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Nearly two years ago, I decided it was time to get a job. It was all very exciting, I assure you. I found myself a fab position after a few months of networking, I bought myself a professional wardrobe and I switched around lots of things in my life. And, when I say “switched around lots of things in my life,” I mean I learned how to commute, I realized why people in offices get so excited about free food, and I started seeing medical professionals close to my office rather than those close to my home. I went to the dentist down the block and the eye doctor around the corner and the dry cleaner across the street.

And then I started to think: what other services might I require in my new, employed life?

On my list were a spot for a good, cheap manicure, a nearby tailor, and someone to cut my hair. I decided to start with the hair stylist.

I had a very short haircut at the time and could not imagine getting off the train at night after a long day at work and going for a trim near my home. The idea of spending a couple of hours on a Saturday getting my hair cut didn't appeal to me much either. I had also been disillusioned with my latest home-town haircuts and so I began my research...

In my city, one can spend $30 on a haircut, or one can spend $300 on a haircut. My goal? Something in the middle. Ideally, something under $100, especially since I had short hair which would need frequent trims.

I asked every person I met who cut their hair. I asked people with terrible haircuts and people with fabulous haircuts. I asked a co-worker with crazy-short purple hair and I asked a co-worker who is older than I am and has completely different hair than mine (long and curly).

I carefully checked into fees and I crossed the $200 stylists off my list along with the $30 stylists and made a list of the cutters I wanted to try in the general vicinity of my office.

Then I set out.

My first haircut was done by a very attractive Frenchman. True, I had asked a French co-worker who did her hair, and she did wax romantic about him -- this may have influenced me. He was $60, and did a lovely job telling me that my hair was very much like Jean Seberg's. Score two for him. But he lost points for being four subway stops away from my office and, actually, for being French. I felt like an outsider; I didn’t speak the language and was usually the only other person in his shop besides his assistant, who was also French.

My next try for a well-priced cut in a reasonable location was across town. The 20 blocks was an issue as it was neither easily walkable nor accessible by public transport. But that wasn’t the biggest problem. My gripe with my second contestant was that she was tentative. I like the person cutting my hair to have a vision, as it were –- a plan for how my hair will flatter me. This second stylist was lost from the moment she started and even handled my hair ever so gingerly. $40 later, I looked exactly the same, had walked too far, and had sat silently whilst she gently lifted miniscule sections of my hair with a look of wonder on her face. Not very inspiring.

Zac Posen - Front Row - Fall 2010 MBFW

Finally, I decided to try the fellow who did the woman with the crazy-short purple hair. She had boasted that he listened to what she wanted, but always had interesting ideas about how she could wear her hair. He was well priced ($50) and only four blocks from where I work. For those reasons, he had already scored points with me before I even walked in the door. And here’s the funny thing: the salon he works for has a chain of shops throughout the city. I’ve never used a stylist in such a commercial setting (and believe me, I’ve had my hair cut everywhere from in people’s apartments to the very chicest places) so this was new to me.

But that’s not all: Everyone at the salon has a stage name.

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stirrednotshaken 5 pts

Thanks for this piece. I have just been whining recently because I feel that I must be the only person in the world who has immense trouble finding a stylist. I just haven't been able to find someone who understands that most cuts make me look like a mushroom cap with psychotic ends.

Two months ago I finally found the perfect stylist. The salon is clean and bustling, he is friendly, and he seems to know what I want before I even say it. I've been thrilled with both cuts he's given me. I'm moving out of state, but I don't care how far away he is... I'll be getting my hair cut here even if it does mean working it into my routine every time we are back visiting family!!! I just don't wait to wait another 25 years to find a good stylist!

SuzannAtTheStardust 5 pts

Your article was great - and I've had the same problems finding someone good. I like your criteria for selecting a stylist. One time I was in a beauty salon, trying it out, and the stylist dropped the comb on the floor, and then she picked it up again and was about to continue using it on me.

Maybe it's just me, but I just got up and said Oh-my-gosh-look-at-the-time, paid her and left.

I still haven't found someone I love yet. So your article is timely and helpful - thanks!

Peace,
Suzann
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bakingbarrister 5 pts

I'm torn.

See, I need two services: I get the Japanese straight perm done every 5-6 months (I have frizzy, crazy curly hair with different sized curls depending where on my head you look). I also need my hair cut.

If you go to a mainstream salon, straightening starts at $500, but is usually more since I have thick hair. If you go to the salon in Koreatown where all they speak is broken English but do a FABULOUS job (and I mean better than fancypants salons in Beverly Hills), it costs $200. So, for 4 hours twice a year I suck it up, bring a book, read gossip magazines, and get my hair done.

As for a regular hairstylist--still haven't found one I really like. Some people don't get the concept of "hip yet professional" and others only want to trim it once they found out I spent $250 (that's with tip!) on my hair. And for heavens sake, no, I don't want to hear about anyone's legal problems.

S.

Sarcasm, law, and a whole lot of food: The Baking Barrister ( http://bakingbarrister.com )

blackbird 5 pts

Sounds like the perfect balance! I can't stand the silence and am not always in the mood to make small talk either - haircuts should take about 20 minutes, I think.

blackbird writes every single day at blackbird17.blogspot.com

e. 5 pts

A successful salon visit includes me being comfortable with my stylist and vice versa. If I have to sit through awkward silence to get great hair, I try someone else. The woman who now cuts my hair loves her job, has a great sense of humor, a terrific sense of style and the right balance of respect for my wishes and suggestions for change. I couldn't ask for anything more and hope she never leaves!

blackbird 5 pts

JennaHatfield,

It's awful when cutters move/switch shops! I had forgotten about the times that has happened to me.
Fingers crossed!

IsleDance,

Most of the hair salons near me are closed on Mondays, but I'm impressed that you walk to yours...what if it is rainy/windy on your way home?!

blackbird writes every single day at blackbird17.blogspot.com

IsleDance 5 pts

Oh, that is cute. What a great find. Monday is fun day in the salon for me, and walking there is half the fun.

One Friday night, I loaded up my life and headed out... ( http://isledance.blogspot.com )

JennaHatfield 9 pts

It took me seven years but I finally found a stylist in Ohio.

I hope she doesn't leave.

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )), from Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ), is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.