Random Musings on Sex Positivity

In addition to dating and relationship things, I have also had Sex Positivity on the brain for the last few weeks.  I have been thinking about how I formed my opinions about sex, about how I have thought and talked about sex during different times of my life, who the influences were on those opinions. It’s pretty interesting stuff for a navel-gazer like me. Read the rest here! ...more

Wordsmith Wednesdays: Linda Mercury

My grandmother had some great advice in her lifetime, the most golden nugget of which is (to me) “You want to be with someone to raise you up, not keep you down.”     I list this among my top three bits of advice from my family.  (The other two being  “Don’t get any work done til you’re 65 because when it falls in 10 years you’ll be 75 and won’t give a shit anymore”  and  “Don’t ever wear elastic waist pants – it’s just giving up.”)...more

Just call me Sally...

I am a complicated woman.  (Those of you who know me can stop laughing now, tyvm.)  Post-divorce I seem to want things a bit more “just so” than I have in the past.  I used to think that it was only in restaurants that I was ultra picky what with making substitutions from one menu item to another or just making my own creations because I know what the hell they have back there and I know they can do it.  To quote a famous movie:  I just want it the way I want it....more

Wordsmith Wednesdays

Hello Blogher world!!Every wednesday on my blog I feature some poetry - either my own or someone else's.   I am a lover of words and have always enjoyed reading and writing poetry.  Today I thought I would share something from the current Poet Laurate of the U.S.A.    Her name is Kay Ryan and she is the Poet Laurate through the month of May 2010 – so it seems we are going to have a new person next month to enjoy!...more


It’s official – no matter how much I love to have a clean and organized house, I really REALLY don’t like housework.Read more here!...more

Tilt-a-Whirl Blues

Tilt-a-Whirl Blues It’s always the small things that remind me how much I miss having more of a full time relationship.  Today, it was the sight of the carnival rides set up in the mall parking lot....more

Blind to the Solution

http://findingmissb.com/2010/05/10/blind-to-the-solution/   ...more