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My Son Learns to Drive ...Again!

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My son is taking driver's training lessons right now. This would not be anything exciting for most mother's however, my son is thirty-five, got his driver's license when he was 16, had a car accident in 2005 which resulted in paraplegia and is learning to drive again with hand controls! I am so excited, worried and proud of his desire to get right back into life and have his freedom back and participate in life more fully.
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This no easy feat believe me . I was asked to park a car for a friend who drives with hand controls and got in and much to my chagrin had no idea how to operate a car with hand controls, the joke was really on me that day; car girl cannot drive car due to hand controls installed! LOL

He is also shopping for a new vehicle and is looking over all the manufactures mobilility programs that help hand or other special need control drivers off-set the high costs of driving customized vehicles that enable the freedom of driving. Talk about primp my ride and aftermarket accessories that are expensive , whoa! Check some of them out here.

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My son made a New Year's Resolution is to do the "3 S's" this year: Surf, Scuba and Ski in 2008. He went skiing last week and had a blast, although I was nervous at the prospect, he had help from a program designed for this type of ski experience and as a former avid snowboarder he took to it in no time! Woo Hoo! This photo really made me smile!

The work I do with UnitedSpinal.org and Motorability Island in Second Life is all about providing a better quality of life and life enriching experiences for persons with spinal cord injuries or diseases. My reward is watching my own son begin to enjoy a more fun, interesting and exciting life. Maybe too exciting for mom here but he was always an A-Type into bungee jumping ( yikees) , white water boating and all those edgy sports and activities and that will never change.

Check out our place in Second Life on Motorability Island and experience a virtual test drives of car culture and other fun activities you or a loved one may want to try in real life, come on it will be fun!
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Motorability Island in SecondLife is a vast, 7 sim complex designed specifically to promote United Spinal Association in SL, via the Education Center and other builds dotted around the Island. We, along with the United Spinal Motorsports Program are complete petrolheads, so you'll also find loads of really cool stuff to do with a car around here too. We've got 2 full oval circuits, a full inter-sim road system, car themed nightclub with live DJs, go-kart racing, car dealerships, scooter shack and the rather cool AskPatty.com center too, which offers automotive advice for women, from some of the top women in the US automotive industry. There are also several other exciting builds planned, such as an education center for wannabe SecondLife vehicle designers, a drag strip and a drift track.

Visit us in Second Life here SLURL to location.
http://slurl.com/secondlife/UnitedSpinal/110/182/28/?title=United%20Spin...

http://www.unitedspinal.org/motorability/about-us/

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Jody DeVere
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www.carblabber.com

Related links:
http://ourbodiesourblog.org/blog/2007/12/empowered_fefes.php
http://beth.typepad.com/beths_blog/blogher/index.html
http://laurayoung.typepad.com/dragonslaying/disability_awareness/index.html

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Jody DeVere -- Ask Patty 5 pts

All families face challenges and none are more difficult than if one of your own children is disabled like mine, however in my family it is my son.who is the inspiration not me. His courage, faith and strength humble me.

Jody DeVere
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Mom101 5 pts

I had absolutely no idea about any of this. It's so great that his mom has the inside track (pun intended) on all this stuff so he can make sure he gets the best possible tools to work with.

Congrats on all his exciting new opportunities.

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Liz Thompson 5 pts

Wow, I admire the both of you - your courage is very inspirational and I'm going to try to remember that, when my baby goes for driver's license in...GULP...3 years - good luck!

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Lia Hadley 5 pts

Reading your post made me realise that a synonym for parenthood is worrywart. A friend of mine wrote recently how he was overwhelmed with relief when his son casually mentioned over the phone that he had an invite to a college Super Bowl party. He son is new to college and has, in the past, suffered severe psychological problem. Something like a normal social invite was, for the father, a reason for (quiet) celebration.

The challenges your son, your family, and you face are truly many faceted. It makes for very interesting reading. Wish your son all the best on the surf and scuba.

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Jody DeVere -- Ask Patty 5 pts

Mir,

Thanks yes my excitement and nervousness over him spreading his wings is wonderful news for our family!

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Mir Kamin 6 pts

Your excitement for your son really comes through in this post, Jody. Thanks so much for sharing. :)

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