From a Young Woman Turning 40

Tomorrow I am turning 40. It’s not the big deal that it’s made out to be. At least not for me. It’s not even the big deal I thought it would be when I turned 39. I just can’t buy into the age thing. I am so tired of hearing about how everything is just part of “getting old” when 90% (or more) of the things that I have problems with now (joint pain, insomnia, fatigue) are the same things I started having problems with as a teenager or younger!...more

First Amendment Victory - FCC Indecency Rule Rejected If it is the dirty element that gives pleasure to the act of lust, then the dirtier it is, the more pleasurable it i...more

Review: Ring Collar

This collar has its pros and cons. It looks great and the leather it is made from is comfortable and sturdy. All of the materials are good quality. In that respect it is not just a novelty item. The only problem I have with it is the latching mechanism. It has snaps for a closure rather than a buckle. There are two sets of snaps, so it is slightly adjustable, but I am accustomed to collars that buckle and are far more adjustable. ...more

Review: Kick Ass Boots

 hate wearing women’s shoes and avoid them like the plague, but the problem there is that I love wearing sexy shoes. Boots are what really do it for me. I still have and wear a pair of very sexy thigh high boots I got my hands on over 20 years ago. Last year when my Carolina steel toes (that I bought in 1998) finally bit it I went on a search for replacements. God those boots were comfortable and practical. They were my second pair and they lasted forever through all kinds of abuse. Carolina no longer carries my size, the bastards. So, I ordered... ...more

End Abstinence Only Education

Ever have someone who regularly engages in casual sex tell you that they don’t use condoms because condoms are useless and don’t provide any protection? They know this because that is what they were “taught in school.” Condoms are just a scam. Welcome to the glorious reality of abstinence only education! The more I think about it the more pissed off I get. These people who are teaching kids that condoms are useless should be held criminally responsible. ...more

Web Exploring

I spend what some might call more than a significant amount of time online. Still, I can be a bit behind. Recently I have discovered the joys of Twitter and Second Life. TwitterI joined Twitter a while back, but didn’t really get into it until the last week or so. It’s really a lot of fun and you can waste a huge amount of time there, or not. That’s kind of the beauty of it... Read the full entry here. ...more

Converting Power Tools to Sex Toys – Not a DYI Project?

I am all for DYI sex toys. In fact, as I’ve mentioned before, there was a time in my life when all of my sex toys were homemade. It’s fun, it’s a great creative outlet, and when it works well, a great source of pride in a job well done. It’s even a great way to impress your lover. I’ll be the first to admit that some of my projects didn’t work as planned. It was trial and error, but I knew that some testing would be required and no one ever got hurt. ...more


Get This Story Out of My Head (and onto the page)!

I’m working on a story that’s got a long history. The original idea came about years ago in a different story. That story was written to specific guidelines for a contest. I let it rest for a few years, but realized that there were elements in the story that I wanted to explore further, without the constraints that I was originally conforming to. In fact, I wanted to take those ideas in a completely different direction. First I tried it in flasher form... ...more

Where Are The Tattooed Men?

Men with tattoos are hot! It’s not a requirement for me in someone I’m actually with I real life. There as so many things that are more important than looks in a relationship. Then again, if you’re looking for a one-night-stand, looks can be pretty high on the list. When I’m looking for sexy pictures to gaze at, looks are pretty much everything. That IS the point. I find it very important when watching porn, too. So, I can get pretty damn picky about it... ...more