can being 'Too good' be a bad thing?

Even though Gideon was stealing my attention from Billy, Woo was still ever present in my life. However this time, I would lose Gideon if I didn't cut ties completely with Woo. Woo was my first love. It felt like he was a part of me and he was and not in the sense you think. I had to remove that part or else I wouldn't really be able to move on, to give my heart to someone who actually wanted it. Woo had taken my heart and left me empty, just barely existing. To be with Woo I had to shut off part of me, the part that wanted to be loved, deeply and honestly....more

the Perfect Man

I was an addict. I was addicted to the way Woo made me feel. There was no room in my heart for another man and it was my own fault. I needed to really give the next guy I date a chance. I needed to cut back how much I talked to Woo; a few times a week, how often we texted; almost daily....more

breaking up is hard to do.... via instant message

In moving forward in finding love I needed to look back at the relationship with the only person I loved, my first love, Woo.  In the years that Woo and i dated on and off and I like to think that's when I learned to protect my heart, but not guard it.  I mean things didn't always go smoothly. In those years, Woo had done everything from have sex with an ex girlfriend i specifically asked him not to, to showing up at my house in a different city as a surprise.  ...more

Did you just say Herpes?!

My friends and I went out together all the time. Friends would be more friends, who we'd also go out with. There was an excellent mix to pick from. One in particular, Steve was gorgeous, toned, tattoed, and could make a crack in a wall smile.  ...more

who cares

Back in college, keegan and i hung out alot until she left. I had decided to forgive her for her friend violation. We had talked it out and at the end of it all we both were manless. We adopted the same mind set. We thought, why is ok for me to have casual sex, why does society care who I share myself with. I mean, really, who cares what I do with my vagina, when it gets pounded it's not hurting you lol  ...more

Being single sucks

I called the only person I could think of, Woo. He didn't answer, which was understandable, it was about 4 in the morning. I later saw my roommates and told them what happened, that was the last time we talked about it. As the day went on I could feel the aches, there were bruises on my neck and arms. I had to work that night, I got lucky in a sense, there was banquet that I had to work. Which means instead of a short sleeved low collared pollo I got to wear a long sleeved button up shirt....and a bow tie lol But at least you couldn't see anything....more

"that night"

I go over the details of that night all the time. Did I bring it on myself? Who really is to blame when an assault occurs in situations like mine? Both of us had been drinking......more

Whose got spirit!

I was a cheerleader in college and for the first couple of years of school I didn't really interact with basketball players outside of games. I dabbled my junior and senior year.  ...more

the Hairy Situation

I wanted Guy A and I thought he wanted me.  At work we flirted all the time and it was the touchy feely kind of flirting.  And finally another opportunity arose. My friends and I were going out, his friends weren't old enough so I offered for him to join. He accepted and we planned on him staying the night at my house. I planned on the perfect outfit for that evening. A black one shoulder dress and heels. There was no way Guy A was going to be able to resist me....more

I should've known

Thinking back to the ride home after he cheated on his girlfriend with me,  I don't know how I didn't realize it. What man cheats on a woman he loves, with an ex, who he can't let go of?  My mother and sister were astounded how I waved off all the red flags. After two years we finally had sex. I slept with other people as well. I lied about how many to, let's name him 'Woo'.  I was the second person he slept with, ever. I shared my body. No man wanted my heart. ...more