7 Habits of People Who Will Never Be Married

These are just some general themes and habits I've observed through the years that are common to people who never seem to find their forever love. None of these habits make them bad people; in fact, many are great people, but perhaps they just don't realize how they are getting in their own way.If you want to find a soulmate, you've got to get out of your own way! So, if you find that you exhibit any of the habits below, think about whether or not those habits are the roadblock to finding The One....more
annicia p    Let's add a habit    ...       8.  Is happily unmarried and planning to stay that way more

I'm Coming Out, Again, After Getting a Divorce

My first 'coming out' was around 1992.It happened in an era when spotting a friend at a gay club meant stammered excuses and letting an HIV-positive friend sip from your drink meant hearing loud gasps.So why, in 2015, am I coming out again? The landscape has changed since 1992. We now have marriage equality in the majority of states and we have had a transgender woman, Laverne Cox, on the cover of TIME magazine....more
There are a boatload of terms now and quite a few have arisen in the asexual community.   And ... more

Hello everyone. Happy Thursday. Tomorrow is my alternate Friday off so its TGIT for me this week!

Hello everyone. Happy Thursday. Tomorrow is my alternate Friday off so its TGIT for me this week! ...more
Yes I am! more

I'm an Asexual Lesbian

I identify as an asexual lesbian. It took me around 47 years to figure that out. ...more
CJChapman Glad it helped you feel less alone!!  I wish you well in your journey to accept ... more

How to Fight Your Running Jealousy

Last weekend, I ran my first 10k since I was in my mid-twenties. It was so long ago, I can't even remember what age I was the last time I ran a 10k, let alone what my time was. ...more
Rita Arens For me fast hiking is 3 to 4 MPH.  I tend to hike 2 to 3 MPH on flat terrain and can ... more

How to Fight Your Running Jealousy

Last weekend, I ran my first 10k since I was in my mid-twenties. It was so long ago, I can't even remember what age I was the last time I ran a 10k, let alone what my time was. ...more
Not a runner but when I hike with a faster hiker, I tend to speed up beyond my comfortable slow ... more

I'm an Asexual Lesbian

I identify as an asexual lesbian. It took me around 47 years to figure that out. ...more
Taylor7668 You're welcome Taylor7668.   I envy you knowing about asexuality at 20!    I should ... more

I'm an Asexual Lesbian

I identify as an asexual lesbian. It took me around 47 years to figure that out. ...more
ybl_8257 Cool.  Glad you enjoyed it.  Good to know there are a few of us 50+ asexual lesbians ... more

10 Things I Would Tell My Younger Self

Today I am 43 years young and all week I’ve been feeling so grateful…Grateful for all the wonderful things in my life.  Grateful for my health.  Grateful for my husband.  Grateful for my stepsons.  Grateful that I am happy.  This week I’ve been thinking about 10 Things I Would Tell My Younger Self, if I had the chance....more
I think I have played this game before ... let's see ... younger self ... (1) Don't listen to ... more

Monday ... Still have another hour to go at work before I can head home. I miss the weekend fun already!

Monday ... Still have another hour to go at work before I can head home. I miss the weekend fun already! ...more
Wednesday, I still miss the weekend fun.  But more fun is coming up in 2.5 days!  Hopefully ... more