What is your best discipline advice for a 2 year old whom refuses to obey?

How do you discipline a 2 year old who doesn't respond well to "typical" discipline i.e. time outs, spanking, loss of toys, etc. My son doesn't mind, he will refuse to do as asked and doesn't care if he is spanked, placed in time out, or loses his toys and playtime. What do you do when your child does this, no matter the age?...more

...take a look at your expectations. Two year olds are notoriously difficult and defiant ...more