Affairs as A Path To Marital Growth

I’ve coached many people who’ve had an affair, not because I’ve coached thousands of people, but because so many people are struggling with the issue of infidelity. Pick up any magazine, read any bestseller, see any movie, attend any opera, and you will usually find a story about a cheating husband or a cheating wife. If you are feeling deeply shamed, as my unfaithful clients have, remember that you are not alone.  Helen Fisher, the popular anthropologist and author of The Anatomy of Love, among other books, says that cheating is what humans do most of the time.  ...more

This is a very fresh perspective. I appreciate your thoughts. Working with my clients I talk ...more