It’s Hard to Say Good Bye To Femamom

Hi, We wrote some beautiful things here on Femamom. We wrote about parents and ex-husbands. Dinner and kids ....more

The Worst: Mammograms

1. Your breast is shoved on top of a cold plastic plate. 2....more

What We Say Now When We’re Talking About Johnny Depp

I hate myself for even using this photo. But I want to come to terms with who Johnny Depp is. And the fantasy world of the men I’d like to sleep with– the men I admire–no longer includes Johnny Depp ....more

Valerie Cherish and Lisa Rinna

Lisa Rinna said on air that a 2012 commercial she appeared in for Depends–yes, the adult diaper–was the highest paid gig she ever had. “I got paid more money to do that than I got paid to do anything in my whole life. I was just winking to the bank ....more

when i wrote

my writing chair Pick a lane already. Stop putting your blinker on and not making a move. I have good intentions ....more

Writing Insecurities: Pick A Lane

When people hear that I’m a writer, they ask me, “Oh, what do you write about?” And I really want to have a clear answer. But sometimes I feel like my writing is all over the place. I write about feminism ....more

True Tori: We’re All Enablers

The Happy Family When people are in a...more

More Thoughts On The Rolling Stone UVA Article: There’s Still A Victim

A few weeks ago when I was listening to Sabrina Erdely’s interview with Brian Lehrer on the Rolling Stone article which, fast forward because we all know what happens, there was one caller who was outraged about the possibility of false accusations and was adamant about discussing this element. That the menz have a voice ya’ll. The Menz need to be heard ....more

Million Little Gang Rapes

Remember when James Frey, who wrote...more

What I Learned About Marriage From Tori And Dean

1. “Right now Dean is a priority, it’s what Dean needs. I’m not taking care of myself.” This is a constant in Tori’s life ....more