The Vanilla Sex Columnist

I've been a single and I've been a mistress and I've been a cheater. And I'll tell you something: It's really nice to have something to call, with certainty, mine. But in order to get here, I had to cut through the fear and the pressure. It wasn't easy. The pressure wouldn't have affected me if I hadn't believed that settling down would kill my career. I didn't write for months, and when I did, it was the same garbled explosion of fear. ...more

Nothing is more challenging and more satisfying that trying to seduce one woman night after ... more