The Cure= Dates, Drinks, and Dancing

When  a break up happens it is hard to get over it. Trust me, it is hard.  I love how people try to act like it isn't that bad... It is. Well, I have the cure. Sit back, take notes, and never feel heartbreak again....more

An Anniversary...

I'd hate to look back on my life at age 40... Or even 30 and be told"You never really gave love a fair shot again."This site wasn't created for me to complain about my Ex boyfriend. But it was just as much about becoming more optimistic as it was about becoming optimistic in love again.  I'm watching the Coldplay concert right now so I'm sorry if I sound a bit melancholy."I was scared, I was scaredTired and underprepared...Singing please, pleaseCome back and sing to me,to me..." -Coldplay, "In My Place"...more

Adventures in Online Dating Pt. 2

So my FRIEND is online dating and she is giving me the inside scoop to the ups and downs. So here is the continuation of her journey...more

Adventures in Online Dating Pt. 2

So my FRIEND is online dating and she is giving me the inside scoop to the ups and downs. So here is the continuation of her journey...more

Adventures in Online Dating Pt. 1

I'm not saying that I'm online dating, but I have this friend......more

Allow Me to Reintroduce Myself… (I <3 Men in D.C.)

I have been gone too long, for that I will apologize. But, a lot has happened. So, allow me to reintroduced my self I am BOY CRAZY!!  I don’t know what is going on with me. I find myself drifting off during the day.  The only thing on my mind… BOYS!...more

Now You’re Speaking my Language

Communication, is an essential part of any relationship....more

The Art of the Dinner Date

In an effort to seem adventurous and not boring, men are turning away from the dinner date.  I am a young lady who likes to eat, so this evolution away from the traditional dinner date isn't exactly exciting.  I like to eat.  I get hungry.  I want 4 meals a day......more

An Older Man

Have you seen the film ...more

Jumping the Broom is All Over the Place

This past Mother's Day weekend I went to see Jumping the Broom.  I was pleased to see a Black film in theaters and, of course I decided to support.  My grandmother summed up the film in one word, "trite."  But, let me examine the film closer, because there were pros and cons....more

First, I'm assuming that you are joking. If you aren't then, "No" you wouldn't be racist you ...more