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Looking back, there are some things I would NEVER have got through pregnancy without. Here are my recommendations for what were really essential during my pregnancy.
A body pillow. Basically a pillow that was 5′ long. I would never have been able to sleep without it. I would sit my bump on it and cross my leg on top of it to get 'comfy'. We named it Rachel. This seemed to make it easier for hubby to sleep with 'her' every night!
A desk fan. Mine was an oscillating, 3 speed fan. It was a hot summer and I just couldn't cool down. The fan was on 24/7 and followed me around the house.
My mum. She had 'been there, done that' and therefore was a comfort and a mine of information. (Some of which I ignored!)
The TV. Yes I watched so much daytime TV it dulled my brain. But it made kids TV seem so much more interesting!
A plentiful supply of chocolate. It was weird. Chocolate normally went straight to all the wrong places but when I was pregnant I could eat LOADS of it. I think my baby was eating it with me, cos he loves the stuff now!
Online grocery shopping. Supermarkets that delivered all my shopping and put it in the kitchen, were just brilliant. No more lugging potatoes and juice cartons. Just wait for the van to arrive and unpack the chocolate!
Bigger clothes. Having said that by the end I was wearing my pajama bottoms and nightie all the time. Fashion experts were glad I didn't leave the house.
A baby names book. It took 9 months to think of a shortlist of girls and boys names. We even tried randomly opening a page and picking the 1st name. We didn't choose Happy Daffodil though - wonder why?
My midwife. She kept reassuring us that everything was OK. We were over anxious 1st time parents who worried about every hiccup and gurgle emanating from my tummy.
Last but by no means least...
My partner.
Because:
- He emptied the cat litter tray.
- He put the bins out.
- He cooked more meals than I care to remember.
- He put up with my grouchiness.
- He rubbed my back when it ached.
- He put my socks on my feet when I couldn't reach them anymore.
- He got excited at every new stage of pregnancy.
- He got the food cravings and nesting instead of me.
- He read all the pregnancy books with me.
- He stayed with me throughout a very long labor.
- He became the best dad in the world.
Jane Rainford
I'm no expert, I'm a mum - hang on maybe that does make me an expert! And boy do you learn a lot after baby is born! I run http://www.onlinemum.com From bump to toddler, the Joys and Heartaches of a 1st Time Mum.














