Three Big Myths About Dating Plus-Sized Women

Editor's Note: I've been plus-size my entire adult life. I've been as large as 406lbs and as "small" as my current 220. I have experienced the gamut of plus-size dating trials and successes. The assumptions about larger women are moslty made because society has yet to embrace the beauty of ALL women. Guess what? There's more to us than the myths.-- Feminista Jones ...more
@melissaweir2161 Hey Melissa! Thanks for reading! Yes, let's definitely keep in touch. :) more

I'm Full-Figured, Not Invisible!

I’m not stupid. I didn't exactly commandeer mathematics, but I know that if the four guys that approached us, at the club, are only speaking to three out of four of us, something isn't right. I’d brush down my dress, re-position the hair that brushed my shoulders, and suck in my stomach, praying my Spanx wouldn't roll down. Once I’d look up, and stare over at the hourglass bodies that accompanied me, I would confront the notion. They weren't speaking to me because of my size. Plain and simple.  ...more
This was so dope. I definitely know the feeling of being asked to be the buffer/fluffer/blocker. ... more

Three Big Myths About Dating Plus-Sized Women

Editor's Note: I've been plus-size my entire adult life. I've been as large as 406lbs and as "small" as my current 220. I have experienced the gamut of plus-size dating trials and successes. The assumptions about larger women are moslty made because society has yet to embrace the beauty of ALL women. Guess what? There's more to us than the myths.-- Feminista Jones ...more
@PoetInThePantry Aww, thanks darling. :) You're absolutely right. Size can change, what's inside ... more

Three Big Myths About Dating Plus-Sized Women

Editor's Note: I've been plus-size my entire adult life. I've been as large as 406lbs and as "small" as my current 220. I have experienced the gamut of plus-size dating trials and successes. The assumptions about larger women are moslty made because society has yet to embrace the beauty of ALL women. Guess what? There's more to us than the myths.-- Feminista Jones ...more
@sweetestmemoirs Wow! Now that's a coincidence. I'm 5'8" and I wear a 10.5/11. So we're pretty ... more

Three Big Myths About Dating Plus-Sized Women

Editor's Note: I've been plus-size my entire adult life. I've been as large as 406lbs and as "small" as my current 220. I have experienced the gamut of plus-size dating trials and successes. The assumptions about larger women are moslty made because society has yet to embrace the beauty of ALL women. Guess what? There's more to us than the myths.-- Feminista Jones ...more
@EatWell.PartyHard. Thanks! :) more

Three Big Myths About Dating Plus-Sized Women

Editor's Note: I've been plus-size my entire adult life. I've been as large as 406lbs and as "small" as my current 220. I have experienced the gamut of plus-size dating trials and successes. The assumptions about larger women are moslty made because society has yet to embrace the beauty of ALL women. Guess what? There's more to us than the myths.-- Feminista Jones ...more
@cwblackbelt Loving yourself is one of the biggest parts of the battle and it's a continuous ... more

Three Big Myths About Dating Plus-Sized Women

Editor's Note: I've been plus-size my entire adult life. I've been as large as 406lbs and as "small" as my current 220. I have experienced the gamut of plus-size dating trials and successes. The assumptions about larger women are moslty made because society has yet to embrace the beauty of ALL women. Guess what? There's more to us than the myths.-- Feminista Jones ...more
@starryjlc Yes you are worth the wait! I'm almost 3 years into my singleness. I think I'm ... more

Three Big Myths About Dating Plus-Sized Women

Editor's Note: I've been plus-size my entire adult life. I've been as large as 406lbs and as "small" as my current 220. I have experienced the gamut of plus-size dating trials and successes. The assumptions about larger women are moslty made because society has yet to embrace the beauty of ALL women. Guess what? There's more to us than the myths.-- Feminista Jones ...more
@LifeOptimist Oh, no. I'm not opposed to slender ladies at all. You all have your own struggles ... more

Three Big Myths About Dating Plus-Sized Women

Editor's Note: I've been plus-size my entire adult life. I've been as large as 406lbs and as "small" as my current 220. I have experienced the gamut of plus-size dating trials and successes. The assumptions about larger women are moslty made because society has yet to embrace the beauty of ALL women. Guess what? There's more to us than the myths.-- Feminista Jones ...more
@DanielleBarnsley Amen! Thanks for reading. :) more

Three Big Myths About Dating Plus-Sized Women

Editor's Note: I've been plus-size my entire adult life. I've been as large as 406lbs and as "small" as my current 220. I have experienced the gamut of plus-size dating trials and successes. The assumptions about larger women are moslty made because society has yet to embrace the beauty of ALL women. Guess what? There's more to us than the myths.-- Feminista Jones ...more
@Ladyjwanderlust Hey fellow Chicagoan! You're absolutely right. Style is style, no matter what ... more
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