refer to her as “Gramita (or Grandma) the cool dresser.” She is bejeweled and appropriately colorful, with added rouge to her once-high cheekbones and lipstick to still plump lips.

When she was a young woman living in San Salvador, El Salvador, early-enough to wear sexy 3-inch spike heels, she knew how to catch a man’s eye. And boy did she ever!

Mommy, Dec. 15, 2009 at Red Lobster

She carried her head and chin high and smiled her practiced coy smile, without ever parting her full lips. She even sashayed with pretention as she batted her eyes to approaching masculinity, but never, ever, planned to direct a single word of friendliness. She saved her Siren’s breath only for the worthy, those most willing to make fools of themselves. She gave everything but offered nothing; she was a lady, after all. But she left them hungry with desire.

To her window they came to serenade, with poems and with songs, and even once or twice were drenched with water by her ever watchful mother. Those poor, poor lads!

She was like a tigress on the prowl, but her hunger was sated just from knowing she was admired and desired. Even now that she is a Senior Citizen other women will envy her striking good looks. And even now she hides her age well-enough that she makes a game at keeping them guessing. Oh, how I wish I could have been like her, or even carry myself like her now; to have that kind of poise and self-assured confidence. Oh, how I wish….

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KarenLynnn 985 pts

My mom is a snappy dresser too, and doesn't approve of blue jeans. She's never worn them! Great read Virginia :)

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

KarenLynnn Thank you, dear amiga! And I've seen a few pictures of your mother now, from your posts, and she is a very good looking lady. And by the way, you resemble your mom a lot. :)

KarenLynnn 985 pts

HomeRearedChef you didn't think i favored my dad more? that's what everyone used to say. now that we are getting older, mom and me, i do see that she is indeed my momma now. :)

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

From the pictures I've seen so far, you really resemble your mama best. Same smile! And I understand that we do change as we get older. And so you probably have, to look more like mom. :) KarenLynnn

Grace Hwang Lynch 59 pts

I think this kind of beauty comes from having a beautiful spirit on the inside ;)

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

Grace Hwang Lynch Thank you, Grace, and I think I must agree. My mother as a young girl was a happy spirited young lady. One of her really big passions was dancing. She loved to dance! And she loves to tell the stories of her youth, going to parties and quickly being recognized as the best one there. Guys actually quarreled to be her all-night partner and dance solely with her. Naturally her dance card was always full.

Thank you for your visit. It is always such a pleasure to see a comment from you, Grace. :)

feelingbeachie 106 pts

well, now I know where you get your good looks... she is beautiful!

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

feelingbeachie Oh, STOP! You are much too generous with your piropos (compliments, a slang in Spanish). However WE thank you! :)

Big hugs my friend,

Retire In Style Blog.Com 7 pts

This is a subject that is close to my heart. I am a retired educator, blogger and woman that loves style. Come on over and see my blog sometimes.

Oh, by the way Home Reared Chef, your mother is very lucky. People we love are so beautiful both inside and out.

Barbara

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

Retire In Style Blog.Com Thank you, Barbara, and it is a real pleasure to meet you. And I will take you up on your offer to visit.

Most appreciative of your visit here!

~Virginia

Reda 103 pts

LOL. My mother....exactly....I swear! She wore spike heels to the grocery store. She is ill, and I will be writing about her, soon....but, Virginia.....she gets dressed up, scarves and hats and glittery sweaters to go for Chemo! Cracking me up!

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

Reda Hey, they put us to shame. You saw my mom's picture, she looks good! Don't even ask what I looked like that day. Yuk! LOL!

Sounds like our mothers are still lookers. ;)

Reda 103 pts

HomeRearedChef

Still lookers and still wanting the looks. My Mom WALKS different when she sees a man! Little devils!

Retire In Style Blog.Com 7 pts

RedaHomeRearedChef Good for her. She must make you so proud.

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

Retire In Style Blog.Com My Mama makes me very proud. :)

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

Reda Oh-my goodness, and so does my mom. The behaves completely different. Where-where do they get the energy and desire from? LOL!

SunbonnetSmart.com 625 pts

Whoa! Virginia! Just catching up and loving it. My wishes were answered, because I just wanted to see an enlargement of your Momma's photo and PRESTO! I tried clicking on it and so enjoyed being able to see her better. Love her pizazz! We should all be so lucky as you and your Mummy. Thanks for sharing. You are off to a BIG NaBloPoMo start. Much Love to you, Momma and hubby, Fondly, Robin

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

SunbonnetSmart.com Thank you for the visit and compliment, Amiga. I am heading now to have dinner with hubby (rib eye steaks and oven roasted potatoes), and then I will be looking for your post as well. I am glad we've signed up for NaBloPoMo. Very cool!

BIG hugs, my dear friend,

~Virginia

tennismama 16 pts

Look at her poise~ (on top of her sense of style!)

I can't believe her age even after you mentioned.

She defintely is a eye catcher!

I'm sure you inherited her fashion sense and poise Virginia.

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

tennismama You are so sweet...thank you! But, yes, you can see how she poses for the camera. She lights up when she knows the camera is set to take a picture of her. Sheesh! I need to find that sense of "poise," as you called it.

victorias_view 2078 pts moderator

I think I know where you got your good looks and sense of style ;) Your mama is smoking!

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

victorias_view I took her to lunch the other day, to that same Red Lobster, and as we were leaving, three elderly gentlemen were waving goodbye to her. NOT me! They were waving at her!! :)

victorias_view 2078 pts moderator

HomeRearedChef LOL! I bet she has a way with the fellas ;)

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

victorias_view Well, she still has those eyes, so, yes! LOL!

