Music is My Life

Music clears my mind after a long day of work or school. The internet gives me the resources to look for new music in the genre of my choice. I am in love with soul music, the melodies and lyrics speak to me. My favorites Jill Scott, John Legend, Erykah Badu, Trey Songz, Usher, R. Kelly and Anthony Hamilton.  Then there are times when I listen to John Mayer, there is this song called "Gravity" it has the sweetest tone and listen to it when I am feeling the blues. Hip hop is also in my iPod, Common, Lupe Fiasco, Drake, J.Cole, Wiz Khalifa, to name a few bump through my headphones....more

I love SEX

Sex is natural and apart of life. Is it the most important..? No, but it feels great. As women we are always told to be seen and not heard. What happens in the sheets should stay within these walls. But men brag about this pussy and that pussy, well I can speak on this dick and that dick if I wanted to. Tradition is not my best friend and I feel being outspoken will make some women upset.Why you ask? Well......more

Why the pressure to get married?

 As a young lady I have found the pressure to become married and settle down with a family. Why? Take the last name of a man to keep him around? Get pregnant, raise kids, take care of him and try to establish a career? Why am I seen less of a woman if I am single and ready to mingle? Yes I know that there is a responsible way to fish out there in the sea, I am taking the precautions but at the same time why is it a complete shock if I tell a man that I am single....more