Marriage - No Qualifiers, Just Marriage

This subject is one that has tickled the back of my mind for a while now. It's a hot topic, and thus has had hundreds if not thousands of blog posts and articles written about it. So, why another one? Because it's bugging me!Today is a big day in a few states, with voting on amendments that make gay marriage unconstitutional (NC, for example).So, what's frustrating (to me) about this topic?...more

It's Not About You

It’s not about youThis has been one of the harder lessons for me to learn – and it is one that I still struggle with.When I fail in a relationship, when someone chooses to walk away, when someone is cold, cruel, distant – when things just don’t work out the way I had hoped for, I have to remind myself that it’s not about me.  There are plenty of times where I say it, but don’t truly absorb it....more