The Heart & Soul of Dominance and Submission: An Insider's Perspective

I accidentally crossed paths with my first Dominant online when I was going through a divorce seven years ago. My first thought was to run away fast: He must be some whip-toting freak with a dungeon in his basement. Fast-forward to today and I have three Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationships behind me (though I've had vanilla relationships, too), and I can honestly say that each relationship built on the former and has taught me profound things about my body, myself, and even life....more
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My Thoughts On What Lifetime TV Did To My Memoir

Ever since the premiere date of The Secret Sex Life of a Single Mom was announced (May 31st on Lifetime) , I’ve been inundated with the same questions by people:  Have you seen the movie and what was it like to watch it?  What do I, as the author of the book, think of the movie?...more

My Book Comes Alive: Movie Preview Released Today

I found myself today at yet another surreal moment in my book/movie journey:  Lifetime released the preview for my movie.  The actual movie premiere is taking place this coming Saturday, May 31st. Some friends who have already seen this preview have asked me, "What do you think?  How do you feel?  What's this like for you?"I really can't answer right now.  I'm still digesting... I invite you to imagine the many emotions I had as I watched this.     ...more
Delaine Moore That is interesting and I agree with you that it doesn't make sense to show all of ...more

6 Tricks to Get Bloggers TV-Ready

I've no doubt that many of you reading this get nervous, as do I, before going on TV or radio.  So I want to share a few things I learned to help me get a grip on my nerves before I went on this show. I really do think they helped. ...more

Secret Sex Life of a Single Mom: My Book Is Being Filmed By Lifetime

I just flew back from Ottawa where I was on the set of a movie being made about my life.    That's right - a movie.   And it's about me, little ol' me -- a former stay-at-home mom, whose entire world was so pulverized by divorce and infidelity six years ago she could barely even drag herself out of bed. ...more
RebeccaRaige Thanks Rebecca...feeling like a libertine for the first time ever: )more

What's It REALLY Like to Have An Affair?

It was my deepest, darkest secret – something that nourished me, tortured me, yet ultimately tore my family apart:  After seven years of marriage, the birth of three kids, and weathering the emotional storm of my husband’s infidelity, I made the choice to have an affair....more

How and Why You Should Hold A Book Signing (even if it's your first book!)

I wasn't going to hold a book signing.  Almost everything I read by other authors about book signings was discouraging, especially for first-time authors such as myself.  Even one of my closest friends, who is a bestselling Canadian author, said, "I didn't have the guts to hold one -- I was too worried no one would show up and I'd look like a loser." ...more

Too "Uncomfortable" For Married Women?

A month ago, a local book club contacted me to say that they'd chosen my just-released memoir, The Secret Sex Life of a Single Mom, as their April pick.  So great was their enthusiasm that they also asked if I might attend their meeting in person.  I agreed wholeheartedly -- discussing my book's core messages around sexual and personal awakenings would be a huge honor for ME.But out of the blue came yesterday's phone call:...more
Delaine Moore   I have just come across you and your stories and am delighted. Delighted by your ...more

The Lure of BDSM & D/s: Women's "Shades of Grey"

Today, as women everywhere breathe heavy over "50 Shades of Grey", an erotic novel complete with role-playing and BDSM, I actually find myself breathing a little easier.  Beause it's something I experienced in real life after I got divorced.  I also chose to tell the world about it in my memoir (gulp).  And at the back of my mind I've always worried, "Is everyone going to think I'm a freak for this?"(Smile) Maybe not....more

VIDEO: My Book Publishing Journey With Seal Press

Back when I was looking for a traditional publisher for my memoir, I spent hours surfing the net, trying to find articles/videos by authors who were sharing their journeys through the  publishing process. I wanted to understand what was involved in the process (if/when I ever got a book deal) and I was hanging on tight to my hope. Surprisingly, my search results came up very short.  Most articles were focused on the traditional verses self-publishing debate, or how to get an agent.  I also discovered that ...more