Denise 898 pts moderator

She's gorgeous, just like you are!

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

Denise Awesss...thank you, Denise! But I think that my Mother has a quality of something I have always lacked. Not complaining here, but there has always been something there. Just check out her stance, as she poses for a picture! :)

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

Laine Griffin Why, thank you, my friend! As you can see from her picture, she knows how to dress in style. And she still can catch an eye or two. ;)

isthisthemiddle 1059 pts

Mama is a hottie, no doubt, as is her Nini.

Some women seem to be born with that confidence, that innate sense of womanly power to bring the biggest, strongest man to his knees. Yet still they are lady-like, and men know they may look, but not touch without permiso. Amazing. Thanks for sharing about your Mom-- may we all still be keeping people guessing at 77.

I would love to hear more about your hat collection-- hats fascinate me. I have a few, but my cabeza es grande and hard to fit hat-wise. :)

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

isthisthemiddle Ha, ha, ha...! Mi cabeza es grande tambien! (Hubby walked in to find me laughing, and asked "what?" So he came to stand over my shoulders to read, and laughed too!)

Maybe I should write a blog about hats. I think I will. Thank you for the inspiration, Amiga querida. :)

BIG hugs, dearest friend!

isthisthemiddle 1059 pts

HomeRearedChef All those brains we have need a suitably large container! Now I've made myself laugh!

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

isthisthemiddle You are just too cute for words...as always, querida Amiga! :)

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

SunbonnetSmart.com Ha, ha, ha...!

cookingwithkary 132 pts

Hello Virgina, The first thought that popped in my head after reading this is from the movie Steel Magnolias, in a southern accent of course.

"Clairee Belcher: The only thing that separates us from the animals is our ability to accessorize."

If you have not seen the movie it is a must see!!!!! And V- You write with beauty and grace even that nose post....... Hugs, Kary

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

cookingwithkary Oh, Kary, you had me in tears, you had me laughing so hard. I LOVE your comment. Thank you for those words, music and poetry to my ears today. :)

I know I've seen Steel Magnolias, though that was years ago now. And just because of you, I plan to go out and buy it and see it again. I have to now. And I love that line you say is from the movie, "..our ability to accessorize." The only line from that movie I remember, is, I believe from, Olivia Dukakis saying to another woman, "Do you have a reindeer up your [butt]," or something like that. That, too, was a great line!

Thank you for your visit, my dear friend. And I wonder, did you sign up for February's NaBloPoMo? I did.... Sigh!

cookingwithkary 132 pts

HomeRearedChef

So many great lines in that movie! I did not sign up for NaBloPoMo for Feb, I am really trying to finish my cookbook! So I am approaching each day as I would when I was working full time. But I will look forward to reading your great posts! Hugs, Kary

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

cookingwithkary Good luck on your book. Mine is put on hold, just temporarily. Having too many set-backs here.

Hugs back at you!

SunbonnetSmart.com 625 pts

cookingwithkary Finish your cookbook! We'll be here waiting....don't worry 'bout that! :)

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

SunbonnetSmart.com I am working on it, Robin, though very slowly. But my goal is to finish it this year. Thank you for that gentle and loving push. :)

Love you my friend!

isthisthemiddle 1059 pts

cookingwithkary That is a classic quote-- so glad you remembered that one!

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

isthisthemiddlecookingwithkary Really great lines from that movie!

curvywriter 28 pts

My grandmother was the same way. Though I have the same love for bright colors and big chunky jewelry, I can never hope to be as stylish as she was.

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

curvywriter Hello again, DJ, it is such a pleasant surprise to have your visit today. Thank you!

When I was young and worked for Barbizon I was always stylish. But I can't ever remember feeling that total attitude I saw my mother have. I don't think I ever had that same confidence. We do have one thing in common, my mother and I, we LOVE, as you said, "chunky jewelry." I've always called them "goddy" jewelry ~ big loops, big rings, lots of bangles (noisy bracelets). But that has been our style. I've also always had a huge collection of hats, big, huge, and small. LOL!

My husband says he loves to see me in deep reds, and also likes red lipsticks on me. Says they are sexy! Ooh, I gotta love that.

P.S. From everything I've seen of you, you've got STYLE, DJ. I could probably learn lots from you. :)

SunbonnetSmart.com 625 pts

HomeRearedChefcurvywriter Barbizon! WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

SunbonnetSmart.com Yes, but that was many, MANY moons ago. LOL!

elaineR.N. 530 pts

EXCUSE ME!!! Have you looked in the mirror lately. What you mom has that you don't is attitude or TUDE, not beauty!! Also, considering that your mom is older than you, there is still time should you want to go sashaying around San Jose. However, bet you choose to spend your time differently. Enjoyed the post but not that you don't think you don't have it because YOU DO for sure. Bet you hubby agrees with me.

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

elaineR.N. Wow! I hear you loud and clear, my friend. Attitude is a big factor, I agree. And I'm guessing I must have had "attitude" when I first met hubby, and that is how I caught his eye. I guess I just didn't know I had it in me.

Love and hugs, Amig! And thank you for the pep talk. :)

souschef 117 pts

HomeRearedChefelaineR.N. Elaine has a point there. Attitude is everything!

HomeRearedChef 1601 pts

souschef In my defense, I am probably just TIRED from all the moving I've had to do the past 13 years. I am full of dust and full of... LOL! Perhaps I can finally find and get my "GROOVE" back after I've had a few months of rest. :) elaineR.N.

You lovely people are most encouraging. Thank you!

Hugs,

~Virginia