Coretta and Martin: A Love Story

I have read articles and book chapters about the marriage between Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and Coretta Scott King, two of the most prominent figures of the American Civil Rights movement of the 1950s and 1960s. I have learned interesting facts about how they met and their courtship, and I have been made privy to various allegations of extramarital affairs (on both sides). A 2006 New York Times article gives the following background on the beginning of their story:...more
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What's Your Most Embarrassing Sexual Experience?

My former roommate once shared a story with me about a man who came over to her home after a date and, in his sleep, peed in her bed. He also managed to pee on the carpet in her bedroom. He later blamed it on the alcohol, of course, but she was so repulsed and put off by his blunder, that she didn’t want to speak to him ever again. How could such a thing actually happen?...more
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Does Your Sex Life Need a Boost? Take the Sexual Pledge!

On of the most popular saying this time of year is “New Year, New Me”. A lot of people are making commitments to change certain bad habits and adopt new healthier habits. It’s a great time to reflect on what went well (and not-so-well) in the previous year and make plans to improve in areas in which we’ve identified struggles.I have a unique idea that you might find helpful in keeping any resolutions related to improving your sex life—a sexual pledge!...more
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12 Things We Learned About Love & Sex

One would hope that the older we get, the more mature we grow in ourselves and in our understanding of "Love." ...more
I learned several: 1) Love people for who they are. 2) Sometimes people who love you, will not ...more

2014: The Year of 'Black Girls Are Magic'

"Black girls are magic!" When blogger Cashawn Thompson coined the phrase earlier this year, I don't think she imagined that Black girls (and women) would collectively embody the very essence of magic and spend 2014 breaking down barriers, setting records, and shattering pervasive negative stereotypes. ...more
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Finding Love "Beyond The Lights": A Conversation with Writer-Director Gina Prince-Bythewood

Love is a comfort. Knowing someone loves you gives you courage and confidence in yourself. I want to share what I have with others so they know that it is possible. – Gina Prince-Bythewood...more

3 Wedding Traditions Single People Absolutely Hate

Weddings get on my nerves!Don’t disregard my opinion because I’m divorced, currently unwed, and over 35. To be clear, none of these things have anything to do with how I feel about weddings and hey, I actually planned one before.I’ve attended a LOT of weddings and, for the most part, they are all the same. Sure, some couples add culturally diverse touches, try a few of the new, trendy ideas, or buck one or two of the “traditions”, but most weddings follow the same rules and procession.That. Is. Borrrrring....more
We didn't assign seating and it all worked out super well. I've never understood the need for ...more

What's Your Favorite Type of Porn?

It was late at night and I'd had one hell of a day. I took my son to school, went to work for 10 hours, then headed to record my weekly radio show. By the time I got home, I'd been out of my house for 16 hours and I just wanted to curl up and go to sleep. I was also horny, my boyfriend was in another city, and I realized I had just enough energy lef to rub one off....more
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8 Things Women Wish They'd Known Before Getting Married

 I wish I had known.......more
LOL. Sad to say, I think there are some things we know but don't want to believe. And they are ...more

Intimate Partner Abuse vs. BDSM: Kink Only Hurts When You Want It To

October is Domestic/Intimate Partner Awareness Month...more
Safe, sane, and consensual. Without ALL THREE of these aspects, an individual /couple is not ...more