I can't stop spoiling my man

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. I have a major problem of not saying "no" to his every need/want. But worst of all, I spoil him to the point that he won't need to get out of bed to do anything (including getting delivered foods/medication). This spoiling him causes fights when he gets off his ass only because his mum wants something done. I firmly believe in equality, yet fail in practising this when I am around him... I need help...more