What to Expect When You Are *Not* Expecting

Expect that people will say and do insensitive things.  Expect that they won't know what to say to you. Or they will try to give you unwarranted advice.  The worst is "If you just stop trying, it will happen."  Or, "Oh, it only takes one time."  Or, "Maybe it's just not meant to be right now."F*** that. The first time you hear, "Are you pregnant yet?" you will want to burn a house down.  That was the closest I've ever come to punching someone in the face....more

Sometimes You Have One of Those Days

The Act of Being Grateful