A Beginners Guide to Awesome Anal Sex

Anal sex can be incredibly hot but it is often misunderstood (no, enjoying anal sex doesn’t make someone gay, it merely means they like anal sex… and with all the nerve endings located in the anus, that’s not such a surprise!) and can be intimidating. But it’s not for everyone. If you have no desire to try anal sex, then don’t. Just like with any other sexual activity, you should never be pressured into doing something that you aren’t comfortable with....more
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A Beginners Guide to Awesome Anal Sex

Anal sex can be incredibly hot but it is often misunderstood (no, enjoying anal sex doesn’t make someone gay, it merely means they like anal sex… and with all the nerve endings located in the anus, that’s not such a surprise!) and can be intimidating. But it’s not for everyone. If you have no desire to try anal sex, then don’t. Just like with any other sexual activity, you should never be pressured into doing something that you aren’t comfortable with....more
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5 Plus-Size Clothing Tips for Job Interviews on a Dime

Hello... ladies. I dare say this will be a lady-centric entry. If you are like me, your wanderlust has summoned you to websites likes Careerbuilder, Indeed and Google searches for jobs. And, once you've set your target, you're out into the world on the job interview trail. ...more
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The Truth About Waxing!

So you've decided to brave the waxing experience. For whatever the reason, be it a hot date or a tropical vacation, you've made the decision to endure the pain of having your hair ripped from the follicles of your skin. Sounds horrible does it? Well, it's not so bad. I've been waxing ladies and gents for the last 6 years and found that it is easy to make the experience less terrifying and more satisfying! Don't think it's possible? Well here are some tips and advice for making your visit somewhat enjoyable. ...more
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Dear Men: Stop Skipping the Foreplay!

Dear Man With Whom I Have A Sexual Relationship, We need to talk. I know, I know, those are the four most disturbing words a woman can utter to a man and why didn't I warn you before I said that?! I can see that glazed, unfocused look starting to shadow your eyes and am well aware that you've already begun blocking the sounds coming from my mouth and are searching desperately for your happy place (Baseball, beer, Halle Berry. Baseball, beer, Halle Berry) but snap out of it! This is important. ...more
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If It Hurts Too Much to Stay... Leave

If you find yourself lying to everyone that everything is fine, and having to put on a smile, you need to leave.If you find yourself trying to breathe so quietly that the covers don’t move because it will enrage him, you need to leave.If you find yourself nodding in agreement when he says that the hole in the wall is where he slipped, knowing full well that he hit it during a rage, you need to leave.If you find yourself cut off from everyone who really knows you because you cannot look them  in the eye anymore, you need to leave....more
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Still Single? Don't Give Up On Love Just Yet!

There's something so amazing about having someone in your life who truly understands you, loves you just as you are, and is not trying to change you into the version of what he/she wants you to be. Oh, and how awesome is it to have a date for Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner? Or someone special to make fun of all of the other couples that are "way into Valentine's Day"?...more
Good one, J! I agree with you, but with a small caveat: You can be bitter and angry, but there's ... more

10 Things You're Supposed to Know About Your Vagina

As the mother of a tween, I've been spending some time lately with all manner of puberty books. Books that explain the seventeen stages your boobs will go through as they morph from bee stings to Those Things American Marketers Worship. Books that explain Shark Week your period and all the glorious cramps, bloating and hate-watching reality television that accompanies it....more
This is great :). You wrote this with a fun (and informative) tone... but #2 really bugs me. I ... more

Bashing Sex Doesn't Make You A Better Woman!

I recently subscribed to a well respected women's literary magazine and, because they were out of the current issue or between issues or something, they decided to send me a complimentary back issue. I thought it was nice of them, and I left it in the car to peruse while waiting for the kids to get out of school. A nice magazine can make the hell that is the car line a lot less painful. ...more
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Making The Case Against Marriage

Editor's Note: This post is being featured along with a post that makes the case for marriage. We wanted to present two different opinions about whether or not marriage is still relevant, important, and valuable today. We hope it sparks engaging conversation. -Feminista Jones Marriage is one of the dumbest social institutions out there, and I can think of at least 11 good reasons why:1. I don't need a piece of paper to tell me I'm in love and/or committed....more
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