Help! My best friend is engaged to a jerk. What should I do?

We have received several emails in the last few weeks from women who have terrible concerns about their friends' boyfriends and fiances. They ask questions like, "How can I talk to my best friend about this guy who I feel is completely wrong for her?" We agree that this one is a slippery slope. Most of the advice you will find online suggests that people "mind their own business!" We, however, disagree. Here are some suggestions if you have a friend who might be headed down the aisle with the wrong guy: ...more